Can A Well Hung Guy Be Jealous Of An Average Hung Guy ?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by WellHung83, Dec 27, 2008.

  1. WellHung83

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    You know the old chestnut of be careful what you wish for ? Well, it seems that a lot of well hung guys and those that are indeed 'showers' rather than the 'growers', say that there is quite a few disadvantages to being well hung in the sex and relationship department, some even going far as to say they cannot have friendships with other men because they are too intimated by their big dick to look at them anything other than competition.

    So, does this mean then that some well hung guys wish they were just average or just above average and not HUGE like a lot of guys on here are evidently ?
     
  2. D_Brecock Evileye

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    Not me. I dont have many advantages, I will take what I can get.
     
  3. BigDallasDick8x6

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    The only time I am jealous of average hung guys is they can always get their cocks all the way in. Sometimes I can't. (But then, that occaisonal person doesn't get a 2nd date either. LOL)
     
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    Yes, it's possible -- I felt that way as a teenager. I was an early developer, starting puberty at 10 and basically done with it by 13. Believe me, at 6" soft in my middle school gym classes, I *definitely* wished I were smaller "like all the other guys."

    It doesn't help, of course, that middle school is an intensely conformist period, when kids just want to be like everyone else and are mocked for any unusual or distinctive characteristic. I felt like my penis was freakish and ugly, and remember envying some of the (much) smaller guys in my gym classes.

    Of course, with time I became more aware of the advantages and now I am quite happy to be big. Still, as most of us who are hung recognize, it's a mixed bag, and the further you get along the bell curve the more the disadvantages can start to outweigh the benefits. Thankfully I'm not huge enough that it's caused me major issues in my adult life, but at the various times when my penis was too large for a girlfriend to manage comfortably ... yeh, I've found myself wishing to give back an inch or two.

    Steve
     
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    If I start getting intimidated by friends that have a bigger dick than me, somebody shoot me. What does having a big or small or medium dick have to do with friendships?
     
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    Most anything is possible, I guess, but I have yet to meet a man who wished his dick was smaller. I also have never found the large size of my cock to be an obstacle in making friends with other men, straight or gay. In fact, the reverse is true; I'd say having a big dick helps to "win friends and influence people." Dale Carnegie has nothing on me.
     
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    I am very happy with my,,It dose helps me,, most of all, my thicknes ,is what impress them more, men and women seem to like thickness,,and if it is a perfect length even better,,
    Some times at first attempt,they finded hard to taked,all but they still enjoyed,,But no problen really..they loved,,
     
  8. D_Joe Munchin

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    In the past I've wanted a smaller package.
     
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    There is no substitute for personality. I hate plenty of women with nice faces and huge titties, and vice-versa.
     
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    It doesn't help, of course, that middle school is an intensely conformist period, when kids just want to be like everyone else and are mocked for any unusual or distinctive characteristic. I felt like my penis was freakish and ugly, and remember envying some of the (much) smaller guys in my gym classes.

    Of course, with time I became more aware of the advantages and now I am quite happy to be big. Still, as most of us who are hung recognize, it's a mixed bag, and the further you get along the bell curve the more the disadvantages can start to outweigh the benefits. Thankfully I'm not huge enough that it's caused me major issues in my adult life, but at the various times when my penis was too large for a girlfriend to manage comfortably ... yeh, I've found myself wishing to give back an inch or two.

    Steve[/quote]


    Nice to hear someone 'voice' that...I know exactly what you mean...being big or small anything at that age is rough... I too remember being embarrassed at times....like if we all wore the same size gym shorts I would have a massive bulge that I just *knew* everyone was staring (not in the 'good' way but in that 'look at the freak' way...

    Being naturally smooth, there was a guy my age who had...CHEST hair..god it was amazing.... all the girls went crazy over it...I remember he would 'fluff it' out of his shirt..(quite the little show off too), his dick was 'average' but he had arm and leg hair and look so 'older boy/man' in gym class...and I was hairless and hung....I was jealous, pure and simple- at that age you don't look at the 'when I get older I will.....(get laid alot)'

    good thread
     
  11. D_Bob_Crotchitch

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    The only time it might be nice to be smaller is when trying to find comfortable jeans or briefs. I absolutely cannot wear jockey classics. Plus, the fly doesn't work right on them.
     
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    I second the above comment, I cannot find jeans that fit comfortably at all. While I am more of a grower than a shower, my flaccid size is above average girth-wise, and most jeans aren't cut for this.

    But on the whole I wouldn't trade a thing, especially now that I have seen some home-made porn sites like 'post your beaver'. So THATS what average is. No wonder some of the women in my life have said such nice things to me, no woman could get as much pure carnal satisfaction out of average-sized men.
     
