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i want to surprise my boyfriend with a sex toy that we can use together. I was thinking just something basic like a cockring but am open to suggestions. What toys would you suggest and what cockrings would you recommend?
 

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I have a stainless steel 2-3/8" inside diameter one I wear around my cock and behind my balls. The important thing with a metal one is getting the right size. Have your BF get a full erection then with a cloth tape, measure where you want him to wear it i.e. base of cock or cock and behind balls. Pull it snug and take the reading. Get the closest size bigger then the measurement. Since it's a surprise, you will have to come up with a reason why you are measuring him, unless you already know his measurements. LOL!
 
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I have a stainless steel 2-3/8" inside diameter one I wear around my cock and behind my balls. The important thing with a metal one is getting the right size. Have your BF get a full erection then with a cloth tape, measure where you want him to wear it i.e. base of cock or cock and behind balls. Pull it snug and take the reading. Get the closest size bigger then the measurement. Since it's a surprise, you will have to come up with a reason why you are measuring him, unless you already know his measurements. LOL!
Thanks for the advice but I’m away at the moment so can’t even measure even if I think of an excuse haha
 
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The website kink.com features extreme porn, but they also have a great sex accessories store with quality made toys at a fair price. I highly recommend it.
Thanks I’ll take a look. Any toys you would recommend to buy as a surprise
 

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Thanks I’ll take a look. Any toys you would recommend to buy as a surprise

For a surprise gift, you can't go wrong with a steel cock cage. I think if you check the site out there is plenty there to be surprised with - it all depends on what you and your love really like.
 
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For a surprise gift, you can't go wrong with a steel cock cage. I think if you check the site out there is plenty there to be surprised with - it all depends on what you and your love really like.
I want something that we can use together that’s why I was thinking a cockring as it would make it better for both of us. Do you have any cockring recommendations - there are so many out there
 
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Anything by Oxballs is pretty good, though they don't last long - tend to split - or maybe that's just with my energetic use...! ;-)
 
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cock rings are nice for the guys. I liked mine. My wife wasn't crazy about it. I would recommend a Fleshlight. You can use it together, or he can use it when he's alone. It is a great toy. He would really like it and would be impressed that you bought it for him.
 
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I want something that we can use together that’s why I was thinking a cockring as it would make it better for both of us. Do you have any cockring recommendations - there are so many out there

I personally don't have a brand preference. Surprisingly Consumer Reports has done almost no evaluations in this segment of the market (LOL). When I'm in an adult store I look for quality and heavy materials that will hold up and will not cause issues due to shoddy constriction. The thing I like about kink.com's on line store is everything id heavyweight and designed to really be used. My ex liked their e-stim toys and we never had any issues with them. They offer a lot of toys in stainless steel that are not cheap, but really well made and durable. There is a lot to choose from there. Everyone's taste are a little different so just browsing can give you a great idea of what is available.
 
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steel cockrings are lovely- but they need to be sized right or they could cause a huge and embarrassing problem-

Leather cockrings or ball stretchers are also nice and they can be taken off.

If your boyfriend is shaved, then a silicone cockring may be a safer alternative... but they can really yank on hair.

And I would avoid the Neoprene cockrings like the plague- about 30% of people will have an allergic reaction to neoprene in prolonged contact with the skin... not worth the risk.


You can also get steel cockrings that split into two halves that are screwed together. these have the advantage of being easier to get off when the erection won't subside or if they turn out to be the wrong size.
https://www.amazon.com/Couture-Smoo...lit+cockring&qid=1554182744&s=hpc&sr=1-7&th=1

My favorite sex toy was always a good ball stretcher... if steel, get the kind that are rounded on the inside edges of the ring.

