Can A Man Be A Gentleman In Public And A Dirty Minded Sex Addict In Private

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Very strange viewpoint.
"Pretending" to be a gentleman in public?
No. I'm genuinely a polite person in public.
Why wouldn't I be?
"Addicted" to sex, privately?
I love sex with my girl. Our sex life would make porn stars blush.
An addiction is a whole other thing.
It's not healthy.

Perhaps a dictionary would be of use to you.
 

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Very strange viewpoint.
"Pretending" to be a gentleman in public?
No. I'm genuinely a polite person in public.
Why wouldn't I be?
"Addicted" to sex, privately?
I love sex with my girl. Our sex life would make porn stars blush.
An addiction is a whole other thing.
It's not healthy.

Perhaps a dictionary would be of use to you.
This!
I am a gentleman to everyone, as best I can be, and I'm not pretending at all.
When I'm behind closed doors with a woman with whom I am having sex, I can and will be quite sexual.
Kisses, hugs and caresses, occasional playful gropes and even dry humping are all fair game as long as she is receptive, and the women I have been with have always been sexually playful. If I have an erection in a non sexual situation, I make sure she notices it in some way, as sometimes that leads to it being a totally sexual situation!
 

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This!
I am a gentleman to everyone, as best I can be, and I'm not pretending at all.
When I'm behind closed doors with a woman with whom I am having sex, I can and will be quite sexual.
Kisses, hugs and caresses, occasional playful gropes and even dry humping are all fair game as long as she is receptive, and the women I have been with have always been sexually playful. If I have an erection in a non sexual situation, I make sure she notices it in some way, as sometimes that leads to it being a totally sexual situation!
Very nice buddy
 
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The evidence points to yes.

How do you define a dirty minded sex addict? I feel I’m both a dirty minded sex connoisseur and a gentleman in private, too.

Note that unequivocal consent is the first and most important step to being a gentleman, of course. Beyond that, care for the happiness and satisfaction of your partner between the sheets is gentlemanly, gentlewomanly, and just plain humanly. That doesn’t prevent anyone from being a horndog. In fact, for me, it makes everything hornier.

Nothing sexier than a gentleman, IMHO.
 
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My sister caught me with two girls in the basement getting it on. She later later told me....I never knew that about you.

People have a public persona, but what they do in private is a different matter.

I know people who don't think "friends with benefits" exist. And I tell them people cheat all of the time. You don't need to be in a relationship to have sex. Some people have a narrow minded of the world.
 

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My sister caught me with two girls in the basement getting it on. She later later told me....I never knew that about you.
People have a public persona, but what they do in private is a different matter.
I know people who don't think "friends with benefits" exist. <snip> You don't need to be in a relationship to have sex. Some people have a narrow minded of the world.
When I made a move on a year-long friend, which turned our close but platonic relationship into a sexual one, she mentioned she didn't realize just how sexual I was. I was still the good friend with whom she hung out, but now that hangout time included lots of sex, for many years. Essentially anytime where we were alone, even for a moment, could immediately become at least a sexual teasing situation, which quite often lead to becoming a real sexual situation. In circumstances where we couldn't immediately act, the comments and teasing insured that we would be having some fun once we got behind closed doors.