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You can't be a woman and expect the men to act reasonably without someone saying "then why are you here?"

I'm still a fucking intellectual. Intelligence is what impresses me. I've gotten a little crush a time or two on someone I don't find attractive physically because their brain was soooooo.....delicious.
 

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Reminds me of when I first tried chatroullete when I was younger only to be greeted by an army of dicks. I originally hoped to get over my shyness of girls and talk to maybe some random ones...but nah just dicks. Dicks, dicks, dicks, and more dicks.

I think guys might have more success treating the internet like real life. You wouldn't go up to a girl and be like "hey look at my big dick, you wanna watch me jerk off?" I would hope not. You'd at least try to woo her first. Personally I would find it weird to offer to jerk off for a stranger :\ Doesn't seem very fun.

Looks like I made the right call avoiding the chat section lol.
 

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There are some good moments in the chat. I've put on a burlesque show or two back in the day. I rarely make it into the chat anymore but if I'm there then there's going to be good conversations. If not, I leave.
 
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I've enjoyed watching guys on cam a time or two but nowadays I only do so occasinally.
If I had the time and energy to make a connection with someone so they'd be comfortable showing their whole body and face, then it would be more inviting to me.
I like having an element of fantasy at play to get me actively engaged and need to establish some dialog to know how involved I want to be or how much I feel like contributing.
 

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If I cannot relate to the person behind the dick, I'm not going to get anything out of it.

This pretty much sums it up for me.
Also he doesn't have to be thinking of me whilst he jerks off, but i do want to know he's doing it only for me. If it is a group session, then the intimacy is dead, and i have no interest n watching.
 

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...I would echo what most women ( verified) have already stated.

" seeing a total stranger wank in front of a web cam" does absolutely nothing for my libido. It's insulting when men ask women to perform for them via web cam.
If a man wants to garner my attention via voice (chat), demonstrating intelligence, wit, class and confidence, will get me every time.