@ballen59: 'But you mean you can't find regular jeans that fit or low rise jeans that wont fit?'
I hate regular jeans... they fit like shit because I have large hips... so either I have to buy them super baggy or not at all... I do the not at all...
I do low rise because my hips fit & I can get some pretty decent short leg (I'm only 5'3")...
the problem with the low rise is that the top of my crack tries to escape when sitting... its just annoying but I deal with it... just something I can't change because of my size & stature...
You are exactly mentioning what I was thinking. If she want to dress not even sexy but just fashionable, it could be so that you could only fit those jeans that would look nice on you, but have the disadvantage that you could display some asscrack if you bend.
Although the other women here did mention some stores where they find nice jeans (i am not talking about those jeans that are way up till ur bellybutton

) but are normal for you to wear.
finding shirts is totally different story... I can't find them small enough!! WTF...
I'm only a small C cup with a super tiny frame... most shirt tend to be huge... I have got to the girls section from time to time... even petite sizes have changed to gigantic... its a fashion conspiracy against me!