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Hey ladies,

Just a quick question, I'm super in to M4F C2C play, but I've been mostly unsuccessful in finding it on the site. What are the best places to look/advertise if I'm looking to find a female to partner up with for some casual C2C?

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Well, I can say that I don't imagine New Member Introductions, Announcements/Questions/Suggestions and Ask a Woman are going to get you very far with trying to find someone to C2C with, and I see you already found the Webcam/Cyber Connections section. So. There is that. Trying to find someone to C2C with and a Webcam/Cyber Connections section seem to match, don't ya think? :p
 
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Hah, I'll admit I got a little cheeky with how many different places I posted to! Trying to cover all bases, I suppose..? :p. On the topic of this forum in particular, I had hoped to also possible gain some insight in to why exactly the popularity for it seems to be so low these days, I think.
 
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Hah, I'll admit I got a little cheeky with how many different places I posted to! Trying to cover all bases, I suppose..? :p. On the topic of this forum in particular, I had hoped to also possible gain some insight in to why exactly the popularity for it seems to be so low these days, I think.

For one thing, there aren't that many women on the site. There are way, way, WAY more men. A fair amount of the few women that are on the site are in a monogamous relationship. Further, of the few women on here who are single or non-monogamous, many of them lack any interest in C2C.

Lastly, for various and sundry reasons, the amount of women who are on the site is in many cases dwindling. Especially since 2018 to the present. Even if we don't completely leave, we remove photos, lock our albums down so most people can't view them, and only tend to spend time in a couple of sections on the forum.

*shrug* ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

You may have better luck on a different site, honestly. It isn't something I enjoy anymore, but I used to do video chat. I did video chat a little here but it wasn't one on one, I also spent time on cam4 doing shows for free, did paid cam shows on a site that wasn't cam4, and did one on one video chats for free/fun on Skype. That time has long since passed for me, though.
 
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For one thing, there aren't that many women on the site. There are way, way, WAY more men. A fair amount of the few women that are on the site are in a monogamous relationship. Further, of the few women on here who are single or non-monogamous, many of them lack any interest in C2C.

Lastly, for various and sundry reasons, the amount of women who are on the site is in many cases dwindling. Especially since 2018 to the present. Even if we don't completely leave, we remove photos, lock our albums down so most people can't view them, and only tend to spend time in a couple of sections on the forum.

*shrug* ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

You may have better luck on a different site, honestly. It isn't something I enjoy anymore, but I used to do video chat. I did video chat a little here but it wasn't one on one, I also spent time on cam4 doing shows for free, did paid cam shows on a site that wasn't cam4, and did one on one video chats for free/fun on Skype. That time has long since passed for me, though.

I've heard the 'dwindling numbers' suggestion quite a few times around these parts, it seems I may have joined at the wrong time, unfortunately. What other sites might you recommend?

And well it's still very interesting (to me at least), to know why some people did or didn't carry it on, or what they feel they previously got out of it that they now don't. So that was a really interesting reply, thank you!

I've done on and off cam shows myself for a few years, made some friends through that, which much like you, transitioned over to Skype, but those tend to fizzle out as people get busier, I find.
 
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I've heard the 'dwindling numbers' suggestion quite a few times around these parts, it seems I may have joined at the wrong time, unfortunately. What other sites might you recommend?

And well it's still very interesting (to me at least), to know why some people did or didn't carry it on, or what they feel they previously got out of it that they now don't. So that was a really interesting reply, thank you!

I've done on and off cam shows myself for a few years, made some friends through that, which much like you, transitioned over to Skype, but those tend to fizzle out as people get busier, I find.

I'm very much out of the loop for what the new or current hotness is for that kind of thing, so I haven't the faintest idea. There are women who do enjoy C2C on here, but I think at least some of them do it so they can later direct individuals to where they get paid for camming, like on chaturbate. There are women who just enjoy C2C on here for funsies, but last I knew it was a really small amount of people.
 
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I'm one of the single ones, and like Fade said, I simply have no interest (no offense, I'm sure you're lovely). I've just been here too long, any curiosities I had about it were satiated long ago. I barely even look at guy galleries, i only *maybe* look if I've noticed his posts on the boards and we start building a rapport. This place isn't about seeking sexy encounters for me, as hard as that may be to understand.

That said, maybe try our sister site? Or fetlife? Do they have a cyber connection area? (I don't know)
Perhaps adult friend finder. I'd say craigslist but they don't have the personals anymore. Hmm, I dunno. Wish I had more.
 
