Ok here it goes.... I've been dying to ask this question since I joined this group. (basically the reason I did) I'm a little embarrassed, but I have to know something and you guys seem to have answers for everything! This I need answered. (I'll try to be brief) My husband and I have always had a great sex life. Never an issue with his size or anything. He's a big guy, I'm petite....we've managed to work through all the "won't fit" issues we had in the start of our relationship, and hardly had a problem since. Until about 2 years ago. And now it's not the same, and I think it has everything to do with this. We were on vacation for about 5 days (sort of 'rekindling' our relationship so to speak) and from the moment we arrived at the house we had sex. In the pool. The poolhouse. The 2-person shower (that was cool btw) and then finally in the master bedroom. I remember starting to feel pretty soar and swollen, but I didn't say a word because this was like a dream for me...That, and the fact that I've never denied my husband sex - ever! Well...he wakes me up on the last morning there, fingers me a little to get me all wet and excited, and then rolls me over and enters me from behind.... He was so hard, and he's in me deep.... But as he's thrusting, he pulls out and on the way back in I feel his dick like bend in half! Like it snapped! (this is so embarrassing ) He immediately stopped. Whatever that was that happened freaked us both out and all I could ask was if he was ok? All he said was that he thought maybe he 'over did it'. We packed up, came home, and sex has never been the same since. Now we have sex maybe once a month, and nothing fun and crazy like it used to be....This worries me. What happened? Is he afraid that will happen again? Did something break? Could he be blaming me in some way?.... I sorta need to know how to fix this.