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First, we can start by building a woman's self-esteem at home when they are young. My daughter is not going to be a sex toy with the need for a man to treat her poorly. Second, there are so many people who bully anyone they see as less than themselves that we may never get to them all in this lifetime. So pick your battles wisely. Third, I stick up for the underdog in every confrontation and I never do it for something as small as my ego. I do because I am the victim. I will say that some women have begun to take the equal word and replace it with alpha. This is not going to help the cause. Men have earned the lost respect I suppose. But I was not the one who cheated and left home with five children and no child support. I lost visitation and due process with my daughter because the mother said she owns the courts and the system. When I left from the abuse she made sure I would never see her again. Women have been putting stuff on the web bragging about cheating on men in the service of this country and others have bragged about getting knocked up by a 3rd man and quoted it as the trifecta. We are human and as such we make a road that others have to travel on. Don't assume because I am a man that I have broken girls hearts. They have done some damage to me as well and I don't assume you are just like they are. And to be clear, my ego means nothing to me. My self worth does. View attachment 1154627
From reading your post, you are obviously hurting. You started out so well. You had my attention with your first sentence. The second sentence about your daughter not being raised to be a sex toy, maybe not so much, but okay, I'm gonna keep reading.
But alas, all the stuff you wrote after that is about a situation you experienced. I'm sorry for what you went through, with a specific woman in your life. You state you are a victim. Again, I'm sorry for what you went through. I truly hope you can get some help and work through your obvious pain.
But this thread is in Women's Issues. Not Men's Issues. The leap you made from "She done me wrong" to "All women done me wrong" is just pathetic. And has no bearing on this thread. What you've done is disrespectful. And not just to the women here.
Sure, there are shit men and shit women out there. But don't bring your generalizations in here. Take your specific issues to the Ask a Man forum. Or the Ask a Straight Man forum. Seriously. You'll stand a much better chance of getting some feedback that may help you work though your angst.
I wish you well.