Calm and Cool vs Reckless Abandon Masturbation Approaches

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This is for everyone.

I recently had experience with a new buddy of mine where we were watching some porn and decided to masturbate while we watched. Not touching each other, just two guys masturbating to porn in the same room.

The interesting thing about it was our different approaches to masturbation. Had his dick not been out, you wouldn't have known he was masturbating, I on the other hand curled my toes arched my back and really got into it.

When we came, again you couldn't tell. No facial expression not body movement just some cum and that's it. I on the other hand was shaking like I had a seizure face contorted etc lol.

After the experience he laughed and was like "what the hell man?" so we talked about it. At first I thought he was shy and didn't want to get into it in front of someone else but turns out that's just how he masturbates. I told him I always had to get into it because I thought it heightened the orgasm.

So my question to you is do you get into it when you masturbate or do you just wank to get the nut?

The Build Up (edging after work) - XTube Porn Video - oasi900
just an example of what I'm talking about

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I would love to take the calm and cool edging approach, but most of the time there is simply not enough time. However, I am not reckless either. I guess somewhere in the middle?
 

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Shit, I know the feeling. One of my college roommates and I would suck and jerk together. When he came, the only thing he did was close his eyes. No sounds, shaking, nor change in his breathing. I, on the other hand, get a bit carried away if into the scene. We would make fun of each others way of cumming. Fortunately we would get to retry it about once a week :)
 

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Hmm. Depends on a few factors for me. I'd say I'm mostly in the middle though. I'm a lot more "intense" and vocal if I'm jacking off or messing around with some body. I'm more quiet by myself, but I've realized the older I get, the more my body shakes and spasms through orgasms.
 

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I feel like, if you don't let it all out when you have an orgasam, (screaming, facial
expressions, whatever...) then you're cheating yourself of an orgasam.

When my best friend and I jack off eachother, he lets out a fair amout of moans and groans the closer he gets. It mostly shows in his facial expressions. I, on the other hand, almost have a seizure. Lol!

Also, HOT video.
 

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I certainly make some noise when I come, part of the experience. But I don't go crazy; lots of videos are over-the-top on sex grunts, etc, solo and pairs, and, like in other things like shaving, viewers think this is sex. Not really, it's porn.
 

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Greetings culture to culture. Certains, such as in East, are as low-touch, in which men are more likely to blow to each other. Other vultures, such as the Central, the Middle, and the Med, are pasterized by a market physical macy between men. Still other cultures, such as amalgam between the two, and the male hung is seen as reflective of those better.
 

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Yeah quickies definitely don't get me off the same way. But I guess you all are right about the time energy factor. It's fun to get into it though.