Can a disability enhance a man's sex appeal?

[Kemistry]

If @IdeaOfOrder allows me I want to open a parenthesis about this forum:

Could having a seriously gigantic cock (10-12+ x 6-8+ girth) it be, in real everyday life, some kind of disability???

 

[Khegan]

If @IdeaOfOrder allows me I want to open a parenthesis about this forum:

Could having a seriously gigantic cock (10-12+ x 6-8+ girth) it be, in real everyday life, some kind of disability???

Since it is only a hypothetical as nothing of that size exists without surgical modification or some physical condition, I'm not sure it matters. Now, since both of those situations would render it in all practicality useless, I suppose it might be considered a disability then.

 

[sfcarlos65]

Born with mild cerebral palsy. Out since 1987, and have frequented bathhouses, sex clubs, hired both massuers and escorts. At least in bathhouses, there's always been chemistry with myself and the other person.

Just got back from EROS, here in San Francisco. Wouldn't you know, I met someone with cerebral palsy who used a wheelchair. We spoke for a bit, and then we played: (sucking nipples, kissing). We communicated with each other to make sure we were comfortable, it was very satisfying for both of us. We had a nice chat later.

 

[The Crimson Critic]

Just got back from EROS, here in San Francisco. Wouldn't you know, I met someone with cerebral palsy who used a wheelchair. We spoke for a bit, and then we played: (sucking nipples, kissing). We communicated with each other to make sure we were comfortable, it was very satisfying for both of us. We had a nice chat later.

Did you and him do anything else?

 

[P.B]

Dunno, however I always found British Paralympian Johnnie Peacock to be hot but I think that's because I find ginger men sexy, rather than anything about having a carbon-fibre leg, the point is that him being an amputee doesn't diminish his sex appeal for me.

 

[sfcarlos65]

Did you and him do anything else?

No, but were both happy.

 

[Urien]

I used to have a fuck buddy who lost both legs in a fire. He was extremely hot (pun!) otherwise.

He was a great kisser with a nice dick, but tbh I wouldn't have slept with him had I known from the beginning he had lost both limbs (long story). Glad I did though.

To answer the OT, the answer is no. I don't think disabilities enhance sex appeal for me.

 

[GuyStrokes]

Disability in another doesn't enhance for me but is not necessarily a turn-off.
I would like to meet a man that is attracted to me because of my disability and not in spite of it. Autism + Excessive Daytime Sleepiness. It would be nice to have a handsome daddy bear type man to sleep next to and for him to love me for it and find it erotic. It is hard to date when mostly asleep, and I would not choose to be solosexual.

 

[deleted21384931]

I'm a quad and would love to know that I am still sexually appealing.

 

[Kemistry]

I'm a quad and would love to know that I am still sexually appealing.

a sexy guy remains sexy even if he is in a wheelchair

 

[D-Andy]

Yeah, absolutely! A good example:

CUMPILATION OF CEREBRAL PALSY ORGASMS - ThisVid.com

 

[playklax01]

I've got a serious fetish for pectus excavatum, where the ribs grow inward creating a bowl shape on the chest. Haven't found a romantic partner with it yet, though. Also live gynecomastia--not full on man boobs, but puffy nipples.

I think Jack Merridew has that slightly. It's not extreme, but his chest always looks a bit hollow/caved in.

 

[BlueMoon1]

So I am deaf, and it has been interesting to see how hearing gay men react to it. One of my dates in college, I must have been 20, we had a nice night together and I loved it. Then he texted me after and said "I don't think this will work, I need someone I can listen to music with, bye" -- and I'm like ??? Lol. Part of me feels like he was just using it as an excuse but talk about a LAME excuse man. Then I have had dates where the hearing guy practically fetishizes my deafness, and it felt weird-- like, are you only dating me because I am deaf? Or...?

 

[The Crimson Critic]

That's a lame excuse

 

[dreambridger]

autistic people are great because they're so upfront and direct. people who flirt and use nonverbal signals are a turn off for me, and autistic people simply don't have a brain that works that way. They say their interests and aversions outright, and that is both attractive and comforting to me. Though I'm not even sure that autism is even a disability as much as it is just a neurological difference.

as for other disabilities, well I admit dwarves can be extremely hot.

 

[playklax01]

So I am deaf, and it has been interesting to see how hearing gay men react to it. One of my dates in college, I must have been 20, we had a nice night together and I loved it. Then he texted me after and said "I don't think this will work, I need someone I can listen to music with, bye" -- and I'm like ??? Lol. Part of me feels like he was just using it as an excuse but talk about a LAME excuse man. Then I have had dates where the hearing guy practically fetishizes my deafness, and it felt weird-- like, are you only dating me because I am deaf? Or...?

That's awful how you were treated by the college guy! Yes, that is a totally lame excuse he gave. The ones you feel were fetishizing you, I'm not them but I could see a sort of Florence Nightingale effect happening if I dated someone deaf. You're not wounded or require care, of course, but having that disability I'd just find endearing for some reason. It's not a turn-on or a turn-off though, but it does increase my attraction to them in a non-sexual way, increases their likeability to me might be a better way to say it. Probably sounds strange to most people.

 

[dreambridger]

So I am deaf, and it has been interesting to see how hearing gay men react to it. One of my dates in college, I must have been 20, we had a nice night together and I loved it. Then he texted me after and said "I don't think this will work, I need someone I can listen to music with, bye" -- and I'm like ??? Lol. Part of me feels like he was just using it as an excuse but talk about a LAME excuse man. Then I have had dates where the hearing guy practically fetishizes my deafness, and it felt weird-- like, are you only dating me because I am deaf? Or...?

I'd just turn up the bass so you can feel the music, and put the lyrics on the screen for you.

 

[xyzjb123]

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