Can a gay man and a straight man have an intimate non sexual relationship?

[sleepiboi]

Yes. The first and best friend I met on campus my freshman year is gay, and we are still good friends.

 

[nashboy]

absolutely yes

 

[B_Tonnie]

'ja course it is.

 

[B_thickjohnny]

Yes. My best friend is straight and there is a relationship there that is incredible. Someone told us that we were somehow connected in a past life! When I was in the middle of a break up he was my strongest supporter. My gay friends were almost nowhere to be found.

 

[conchis]

yes

 

[bigbrisguy]

My best friend is straight. I'd trust him with anything

 

[B_RedDude]

Dude, if you're serious, you've got serious issues.

NEVER, gays always try to get into the pants of all straight guys, same with women, and i am not so sure straight friends wouldn't hit on me either, and that really makes me uncomfortable because as a straight man i obviously constantly wonder and worry about sexual encounters with other men. Best is just to never trust anyone and never share anything of your self.


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[B_RedDude]

I've heard of this before, but I will never understand it. It seems much too intimate for just friends.

Yes, I have 2 str8 male friends that I'm very very close with. Hang out, watching movies, he'll lay on the couch with his head on my lap

 

[bigbrisguy]

Dont underestimate the need for human contact, even just with a friend. I can touch my best friend without him being concerned I would hit on him, because he trusts me enough to know he is not interested in that.

I've heard of this before, but I will never understand it. It seems much too intimate for just friends.

 

[Redblonde]

Absolutely, I find I can be more open with my gay buddy than any of my straight friends who obsess over whether every action they make could possibly be misconstrued as "queer". It's draining at times.

 

[Redblonde]

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[Redblonde]

Dude, if you're serious, you've got serious issues.

I second that...

 

[warmandsoapy]

I have str8t buds that I kiss and hug and hold. Have done it in front of their GF's, too. And I love being naked in front of or with them (in the gym or showering after sports at someone's place). We all admire each other's bods and stuff. We openly discuss sex and talk about j/o and our stuff. It's a pretty healthy lil' group (physically and mentally) and I am the only gay one. No fag jokes but some nice jabs thrown in here and there.

So, in a word..YES!

 

[fratpack]

Absolutely. One of my best friends is straight and I've known him since high school. We've been throught he mill together and there isn't anything we that we hold back from each other.

 

[Cybearia]

:smile:...that's giving it a bit more credit then it deserves, but it is in the same neighborhood

Agreed. What will next weeks burning issue be? "Can a black guy and a white guy have an intimate, non-sexual relationship?" or maybe "Christian and Muslim?"

I'm irritated with myself for even taking the time to reply. :tongue:

 

[scottmac]

I have str8t buds that I kiss and hug and hold. Have done it in front of their GF's, too. And I love being naked in front of or with them (in the gym or showering after sports at someone's place). We all admire each other's bods and stuff. We openly discuss sex and talk about j/o and our stuff. It's a pretty healthy lil' group (physically and mentally) and I am the only gay one. No fag jokes but some nice jabs thrown in here and there.

So, in a word..YES!

And in my opinion, that is how it should be.

 

[avg_joe]

Is it possible to be so close with each other that there is nothing personal you would be afraid to talk with him about?

Female Body Investigator !!! Gotcha !!!

 

[rheno]

My best two buds are straight. It's all good.

 

[unzipped]

of course...... men are men....

 

[luvguyz]

yes, i have very close straight friends and we can talk about anything