Can a straight man suck c*ck?

[DaveGoodie]

a) Yes, his own.
b) It's a bit limiting to call yourself straight or gay. Why not just be a person?

 

[DC_DEEP]

But we self-identify as being gay because of our interest in sex with other men.

Wow, what a concept!

The funny thing, though, is that a man who enjoys sex with other men, but has some self-loathing because of it, simply re-defines "sex" in his own mind, and therefore can claim "he doesn't have sex with men"... of course, his definition excludes sucking or being sucked or fucking... as long as he doesn't "take it up the ass," he's not having sex.

It makes as much sense as "I'm a vegetarian, but I still like to eat steaks a couple of times a week."

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

What is the point of arguing about this issue? Do some peeps in here have an agenda? Most of this is nothing but pure :bsflag:

 

[hot-rod]

Str8 men don't suck cock, gay men don't eat pussy.

If I was in jail or prison with all females, I still wouldn't have sexual relations with 'em because I'm not wired that way. LOL Nothin' against the ladies, though

 

[surferboy]

a way long time ago i had said, and i know some of the older members might remember it, but i don't believe in hetero-, homo- or bisexuality. i believe that we, as a species, just sexual. i don't believe it matters who yer with or what you do so long as yer happy. that, and everyone has had a thought, and most of us, whether we wanna admit it or not, have acted on it, either through oral or hand jobs/fingering

 

[DC_DEEP]

a way long time ago i had said, and i know some of the older members might remember it, but i don't believe in hetero-, homo- or bisexuality. i believe that we, as a species, just sexual. i don't believe it matters who yer with or what you do so long as yer happy. that, and everyone has had a thought, and most of us, whether we wanna admit it or not, have acted on it, either through oral or hand jobs/fingering

Good points, Nixxy.

However, in the past, I have tried heterosex, and I have tried eating pickled beets. I have no desire, intention, or likelihood at all to do either one again.

 

[rugbyscott]

it seems like its only the gay dudes on here who think you can enjoy sucking cocks and still be str8, and its the gay dudes on here who are wondering why everyone has to be labled. if you ENJOY sucking dick, face it, you are gay, or at least in part. if you like fuck/eating pussy, your a hetrero, at least in part. Nothing wrong with either one, but wtf is the problem with saying your gay if your into sucking cock. im not into sucking cock, or gay, but please, a guy at a party in mixed company admits to sucking off a few cocks, enjoys it, and calls himself str8? If you believe that, I've got a bridge I'd like to sell... just post your credit card info on here.

 

[yngjock20]

I'm about to say something that is gonna get alot of people knotted up:

Personally, I think that your sexuality can be more aptly judged by the person you'd want to give your love to, emotional love...spend the rest of your life with kind of love.

If you enjoy looking at men, admiring their bodies and even sexual exploits with the same sex but at the end of the day you'd want to be in the arms of a woman, I think that makes you a "straight" man.

I believe a bisexual man to be someone who can find emotional and physical love with either sex. They've had girlfriends and boyfriends and felt equal love and passion for both of them.

Same with a gay person. Someone who can only see themselves being in love with a person of the same sex.

I'm probably not the only one who thinks this concept is plausible, but it leads up to my answer. Yes, a "straight" man can enjoy giving other guys head because the sexual act isn't what makes him his preference. IMHO.

 

[chrispy]

I'm about to say something that is gonna get alot of people knotted up:

Personally, I think that your sexuality can be more aptly judged by the person you'd want to give your love to, emotional love...spend the rest of your life with kind of love.

If you enjoy looking at men, admiring their bodies and even sexual exploits with the same sex but at the end of the day you'd want to be in the arms of a woman, I think that makes you a "straight" man.

I believe a bisexual man to be someone who can find emotional and physical love with either sex. They've had girlfriends and boyfriends and felt equal love and passion for both of them.

Same with a gay person. Someone who can only see themselves being in love with a person of the same sex.

I'm probably not the only one who thinks this concept is plausible, but it leads up to my answer. Yes, a "straight" man can enjoy giving other guys head because the sexual act isn't what makes him his preference. IMHO.

I agree with you completely. It all depends on where your heart, not your gonads, leads you.

 

[Jovial]

...if you ENJOY sucking dick, face it, you are gay, or at least in part. if you like fuck/eating pussy, your a hetrero, at least in part. Nothing wrong with either one, but wtf is the problem with saying your gay if your into sucking cock. im not into sucking cock, or gay, but please, a guy at a party in mixed company admits to sucking off a few cocks, enjoys it, and calls himself str8? If you believe that, I've got a bridge I'd like to sell... just post your credit card info on here.

The original poster never said the guy enjoyed it. If you don't enjoy it, then you can consider yourself straight.

You know, maybe two guys have wives that don't suck cock, but they both like to get their cocks sucked, so they mutually agree to take care of each other. And of course, this would probably take place in the steam room after working out together.

Also, a lot of guys would consider it gay to masturbate with another guy. But in the thread about that a lot of the guys consider themselves straight.

 

[tncentaur]

Eatin' pizza doesn't make you Italian...

 

[Supeer Mario]

I'm straight, and I suck when I can.

 

[B_Hung Muscle]

There is no shortage of gay-for-pay porn stars -- straight guys who perform in gay vids. Many of them suck cock.

This question keeps popping up on this site. It seems to me that it might be rooted in the internal horror that a guy might actually enjoy something that could cause others to label him gay.

Look at it this way: if I go down on a woman and eat some pussy for a little while does that make me straight?

 

[bek2335]

yngjock20, I am a 54 year old woman and I like what you said. I am - physically, anyway - more turned on by men than women. That is, just noticing strangers on the street, photos in magazines, etc... But I've never been in love with a man. And when I'm in love with a woman, the physical attraction I feel for her is like no other. So I agree with you that the emotional piece is critical for the ultimate experience. But I think we get too hung up on gay/straight being either-or. I like this site because sexuality is expressed in percentages and people don't have to list themselves as either gay or straight, as though it's that simple. It isn't.

 

[112773]

I never confuse sexuality with sex.

How else would I have known I was gay for atleast 10 years of my life before actually having sex? It is who I want to be with at the end of the day, in the romantic sense, rather than who I will let me suck my dick.

 

[B_Hung Muscle]

Ahhh, but wise Mana, what would the haters do on here if they didn't reduce gay people to a sex act?

 

[gladwyn]

I think a staight man should only eat pussy.

 

[VeeP]

Ahhh, but wise Mana, what would the haters do on here if they didn't reduce gay people to a sex act?

Suck cock. (duh) :biggrin1: :tongue:

 

[bottombuddy]

dont matter what he is longs he is or was happy doing what he done and dont feel guilty after because he shouldn't.....labels are for food packaging and life is for living to do what you want to do and not be judged by it.......i however label myself as gay and i like swallowing cock.

 

[Mr. Snakey]

A Straight man can suck cock yes. My question is he really straight? I dont think so. The notion of someone saying they gave 5 guys a blow job and proclaiming to be Straight is beyond silly. This is perhaps a Straight 8. They suck a mean dick too.