buttsex with a HUGE one

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all girls told me that it hurts with a big one !!! some would never do it !

Yes, it does hurt. For me, it even hurts with a regular-sized one.

But that isn't going to stop me -- ever. In fact, AW and I were ass-fucking just a few hours ago. I'd never refuse, because I have some of my most powerful orgasms from anal. And what starts out as painful can become mind-blowingly pleasurable, if you let it. :eek:

All of my girlfriends have been opposed to the concept. I tried with one, who normally loved anal, and as soon as I got in she started yelling, "Take it out, take it out, it hurts!" Haven't tried with anyone again since. Which is fine, I like the front side better anyway :wink:

Were either of you stimulating her clit while you entered her? I find that accompanying anal penetration (with a butt plug, dildo, or cock) with clitoral stimulation makes it much easier to take. If I were you, I wouldn't give up on it before trying that.

my arse begs to differ.

much as i try, it get very upset at more than a tongue up there.

your arse must be better trained.

tried with company, straight, drunk, etc.
tried alone, hurts less if i go very slow...but about as erotic as shitting backwards. i don't get the appeal...and my arse was sore as hell the next day!

Dolfette, ditto to you with my comment about accompanying clitoral stimulation. If nothing else, try sometime putting something relatively slender in your ass while you masturbate in your normal fashion, and see what your orgasm feels like. You will most likely find it more powerful and intense.

A few more comments about anal sex:

1) Regardless of the size of the cock you expect to be fucked by, have a clean ass first if at all possible. I use an anal douche if I suspect we'll be having anal sex. You can buy them online or at an adult store. It makes us both feel more comfortable, and eliminates some of the less pleasant experiences (odours, etc.) that can occur with ass play.

2) If you are in a relationship with a well-endowed man and are afraid of anal, you may try using a succession of sizes of butt plugs or dildos. I find that after having taken a large butt plug, it is much easier to take a large cock.

3) Some people enjoy looking at a dilated asshole -- I do not. But to each his/her own. However, contrary to some myths and assumptions, anal gaping is not permanent and is not an automatic result of anal sex. The anal sphincter is a muscle, and can be tightened or relaxed at will. I make this point just because I'd hate for people to miss out on the joys of ass play just because they're afraid it will cause gaping or make their assholes "loose." It won't.
 

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But that isn't going to stop me -- ever. In fact, AW and I were ass-fucking just a few hours ago. Lucky Girl! :smile: I'd never refuse, because I have some of my most powerful orgasms from anal. Me too! And what starts out as painful can become mind-blowingly pleasurable, if you let it. :eek: I find the pain never lasts more than a minute or two. But the pleasure and ecstasy of my analgasms crashing through my body like large waves can go on and on.
 

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Dolfette, ditto to you with my comment about accompanying clitoral stimulation. If nothing else, try sometime putting something relatively slender in your ass while you masturbate in your normal fashion, and see what your orgasm feels like. You will most likely find it more powerful and intense.
tried it. it's ok but nothing wonderful.
A few more comments about anal sex:

1) Regardless of the size of the cock you expect to be fucked by, have a clean ass first if at all possible. I use an anal douche if I suspect we'll be having anal sex. You can buy them online or at an adult store. It makes us both feel more comfortable, and eliminates some of the less pleasant experiences (odours, etc.) that can occur with ass play.
goes without saying *shudder*
2) If you are in a relationship with a well-endowed man and are afraid of anal, you may try using a succession of sizes of butt plugs or dildos. I find that after having taken a large butt plug, it is much easier to take a large cock.
my butt plugs are gathering dust now.
got bored of trying to figure out the appeal.
3) Some people enjoy looking at a dilated asshole -- I do not. But to each his/her own. However, contrary to some myths and assumptions, anal gaping is not permanent and is not an automatic result of anal sex. The anal sphincter is a muscle, and can be tightened or relaxed at will. I make this point just because I'd hate for people to miss out on the joys of ass play just because they're afraid it will cause gaping or make their assholes "loose." It won't.
yup, just like fisting doesn't create bucketcunt.
i've not ruled out ever trying it again, but i've followed all that advice before and it's still not pleasure.

some people just don't like it *shrug*
 

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my arse begs to differ.

much as i try, it get very upset at more than a tongue up there.

your arse must be better trained.

I never looked at it that way but i guess that could do right. Ive always been intrigued by anal and i did have it during my 2nd sexual encounter so, yes, lots of practice and training since then.

But it really is a matter of masturbating alone anally with toys as well as with a man, getting yourself used to the feeling and being very comfortable with the person you are with. And going by that i wont say its never hurt me but never enough to the point where i refused or asked him to stop, and quite often then not i am the instigator
 

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most of the women i have had encounters with could not take me anally....men are a different story...men seem to be more daring when it comes to anal sex...they have a penchant to be penetrated by a guy with a large endowment...and will go to great lengths to satisfy that large endowment...men seem to be more capable of "riding" than women ...with anal sex that is....
 

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most of the women i have had encounters with could not take me anally....men are a different story...men seem to be more daring when it comes to anal sex...they have a penchant to be penetrated by a guy with a large endowment...and will go to great lengths to satisfy that large endowment...men seem to be more capable of "riding" than women ...with anal sex that is....

Hmmm, maybe mens butts are just made to handle larger cocks... :redface: :rolleyes:

As for riding a cock during anal sex, I've never tried it that way. :redface: :smile: For anal sex I usually prefer to be flat on my stomach, doggy style, or on my back with my legs over his shoulders.

 

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tried with company, straight, drunk, etc.
tried alone, hurts less if i go very slow...but about as erotic as shitting backwards. i don't get the appeal...and my arse was sore as hell the next day!

My wife dilates her ass and vagina with increasing diameters of dildos every day.

We are looking for a slippery long lasting lube that doesn't dry out as fast as Sliquid, we do not like the silicone lubes the ones we have tried have a strange texture and feel weird. Somewhere, maybe here I heard that Sweet Almond Oil was good? Any ideas are welcome.

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