Can An Older Man Describe Their Sex Drive And How They Navigate Sex??

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Just curious. I'm 27 so there's youth in me left but I'm wondering how this all works for older men (say 45 years and above).

I'd like to hear on whether erectile dysfunction is an issue, rate of masturbation and whether there are differences between married men and those who remain single but choose to have sex (of various kinds, including oral and anal) and what type of activities older men do to maintain sexual appetite.
 
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Interesting question. I'd say for me, it's all about circumstances rather than relationship or physical changes.

I'm soon to be 47 and despite the current lockdown and unable to get to a gym I remain active, fit and maintaining both muscle and stamina and my testosterone level is still great, which hasn't affected my rate of masturbation (daily) or its level of intensity. In fact, one thing I love about being a little older is how much larger my balls seem to be now they hang lower. I love touching myself so I still masturbate often, and really enjoy it.

But, I admit since moving to the UK I've had less sex - mostly because I have a flatmate who's a homebody and there's rarely ever any privacy at home. And if someone does come over (even if it's a friend) he has 100 questions about it, and always assumes if I need privacy we must be having sex - which I suppose has made me even more private with regard to my activities. I've also been here to engage in PhD research, which I've prioritized over meeting strangers or dating - though I have dated, and when I do I want sex all the time. I do worry, though, that is I do get into a relationship again after all this is over it will migrate to the 'friend zone' sooner than I'd like, but I doubt it would be a result of my own personal interests or desires.
 

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That's just the advantage that you can masturbate without sufficient erection. The size of the penis also does not matter. I am very happy about that, because at 74years of age you have your problems. Sexual intercourse would not be possible without a sufficient erection. But that's the way to satisfy myself. This is very important for me as a habitual Solo Masturbant. Unfortunately, I can only do it once or twice a week. The sperm quantity is also significantly reduced.

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63 & single here --- Libido is as high as ever --- just don't go out 'To Pull' any more.

Wank rate has dropped significantly

Only had an erectile failure once when I was 42 (too much booze)
 
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I have had a great sex life, with as much pussy as I wanted with my first and second wife, or when single, from gals I dated. When I turned 64 I met a very hot gal who became my swing buddy for 12 years. She was 35; a petite Asian who had never had children. Her pussy was unbelievably tight. We had sex almost every weekday and a small, weekend swing party every two to three weeks. The excitement of her sexiness and swinging was very stimulating! After several years I started using Viagra for the swing parties to make sure I got hard. By the time I was 70 I switched to a bi-mix shot to stay hard during our three to four-hour long swing parties. Life is good! Enjoy!
 

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One of the only complaints we ever have is not having enough time to fuck.
I've been with @Snarky_succubus for 8 years now...& She turns me on like crazy.
Best sex ever. Without question.
Insane chemistry we have.
We also workout often and have physical pasttimes/hobbies. She does a good job as a positive influence on my health as well.
So, drive and performance aren't ever an issue.
And, gonna sound odd to some of you.... But, I haven't masturbated in years. I just don't need to. My girl is always good to go.
#luckybastard
 

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I'm in my 40's and my sex drive is as strong as ever, absolutely no worries erection wise or maintaining an erection. I can still go just as many rounds as I always have before I'm done, I still cum big powerful loads and the last time I had a sperm count it was still right up there, my cum is still thick in consistency too.
I've always had a very active sex life being involved in the swing community for many years, I've been in a relationship with my current wife a good while now and we enjoy a very active personal sex life. We've always had sex at least twice a day unless we've been very sick or I'd been working away, during this recent lockdown period we've been enjoying even more sex.
I'm not a massive jerker as I'd rather do things with my wife or other partners when we're seeing other couples but for instance when I'm working if I feel the need and my balls are feeling heavy sure I'll go and relieve myself, I am pretty fit for my age and naturally strong although I don't particularly train or exercise as much as I once did. My diet isn't anything special, I like my food and a lot of the wrong foods and I do have high cholesterol. I drink and I smoke, so I know I'm probably lucky but so far haven't experienced any detrimental effects sexually. However my lifestyle is very active and when I'm working I work a fairly high pressure complex job which I guess keeps me active both body and mind, so no worries for me at the moment and long may it continue.
 
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One of the only complaints we ever have is not having enough time to fuck.
I've been with @Snarky_succubus for 8 years now...& She turns me on like crazy.
Best sex ever. Without question.
Insane chemistry we have.
We also workout often and have physical pasttimes/hobbies. She does a good job as a positive influence on my health as well.
So, drive and performance aren't ever an issue.
And, gonna sound odd to some of you.... But, I haven't masturbated in years. I just don't need to. My girl is always good to go.
#luckybastard
You two look in fantastic shape and the smiles are there. Keep at it, wish you two great time in bed and outside of it too. :)