Camming with guys - the truth

[L_egit]

I think like Fancy I am a bit of an exhibitionist too. that's probably the main reason why I cam. I don't really go into chat unless I am going to switch on my cam lol and I'm usually in chat quite a lot!

I think the important think to remember is that, yeah it is an "adult sex" chat room, but you still need to be respectful. I never hound down women to try and view my cam, if it happens it happens, I also don't usually cum on cam either. I think if you are a woman in the chat room and you open a cam you know what you are expecting to see. As long as the level of chat you are looking for is reciprocated then its fine. and usually quite a lot of fun!

With this said I think its also important to remember that's its not always all about the pervy guy trying to get a woman to watch him. I get hounded by women (verified women, even ones that have posted in this thread) telling me to get up, move around, show this, do that. So, not that I am sure we were, but its not all about desperate guys looking for gratification when they need to ejaculate.

I generally only keep my face on cam when I'm in the room, and I've had people tell me to get my cock on the screen, female and male. In fact, I've had a lot of people pretty much demand it, then leave the moment I refuse.

Its pretty silly that this thread is a one way deal, in that way.

I would, however, say that most of the point which people have brought up regarding being a person towards someone else are accurate. I've had maybe 5 people attempt to get to know me before asking for anything, and its gone very well for all of them. Why? Because it made me feel comfortable and like what I was doing was valued.

I think this probably goes both ways, but I can only speak for myself.

I think the OP is correct in his assumptions that MOST women need to know someone a little before just clicking the cam. I've clicked impulsively, but mostly when the show gets to boobs only.

Fancy, your boobs don't warrant an 'only' after them.

 

[blonk]

I think the fact that someone has succumbed to watching them even just once has turned them into a monster about wanting to be watched everytime they blow a load. There are guys in the chat who blow multiple loads in there every day of the week. They can't imagine doing it alone anymore. They don't have to. Because some sucker is playing into their fantasy of being watched without them having to put out more than minimal effort.

Part of what I enjoy about camming is the feedback. I know that I get more feedback when I'm doing what people like to see most. I do have my limitations. I don't show pussy on cam, if someone begs I still don't do it. If they want to see that they can go elsewhere. But a majority of the time when I am there to be seen in a sexual way on purpose and I have more than a couple of minutes, you better bet I have all my ducks in a row to make it an awesome experience for everyone.

I also don't turn on my cam everytime I'm in the chatroom as to not to get people bored with my appearance.

But I get asked all the time even years after watching someone just once "Hey you remember me?" and I'm like, uhhhh no, because I didn't see anything like a face to burn who you were in my memory. I can remember the quirkiest thing about people if I see it, but when it comes to cock and balls. They all pretty much look the same after seeing a half dozen or so.

If you want an audience, do what it takes to be remembered so they will watch you again and again and again.

What's up your ass about people getting more than you think they deserve? Especially if it's some dude that's wanking alone? Is he taking away viewers from your cam or something?

 

[AlteredEgo]

What's up your ass about people getting more than you think they deserve? Especially if it's some dude that's wanking alone? Is he taking away viewers from your cam or something?

What's so important about your disapproval of a post from a banned account from 5 years ago in a thread created by a disabled account 5 years ago that you felt it warranted resurrecting a thread that's been inactive for 5 years?

 

[blonk]

What's so important about your disapproval of a post from a banned account from 5 years ago in a thread created by a disabled account 5 years ago that you felt it warranted resurrecting a thread that's been inactive for 5 years?

well jeez, not all of us are paying such close attention, forum....dungeon master.

 

[ronin001]

Ya, I've never got this?? I've seen the women have to say over and over again, "If I don't approve you to my cam, don't keep requesting", or the guys saying over and over again "Show me your tits", etc., in almost a demanding way.

I don't get how they think that's going to get them anywhere?

I love for women to come into chat. They're usually fun and nice to talk and joke with. But, I can see why many don't, or don't want to come back once they've experienced it. :frown1:

<<<< Not a woman; but Country pretty much typed, what I generally think about aggressive male members in chat ( Not Kret )

 

[AlteredEgo]

well jeez, not all of us are paying such close attention, forum....dungeon master.

So... you just spew negativity in response to people without regard for context? That's kind of ugly, no?

 

[ronin001]

well jeez, not all of us are paying such close attention, forum....dungeon master.

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This is technically a Woman's Issues thread, a place for women to answer questions and post their opinions. Guys are welcome to post here as well; but keeping with the spirit of the thread, hopefully the male comments will be supportive or at least border line respectful

Just my opinion

 

[sumbodii]

Wow, what a blast from the past! So many old names haven't seen in ages. I especially remember @dolfette . I never spoke to her but her posts could always raise a smile with how fiery her responses were

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I have to chime back in on this issue. I don't cam with anyone but friends anymore and it's never sexual. There is no one I would watch wank. Been there done that and it all looks the same.

So what's up my

What's up your ass about people getting more than you think they deserve? Especially if it's some dude that's wanking alone? Is he taking away viewers from your cam or something?

You have no idea how nice that post was coming from me and all. I have more to add, most guys in the chat are looking for free live porn to wank to in order to show off and save a buck at the same time. If he is lucky he might get the attention of a new chick who still finds guys wanking interesting. Women get tired of entitled men demanding they do their every command on cam and give her solely all of her attention while he edges for hours. Every straight guy in the room is doing this to her. And this is why we lump most of you guys together because so many of you think we enjoy seeing you jerk off with the same ball cam view with your disembodied cock on screen. That's mostly gay men that get off on it, which is why more gay men will get into watching male masturbating than women by far.

