I want an American style cut - high and tight and two tone.
My problem is I'm now 30 and I'm not convinced the look I want is obtainable.
Is it possible for a circumcision to heal and end up looking like I described? Or will you always be able to tell?
Not sure I can properly answer the heart of your question but some thoughts to share.
There are all sorts of styles of circ in the US. Some are high & tight, low tight, high loose, low loose. Honestly I don't think too many pediatricians think about how it'll look when the patient is matured. They've got whatever tool they have laying on the table & however much skin presents to them when the patient is laid out. Some style tools can remove more than others. Point being you end up with all sorts of circ in the US.
Flesh tone is another thing. Some people, their flesh tone is darker & they end up with an obvious & stark line. Other men, not so obvious. I have to really search to see my cut line.
Then did the Dr. have the device on the penis straight, or was it lopsided. I notice a lot of cut lines are at an angle, like the device was crooked when the doc sliced.
Some cut lines are very clean, others very jagged like the knife was dull & the flesh was torn away from a partial cut. So, I suspect how sharp the cutting device is plays a role.
Then there is healing. That is person specific. Some people heal quickly & 'pretty', others seem to take longer to heal & leave an obvious scar. That is probably of most concern to your question & honestly that's a you question. If you get a cut how nicely does it heal? However as a 30 year old, if you don't like the result you can always see a plastic surgeon to address it. I'm sure an infant would never have that option. In fact - if I was you, I'd seek a plastic surgeon to do your circ as you are seeking a very specific end result. I doubt 90% of urologists would give you as nice a finish as a plastic surgeon would.
Best of luck in your journey. Hope I gave you some things to think about.