my wife says I have skilled tongue and "skilled" big cock (7.5 x 6.5) . she prefers my big cock. she says my tongue is very good at turning her on quick, but she doesn't like me to finish til orgasm. she says the orgasm is more satisfying if she has my cock to clamp on to. so if she is having trouble getting turned on. I tongue her for awhile and then she mounts me. it gets her wet and she handles my girth easier.