I have been talking online to this somewhat older black man and he wants to top me. He send me his pic and although I have been drooling over it, it's 9.5 inches long, average thickness. He keeps telling me he is going to go all the way in my bottom with it. As a bottom, could I be at risk of being injured in any way by having a 9.5 incher all the way in me? This is a serious question, not a joke. Any info is appreciated.