https://www.amazon.com/TheChainGang..._2?_encoding=UTF8&refRID=XCY6W3ETEPT4X4PVY9B6
https://www.amazon.com/TheChainGang...6W3ETEPT4X4PVY9B6&refRID=XCY6W3ETEPT4X4PVY9B6

they chafe less- but- again, size is critical- so you might opt for the ball stretchers that are in the from of leather Tubes filled with lead shot. they wrap around the scrotum gently- weigh a lot- and usually have two or three sets to snap closures and so are size adjustable.
https://www.amazon.com/TheChainGang...d_r=MNJ67J288B1CHPYQXXFT&qid=1554182706&s=hpc


Lastly- you can't go wrong with an NJoy 2.0 stainless buttplug.
https://www.amazon.com/Njoy-Pure-Pl...keywords=njoy+2.0&qid=1554182834&s=hpc&sr=1-9
 
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steel cockrings are lovely- but they need to be sized right or they could cause a huge and embarrassing problem-

Leather cockrings or ball stretchers are also nice and they can be taken off.

If your boyfriend is shaved, then a silicone cockring may be a safer alternative... but they can really yank on hair.

And I would avoid the Neoprene cockrings like the plague- about 30% of people will have an allergic reaction to neoprene in prolonged contact with the skin... not worth the risk.


You can also get steel cockrings that split into two halves that are screwed together. these have the advantage of being easier to get off when the erection won't subside or if they turn out to be the wrong size.
https://www.amazon.com/Couture-Smooth-Harder-Lasting-Erections/dp/B073TF3TXR/ref=sr_1_7?keywords=split+cockring&qid=1554182744&s=hpc&sr=1-7&th=1

My favorite sex toy was always a good ball stretcher... if steel, get the kind that are rounded on the inside edges of the ring.

https://www.amazon.com/TheChainGang..._2?_encoding=UTF8&refRID=XCY6W3ETEPT4X4PVY9B6
https://www.amazon.com/TheChainGang...6W3ETEPT4X4PVY9B6&refRID=XCY6W3ETEPT4X4PVY9B6

they chafe less- but- again, size is critical- so you might opt for the ball stretchers that are in the from of leather Tubes filled with lead shot. they wrap around the scrotum gently- weigh a lot- and usually have two or three sets to snap closures and so are size adjustable.
https://www.amazon.com/TheChainGang...d_r=MNJ67J288B1CHPYQXXFT&qid=1554182706&s=hpc


Lastly- you can't go wrong with an NJoy 2.0 stainless buttplug.
https://www.amazon.com/Njoy-Pure-Pl...keywords=njoy+2.0&qid=1554182834&s=hpc&sr=1-9
Thanks this is awesome
 

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I want something that we can use together that’s why I was thinking a cockring as it would make it better for both of us. Do you have any cockring recommendations - there are so many out there

Cockrings can be decorative, or functional.

A ring can be somewhat loose and still be very decorative, even if it is just plain polished steel.

But, to be functional - that is, create a harder, fatter, and longer lasting erection - it must be sized "just right". Too loose, and it serves no purpose other than decoration. Too tight, and he ends up in the emergency room where they try to cut it off before permanent damage is done to his genitals.

How about a butt plug?
 

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Cockrings can be decorative, or functional.

A ring can be somewhat loose and still be very decorative, even if it is just plain polished steel.

But, to be functional - that is, create a harder, fatter, and longer lasting erection - it must be sized "just right". Too loose, and it serves no purpose other than decoration. Too tight, and he ends up in the emergency room where they try to cut it off before permanent damage is done to his genitals.

How about a butt plug?
Is a butt plug an appropriate gift for a top? And will that give any pleasure to me
 

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Cockrings can be decorative, or functional.

A ring can be somewhat loose and still be very decorative, even if it is just plain polished steel.

But, to be functional - that is, create a harder, fatter, and longer lasting erection - it must be sized "just right". Too loose, and it serves no purpose other than decoration. Too tight, and he ends up in the emergency room where they try to cut it off before permanent damage is done to his genitals.

How about a butt plug?


Yikes!

Why not stay on the safer side and get one of those vibrating fleshlight or cock vibrator?