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    You have no idea! I agree completely. I practically have to have jeans and briefs hand tailored, it's that bad.
     
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    I would never pick my friends based on cock size. As a matter of fact, I have never seen several of my friends cocks.
     
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    I can appreciate Steve's and Stephen's comments on this. I don't remember being much of an early bloomer, but I can imagine having a big one in early teenage years causing more of a headache than anything else. Funny how we never wish that our dicks were smaller in the privacy of our own bedrooms (or wherever one ends up jacking off), but that it's when we get other people involved, it becomes a bit more of a hassle. Hell, I was still worried I was small up until I got into college and learned otherwise.

    Yeah, it sucks sometimes meeting women who are so unnerved by the size that they refuse to try to do anything to it. Yeah, it sucks not being able to just cram it all in there and jackhammer away. But you know, I think I'm over those issues. I've had enough time to be pissed about them, and truth told, I still see it as a blessing. I think if you have to be a little more "careful" during sex then that makes you a bit more of an attentive lover, and I'm sure most women dig that than don't, right? I really like my dick as it is. I wouldn't trade it for anything. I would also like to think that my dick doesn't get in the way of a friendship. If it did, then I imagine that person wasn't worth having around anyway; at least let's get in a fist fight or talk shit about each other's mothers first.
     
  16. basque9

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    While I have only your garden variety of big cock, my relationships with other men most definitely have been affected by my cock size. On this site, there are guys who are very interested in knowing all about one's cock length and girth....that is until they ask and learn its actual dimensions are larger than theirs. Some guys react with disbelief and very strong resentment ranging to hostility. In my case, this happens almost exclusively when the correspondent is relatively quite young.

    Although this is an unpleasant experience, it has never made me wish that my cock were smaller so that relations would be better with other younger smaller guys! LOL
     
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    I had people envious of the way I looked, but not because of the trouser snake they don't see.

    I knew a few beautiful women who traded on their looks and were uninteresting and empty.

    I could be envious of a "normal" guy if he has a bigger paycheck. But being a nice guy doesn't always have an advantage.

    So, yes you can be envious. Being human is a life long discovery.
     
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    I think that most men on this site would fall into this category. The only erect penises I saw were in porn magazines that started to appear in the 1970s, and based on that I thought myself 'average'. It became clear to me very early in my sexual journey that my partners needed to be very well-aroused before penetration, so this is what I did. Only later did I discover that I am quite well-endowed, especially in girth, and while I don't have exclusive rights to pleasuring women before intercourse, for me it has always been a necessity.

    I get very annoyed when some average-sized men denigrate the sexual prowess of larger men, implying that because we're well-hung we don't bother to please our partners beyond using our size, therefore more size means less satisfying sex for women. Nothing could be further from the truth. Because we're well hung we have to well please our partners before our size goes anywhere near them.

    Women are often into the total package, and sometimes love is just as important as anything carnal, but sometimes not. Very few women get regular orgasms through intercourse alone, and the real skill to learn and master is oral sex. Be good at oral and she will be similing. Couple good oral with a decent size, and she'll be smiling more brightly. Couple love with good oral and a decent size and she'll be smiling as brightly as she can.

    In other words, size is never a limitation, it's a bonus, everything else being equal.
     
  19. Whopper-lee

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    :frown1: Being honest man...from a few other threads I have posted on here, I have mentioned how badly my step-family treated esp my step-dad & step-bros. They made lots of fun and jokes about my gentials being so large. I was also very early into puberty by 10 y/o hair & all.:eek:
    They made me feel abnormal and wished I looked like they did in the valley which was average size growth.
    My step-dad even said my dick was over sized because it came from the devil's workshop; he did whip and punish me often buck naked when we were alone in the house. He said I was a freak by nature.
    So yea I did wish for many many years I could be just a nice 5-7 inches hard even...and instead I have 8" soft 10-11" hard.
    Embarassing in some situations.
    U always get looked at strange whether admired or not when hung this way.
    Guys on my job now give me hell about my size <all in fun>:biggrin1:; and waht they often say they wish they had one like mine:confused: O well! It all good any way.

    Something some of us deal with daily & pretty much get use to.
    But I fo-sure aint cutting none of my dick off or down-size it now:wink:
    Thanks for asking.
     
  20. Crosz

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    Whopper,I'm sorry to hear about the verbal (and physical) abuse that
    you experienced.I really am.

    I think that you're very fortunate to be as well endowed
    as you are.If I were your size;I would consider it a gift;
    you must have so many wonderful memories of being
    intimate with women and being complimented on your
    size.It must be such a great ego-boost.

    You must have such a full and varied sexual life.

    All the best.
     
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