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I'm one of the single ones, and like Fade said, I simply have no interest (no offense, I'm sure you're lovely). I've just been here too long, any curiosities I had about it were satiated long ago. I barely even look at guy galleries, i only *maybe* look if I've noticed his posts on the boards and we start building a rapport. This place isn't about seeking sexy encounters for me, as hard as that may be to understand.

That said, maybe try our sister site? Or fetlife? Do they have a cyber connection area? (I don't know)
Perhaps adult friend finder. I'd say craigslist but they don't have the personals anymore. Hmm, I dunno. Wish I had more.

Hey, it's not for everyone - I think it would lose it's appeal if there wasn't a level of 'chase' involved. Although, I'll admit, there's chase and then there's an endless run. We're leaning far more toward the latter, at the moment.

Fetlife seems to be suffering from much the same problem, or so it seemed when I went on there quite some time ago. Perhaps I was using it wrong? And I'm sure this is a daft question, but what would the sister site be?

Thanks!
 
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I'm one of the single ones, and like Fade said, I simply have no interest (no offense, I'm sure you're lovely). I've just been here too long, any curiosities I had about it were satiated long ago. I barely even look at guy galleries, i only *maybe* look if I've noticed his posts on the boards and we start building a rapport. This place isn't about seeking sexy encounters for me, as hard as that may be to understand.

That said, maybe try our sister site? Or fetlife? Do they have a cyber connection area? (I don't know)
Perhaps adult friend finder. I'd say craigslist but they don't have the personals anymore. Hmm, I dunno. Wish I had more.

FetLife doesn't specifically have a web connection area. There are groups for people to meet others into online fun, but it is firstly a fetish/bdsm site, so it's not everyone's cuppa tea :)

I did a quick search just now, and there's an "online playmate" group with over 35k people in it. How many are active, I've no idea. The description for the group is: Seeking an online Dom, Domme, Master, Mistress, sub, slave or switch? Looking for a long distance play partner, lover, fuck buddy, FWB, cum slut or booty call? The aim of this group is to help like-minded people connect with one another to fulfill urges or fantasies they would like to experience in a safe, virtual way.
 
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Hey, it's not for everyone - I think it would lose it's appeal if there wasn't a level of 'chase' involved. Although, I'll admit, there's chase and then there's an endless run. We're leaning far more toward the latter, at the moment.

Fetlife seems to be suffering from much the same problem, or so it seemed when I went on there quite some time ago. Perhaps I was using it wrong? And I'm sure this is a daft question, but what would the sister site be?

Thanks!


The link is at the bottom of the page

Correction: should be. I'm on a phone right now. Can't see it. But it's there on my desktop.
 

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This probably is the wrong site. Women are fairly thin on the ground here and sexual interest in men has really diminished over the years. There are some lovely men here, but they tend to be married or gay. Many of the men here are seriously disturbed, and like Fade said, the women have removed photos or locked down their galleries. Sexual fun is gone.

Personally, cam “fun” was never fun anyway. It was a curiosity that I tried once. It was more like watching paint dry. I’d rather do laundry, actually. But good luck!
 
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The whole c2c thing makes me feel like I need to perform for whomever I'm camming with and when a woman does cam u get everyone clicking when u don't want them to so it puts me off I sometimes prefer to just watch with no pressure on myself but I'd rather watch in person as then I'd be able to help out
 

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Myself I just don't get the whole cam thing, it doesn't do anything for me. My husband and myself enjoy a full and varied sex life which so far has always been fresh and exciting, maybe that's what kinda makes cam boring to me.
There's gonna be women out there who do like it, just keep searching hunni.
 
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I used to be a big-time cam2cam chatter the lpsg chat room. I registered here in 07 and I can't say there was ever a good time to join lpsg to try to land a woman. Some of us used to have fun and be playful tease the girls and the guys in the chat who wanted to watch our cam but after a while I grew tired of what were once suggestions turning into demands of how I needed to perform on cam. I don't like to be told what to do. Anyone who watched those shows should have been thankful that they were getting to watch them for free. My husband and I even had sex on cam several times noticed most of the comments were trying to tell him what to do with me that's not what it was supposed to be about.
 

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I'm one of the single ones, and like Fade said, I simply have no interest (no offense, I'm sure you're lovely). I've just been here too long, any curiosities I had about it were satiated long ago. I barely even look at guy galleries, i only *maybe* look if I've noticed his posts on the boards and we start building a rapport. This place isn't about seeking sexy encounters for me, as hard as that may be to understand.

That said, maybe try our sister site? Or fetlife? Do they have a cyber connection area? (I don't know)
Perhaps adult friend finder. I'd say craigslist but they don't have the personals anymore. Hmm, I dunno. Wish I had more.
In some areas, there’s a site called DoubleList that fills the personals gap.

As for any video play, it’s my guy only.