This situation is both a bit sad and dangerous at the same time. The preteen and teen years are really a difficult time for many people. A young man that is above average endowed, even slightly questioning his sexuality, has even more to deal with.
I know that most will say that they need to find peers their own age to discuss these issues with, but in reality, they have less of a field to search in then the majority out there. Taking into consideration the percentage of the population that are lucky enough to be uncommonly endowed, and that it is already extremely hard for this age group to find someone that is willing to seriously approach these subjects, imagine how hard it is to find someone his own age, that is experiencing the same concerns. Heck, most don't even know how they feel, much less be able to help someone else work through their feelings.
I can see why they would search out adults. Especially someone who appeared to be much more beyond his years in his mannerisms. It's unfortunate that as adults, we live under the nasty "pedo" umbrella, that is meant to be there to protect these young men from the monsters that would take advantage of them, but also prevents those of us that genuinely offer to help from doing so without the fear of being unfairly accused.
I can see why Rob and the Mods must set limits, however I feel very bad for track and others like him. It seemed that track had some very mature issues that he was trying to sort through, along with the normal ones that would normally accompany someone of his age.
track, if you are indeed still visiting this site as an observer, I think that, that is a good idea. At some point, someone will post a question / problem that you can associate with, and the replies could help. It's only a couple of months before you can actively participate, then as you can see by previous posts, you will be eargerly welcomed back.
Take Care Bud