I am an intellectual creature that gets off on the finer things in life, like intelligent conversation. If you want to turn my ilk talk about parallel universes or something equivantely interesting. There's guys here who have good report with women not because they have the biggest dick or look good wanking, it's because they understand that women require this shit to see you as something other than a horny, slobbering neanderthal. Kapeesh?


Pardon the irregular wording. Autocorrect and whatnot.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

And before you say, why are you at a big dick website if you aren't here to look at dicks. You see, for most women here we are looking for a big brained person who happens to have a big cock too. One is required always to pique our interests and it's not the big dick. It's the brain. The big dick is the cherry on top. The cherry would have nothing to sit atop of if there weren't any goddamn icecream. If you get nothing else from what I said please remember women like icecream.

 

[blonk]

ronin001) im calling out someone being an asshole then get an asshole response from the aptly named ego addict and her parade of cooking pics (on a dick site).... and im the asshole?

tattooed goddess) "it's not the big dick. It's the brain" try a big brain forum then? unless...

 

[950483]

No icecream there then.

and im the asshole?

Yes, you are.

Luckily I am gifted with the ability to turn any issue into a women's issue , and the issue here, IN CASE YOU MISSED IT BLONK, is male entitlement.

I am here for my own reasons, and not to pander to the demands and expectations of a bunch of morons. Another reason why I don't want to cam is that some women are here to make money, so I will not be giving away freebies. When I first joined there was someone I cammed with regularly for a while off site, and the only way I can see that I might do that again in future is if it was again a mutual thing and I was single.

Another thing: if we only ever spoke about big dicks on a big dick site that would get boring and would completely destroy the collective delusion you all seem to share that everything is about your penis.

 

[326807]

I didn't come to this site to cam with guys I am in a great relationship. I actually came to this site thinking it was a genuine support group not a porn site.

it's not a support group..it's basically a bunch of gay and closeted gay guys...I have met some nice ladies here ,but most seem totally uninterested in COCK at all..I've tried to find a fwb in my area but again mostly gay men hitting on me.
I keep trying to get the moderators to disable my account..but they never respond.

 

[bluebassett]

it's not a support group..it's basically a bunch of gay and closeted gay guys...I have met some nice ladies here ,but most seem totally uninterested in COCK at all..I've tried to find a fwb in my area but again mostly gay men hitting on me.
I keep trying to get the moderators to disable my account..but they never respond.

Hey... Were not all closeted "gay guys." I think the word is Empathy. When you see another cock shoot off, you can identify with the feeling. It's not "All Gay..."

 

[Shackleford]

it's not a support group..it's basically a bunch of gay and closeted gay guys...I have met some nice ladies here ,but most seem totally uninterested in COCK at all..I've tried to find a fwb in my area but again mostly gay men hitting on me.
I keep trying to get the moderators to disable my account..but they never respond.

I disagree about it not being a support group. There's plenty of discussion to be found to that end if a person is interested in it.

In all fairness, the name of the site is not "Large Penis Hookup Place."

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

ronin001) im calling out someone being an asshole then get an asshole response from the aptly named ego addict and her parade of cooking pics (on a dick site).... and im the asshole?

tattooed goddess) "it's not the big dick. It's the brain" try a big brain forum then? unless...

It's much easier when a woman is looking for a smart guy with a big cock to go to a big cock website and find the intelligent guys than it is to go to a nerdy website trying to find the smart one with a big dick.

You're charming as can be btw. I'm sure the chicks are waiting in line for a catch like you.

 

[MissExhibitionist]

Hi

I must admit that I find cams totally sexless, but the guys seem to like it, fine I have no problem with that but please each to their own, do not expect everyone to like it, and I can tell you 100% (I hope other ladies agree) the fist time you send a message or contact someone " want to watch me jack off on cam" or "want to see me cum" is not a good first chat up line.

 

[blonk]

It's much easier when a woman is looking for a smart guy with a big cock to go to a big cock website and find the intelligent guys than it is to go to a nerdy website trying to find the smart one with a big dick.

You're charming as can be btw. I'm sure the chicks are waiting in line for a catch like you.

that you put one before the other places your claim in its proper light: that you're a liar and that you place more importance upon cock size than intelligence.

 

[blonk]

No icecream there then.


Yes, you are.

Luckily I am gifted with the ability to turn any issue into a women's issue , and the issue here, IN CASE YOU MISSED IT BLONK, is male entitlement.

I am here for my own reasons, and not to pander to the demands and expectations of a bunch of morons. Another reason why I don't want to cam is that some women are here to make money, so I will not be giving away freebies. When I first joined there was someone I cammed with regularly for a while off site, and the only way I can see that I might do that again in future is if it was again a mutual thing and I was single.

Another thing: if we only ever spoke about big dicks on a big dick site that would get boring and would completely destroy the collective delusion you all seem to share that everything is about your penis.

again, how am i the asshole for calling out an asshole and getting responded to by another asshole?

 

[blonk]

No icecream there then.


Yes, you are.

Luckily I am gifted with the ability to turn any issue into a women's issue , and the issue here, IN CASE YOU MISSED IT BLONK, is male entitlement.

I am here for my own reasons, and not to pander to the demands and expectations of a bunch of morons. Another reason why I don't want to cam is that some women are here to make money, so I will not be giving away freebies. When I first joined there was someone I cammed with regularly for a while off site, and the only way I can see that I might do that again in future is if it was again a mutual thing and I was single.

Another thing: if we only ever spoke about big dicks on a big dick site that would get boring and would completely destroy the collective delusion you all seem to share that everything is about your penis.

you have teh gift of turning every issue into a "swoon issue", as in everything is about you and no one else and it must be about you and how you feel about it to the detriment of everyone else. only you get to 'get' and everyone else is here for your benefit and none of their own. you're the asshole.