Can a woman be "ruined" after experiencing a big cock?

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And by "ruined", I mean she doesn't feel any other cocks are as satisfying after that? I had a woman I've been with recently jokingly tell me that. But it got me wondering if that happens or it's ever happened to you?
 

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In a self-confessed size queen (no reason to hide that girth rules), but what some guys (including you it seems) don't get, is that we make love to the guy - not his cock

Guys can "ruin" (for good or bad) - cocks can't.
 

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This question is stupid every time it comes up.

I think guys "ruin" themselves with shit attitudes. Massive penis isn't as special or "impressive" as some of the braindead fucks around here think.

My guy left me for a few years back when I was 19. He has a massive cock. I didn't have difficulty cumming when I started fucking other guys who weren't nearly as large.

We don't get "gapped out", or "ruined" by big dick. People who think so are ignorant and kinda fuckin sexist.

Some women have preferences for larger dick. But using the term "ruined", just dries the pussy right up. Slammed shut. Closed for business.
 

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And by "ruined", I mean she doesn't feel any other cocks are as satisfying after that? I had a woman I've been with recently jokingly tell me that. But it got me wondering if that happens or it's ever happened to you?
She’s just fellating your ego.

The vaginal walls are muscle. Severe trauma can harm them, but we bounce back from pushing babies through.
Unless your dick is bigger than a human baby (and see a doc if it’s that malformed), no permanent physical damage has been done.

can we let this whole women defined by dick mindset die in a fire?
 

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I can't help but wonder if my pussy was just so tight that some of the guys I fucked were "ruined" for life. Maybe I just clenched so hard it destroyed his chances of ever feeling pleasure outside of my hole ever again! (That's sarcasm, if it wasn't painfully obvious)



I get it, everyone wants to feel like they're the best at sex. Everyone wants to feel physically desired and for men that almost always means the main focus is the dick. But really, "ruining" someone? Just, ew.

I wouldn't want him to feel like he "ruined" me for other people. I want him to feel happy for me that I can feel pleasure from a variety of penis shapes and sizes. Same way I want him to be happy that he's had the chance to be with so many different women (there's more I want to say about that but it's off topic so I'll leave it at that).

The idea of "ruining" a partner signifies possessiveness. I'm not on that boat, not floating down that river, not using those paddles to get where I'm going.
 

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Worse than possessiveness, “ruining” suggests damage that cannot heal, and a desire to inflict it.

It's a combination.

Guys who think like that want women to *need* them, and they want to be desired that way because of the "damage" their penis does. They've convinced themselves and each other that women really do need to be "torn up", "destroyed" to gain pleasure. They really do think a big dick is something that "impresses" us collectively because how could we not be amazed by a few extra inches of flesh dangling in front of an asshole? My eyes roll so hard it hurts.

They think destroying/ruining vagina with a penis is the way to get a woman "hooked" on them.

They watch entirely too much porn.