Can a guy "look like" he has a big dick?

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  1. BIGdkluver

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    Once I heard a friend of mine say to another guy (who was fully dressed), "You look like you have a big dick!"

    I don't think my friend was referring to any visible "bulge" that the other guy was showing. I think that he just meant that the guy's physical features hinted or implied that he should be pretty well endowed.

    So, if this is right, what physcial features imply that a man has a big tool?Muscular physique? A thick neck? Height? Weight? A certain twinkle in his eye? What???

    Thanks for your input!
     
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    Yes but not for the reasons you state. It's the Big Dick Attitude, not the other physical attributes.
     
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    Yup, you have to actually see the man to think he looks like he has a big dick.......its better to stay a fantasy though.
     
  4. Mr. Snakey

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    yes its the attitude too!:cool:
     
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    I agree 100% and I love it when a man has that attitude. It goes with the whole power thing.

    I did hear that if you trim your pubes and clean up it can make your dig look bigger but I don't think that's true.
     
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    Ah, jeez, this guy never leaves me anything to say.
    But the attitude is it.
    And as an aside, I think J. Timberlake has that big time ... regardless of whether a pouch perusal would confirm or not.
     
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    Funny story; I was staying w/ my sister & her husband a few years ago, after re-locating from SanDiego. They also had a boarder that was a friend of the families as well. We all got along great, partied togeather, worked togeather, B.B.Q's, etc. One day I was coming out the sliding glass door onto the back deck to have a smoke. Josh, the boarder/friend was already sitting on the deck having a smoke, and as I sat down he made the statement, "I bet you have a huge dick, huh?" I was sorta taken aback, not knowing exactly how to respond, just said, "ya, I'm doin alright, why do you ask?" He tells me that I have an, "energy" that made him think that. Along w/ the fact that depending upon the way I'm sitting or certain ways my dick is hanging, it LOOKS big. (I usually wear loose fitting 501's or chinos w/ boxers) I told him I was around 8" x 7" and thanked him for noticing. It was especially complimentry coming from a straight guy. But we ALL compare and secretly wonder, huh? Whatever the case may be; I call it the, "BDW!" (Big Dick walk) There are certain guys that have a sexual energy and a confidence that is very easy and natural, NOT FORCED!! Can't force something like that. It either is or it isn't! I know personally that I love the feeling of it against my leg or having to pull up "my boys," before sitting, so I don't sit on it. There's also a certain "heft" that is cool. Walking around w/ my "Manstuff" all the time is awsome. I am ensecure as hell about some things, but have NO problem there. Thank Goodness!!:rolleyes:
     
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    Yes and no. The personality of someone yes. The look of someone no.

    Then again a lot of people who act like they do usually dont so that could be a no as well.
     
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    Sorc wins! Yeah, I mean, there are little guys, and thin guys I've seen, that have some serious confidence, and have disproportionately large ones.
     
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    I think this boils down to the old big dick = big [something] game. Guys with muscular physique, tall, beefy, generally are thought to be more hung, maybe because that's the other association to masculinity, beside the powerful physique. I guess that's wrong, genital size is a product of genetics mostly, while physique comes from training.

    Maybe there are physical assets that imply a guy has size, but those can be deceiving. I don't pay too much attention to this thought popping up, yet i can't tell where the thought of a guy being hung stems from. It's a sense, I'd say, nothing concrete, more etherical. Funny. But if I've learned a thing, it's not to judge a guy's size by his muscles.

     
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    It seems we love to generalize about things, including people. ....and, this dick size thing is certainly one of our favorite themes. I agree that there is often a "Big Dick Attitude" that seems to permeate some guys' personalities and when we know one who has both, we sometimes expect (or want) it to hold true for others. The same goes for physical looks. One of the biggest cocks I've known through the years is on a guy with a proportionally long face. I find myself wondering about the dick size of other dudes that have long faces. This is a similar kind of comparing that some of us like to do. Guess, we're funny that way!
     
