Loads of people cam, I have done myself, but if you're in a partnership and your partner isn't aware of your fun and games how do you view it, is it infidelity or is it just a form of interactive porn with no real connection? Should you always ok it with your partner, have you caught your partner doing it when you had no knowledge they were doing it and how did you react? Or do you view it like masturbation, your partner doesn't need to know every time you do it?