Camming with guys - the truth

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  1. D_fbuiv67tgo

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    Hi ladies,

    Can I ask if any of you enjoy camming with guys who you don't know? I find it very easy to meet guys on here and other sites who are into jerking off on Skype etc, often without any chat at all! But women are much more reluctant: in fact beyond cam girls who infest dating sites I've not had any luck.

    Are women more interested in forming genuine connections before wanking and playing with a guy on cam? I'm also interested in getting to know women beforehand. But it's only ever guys who post Skype addresses on websites etc. Where do genuine women go if they want casual cam sex? Do they even want it? Or is it just men who are so promiscuous?

    Would love to hear your thoughts
     
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    How creepy
     
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  3. dolfette

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    enter a chat room and you're besieged by guys who think that you are a camgirl who is duty bound to perform for them personally on demand. for most women it totally kills the sexy vibe to be treated like that.
     
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    I personally don't have any interest in camming with a stranger.
    I once bought a webcam years ago for a friend who was deployed and have only ever cammed with friends so far- and I don't mean camming as in giving a show or showing myself naked. I only show my face on cam and maybe some cleavage when I am dressed up for going out.
    The only reason I might let a stranger see my cam would be to verify myself on here as a woman- maybe in the Real Ladies Group.
     
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    A guy showing a wang on cam does nothing to me. At - ALL.
    If I cannot relate to the person behind the dick, I'm not going to get anything out of it.
    So why would I want to watch a random guy on cam?

    Most guys are not very interesting when their mind is set on showing wang to random women over the internetz. Most guys see us as wank fodder. I realize there's a lot of generalization in that, but it's what I experience most.

    Doesn't mean I don't occasionally give it a try. Mostly disappointing, but when we hit off well, and I really like the person I'm talking to, then him putting up a little show can be pretty enjoyable. Happens less than 1 times out of 10 though. And I hate dealing with the "please watch my cam" requests or "private chat" requests.
     
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  6. dolfette

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    this too.

    unless i dig the guy, it's just a lump of meat.
     
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    There are several women who perform their own solo show here; Fancy, SO CAL Babe and others to start. You need to be patient as men obviously out number women here and men are obviously more exhibitionist as well as voyeurs.

    Either way enjoy the view its FREE no Head Games (well at least not the one on your shoulders) and no STD's
     
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    If it's a guy I have some connection with (ie not just a 'faceless dick') then yes, I love it. I've only had the desire to with maybe 2-3 guys though otherwise it does nothing for me.

    So, if a guy randomly emails me to ask if he can show me. The answer is always no.
     
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    Ya, I've never got this?? I've seen the women have to say over and over again, "If I don't approve you to my cam, don't keep requesting", or the guys saying over and over again "Show me your tits", etc., in almost a demanding way.

    I don't get how they think that's going to get them anywhere?

    I love for women to come into chat. They're usually fun and nice to talk and joke with. But, I can see why many don't, or don't want to come back once they've experienced it. :frown1:
     
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    Tits or GTFO
     
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    I didn't come to this site to cam with guys I am in a great relationship. I actually came to this site thinking it was a genuine support group not a porn site.
     
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    I'd prefer not to get to know you as it would ruin my mood.
    I'd rather see face and cock, not just one or the other only for hours on end.
    I don't care if you are paranoid that you're going to get caught.
    I don't care if you have "roommates" and that's why you can't cam.
    Ask me next week I will probably be out of camming entirely because I will be in a lot of post-surgical pain.

    I wrote a guide to camming in my blog for more information on what a lot of ladies prefer to see. I know that's not what you asked. But since I'm not single and I'm not available, as long as someone entertains me with intellectual or light hearted, witty conversations or cams really well....I have no dog in the game.
     
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    the whole "watch me wank" thing is so lost on me.

    Random Dude: hey, LPSG member with female gender ticked.. watch me touch my penis
    ML: urm, thanks... but.. no.
    RD: watch me touch my cock.
    ML: dude, you're touching it already. i don't see why i have to be involved.
    RD: it's hot.
    ML: i'll take your word for it.
    RD: fucking bitch.
    ML: *blink*
    RD: hey, LPSG member with female gender checked... watch me cam.
    ML:i'm the same woman you asked like 5 mins ago. i said no.
    RD: stuck up bitch.
    ML: i can see why wanking means so much to you. :smile:

    i like watching solo porn. cuz you see the whole dude.. and the cameras are much better quality. most webcams turn the wank hand into a blur-of-wank-fury. kinda impressive in a superman faster than a speeding bullet way.. not so much for enjoying the show.
     
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    That cracked me up seriously. You are right on I'm afraid. ;)
     
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    LOL Mickey, but so true :rolleyes:
     
  16. D_fbuiv67tgo

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    Thanks for all your replies, it's genuinely interesting to hear people's thoughts on the subject. I also read your blogpost Mademoiselle Rouge and found it very illuminating - you're a good writer, and funny too!

    For the record I've never been one of those "show me your tits darling" guys. There are men other than that (i mean myself!) on Internet sites who struggle because of the Neanderthal cock jockeys. It's a minefield out there :)

    Thanks again
    Howie
     
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    And, after a few seconds, you hear the sonic BOOM!!! :biggrin1:

    Oh, and by THAT time.. it's just too damned late to watch the show... Like showing up for an out-door concert, getting to the beer garden after they've removed the tents... and left only the mostly-empty plastic beer cups all over the ground.
     
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    I think guys need to see it in reverse. Would you really want to watch a close up of a vagina being played with for hours on end on a grainy webcam? I guess some guys would want that, but not the majority. Just like you want to see their whole body, if a woman is interested in camming with you, they want to see the whole package too.
     
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    ^^^i like this guy!
     
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    wnt 2 c my cok?
     
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