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    Although id like to think i can tell, hmph. Maybe i could yet my friend wouldn't fuck the guy i set her up with! Grr and he looked like an ex.. yes. he had a big penis and a certain look to him.
    This is of course a life lived in fantasy and obvious comparison, luckily not one lived in hell..hehe
    Damn it, now i NEED to know how big my friends date penis is/was. Who knows where he is now.
     
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    When you are a short man, everybody looks down on you (no pun intended). If you are short and stocky (powerful build), men might not mess with you as much, but everyone still thinks you're a joke. All my life I have been forced to deal with people underestimating me because of my height and build. It has led to me having a hard time being taken seriously all my life. Nobody has ever looked at me and thought, "I bet he's got a big dick." (I don't know this, but I'm pretty sure) if I wasn't showing a bulge.

    So, is it any wonder why I sometimes dress to show a bulge and have a complex as a result of a lifetime of being underestimated. My sex life has always kind of sucked because I can't even get my foot in the door, let alone get to the stage where my pants get taken off. All of my girlfriends were kind of outsiders who didn't have large pools of friends, so I could never drum up a "buzz" with the local women. I didn't achieve any kind of "big dicked" status until I started showing a bulge when I worked in the Charlotte (about an hour away).

    Even when I show a bulge, I get some people that think it's a sock. I mean "how could a short stocky guy have that much dick?" is what they are thinking. Tall men with long legs, skinny builds, and large manly hands is what most people think of when they think of a well endowed man. I have none of those qualities, and it has led to a great deal of frustration in my love life. Don't get me wrong, I am thankful for the physical gifts that the universe gave me, I just walk around with a chip on my shoulder because I do not meet societies image of a "man", you know... short guy syndrome! It's why some super tall guys are so nice and why some short guys are so damn mean. When I do show a bulge, if there is a tall person nearby, I will make sure that they see it... it helps with my "issues"

    :bongsmi:
     
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    I know those exact feeling. Im 5'3 and get shunned on all the time.
     
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    I've had people tell me that they "knew" I had a "big one" because of how I look, my confidence, my hands/feet, and more than a few said they knew because I'm quiet and shy and it is just obvious that my still waters run deep (I didn't feel I should tell them that I was quiet/shy because I was tired until someone approached me, obviously wanting sex).
     
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    I'm not all that tall, nor is my brother, nor was my father.
    But no one looks down on us ... at least not for long.
    I think this has as much effect as you give it.
    I wouldn't for a minute say I have no complexes ... merely that height, for whatever reason, has never been one of them.
     
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    Just occurred to me ... if you're trying to think of a porn actor who gave off big dick emanations, I would say Steve York was one, big time.
    He was so purely slutty, and so healthily happy about it, that I really liked him. (Other reasons, too ... woohoo.)
     
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    If a person can have a look that says "I'm insecure, you dont want to talk to me" then a guy can certainly have a look that says "i got a huge piece of meat. I'm king of the world."
     
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    Insecurity is kind of a loaded word. One can be secure with one's self and at the same time, feel kind of left out of society for various reasons. A sort of I accept myself, but society doesn't. Insensitive people have no problem talking about how other people react towards non-acceptance. I happen to like people and would like for them to accept me, is that overly wrong or overly sensitive? I think it is how everyone should be. The problem is there are a shitload of insensitive dudes out there that are overconfident. They swagger in and out of everyone's lives like they are "Kings of the World"! Nobody should feel like a king, that's ridiculous. Kings are jerks that subjigate everyone and everything to their will. Westerners are so self centered, thinking that the fucking world revolves around them. It makes total sense that people in the West should never get their feelings hurt. It's because they don't give a shit about people. I'm just ranting... not actually responding to the meaning of Senor R's or Tallguy's posts, just riffing.
     
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    Here's a man whose big cock ego matches the true size of his dick.

    Usually, big cock ego = small dick

    I've broken the stereotype:biggrin1:
     
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