Can anyone explain shemale fetish?

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  1. D_Fizzy Cola Bottles

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    I know it's not polite and kind of cheesy to ask why someone likes what he or she likes...

    You would never ask a guy why he likes big tits...

    But I was just wondering if anyone into shemales can explain what is the attraction and pleasure in watching or being with a shemale. I'm just generally curious about all kinds of fantasies and fetishes and the meaning that can be derived from peoples' sexual expression.

    So if someone is able to or wants to explain, I'd love to hear.
     
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    I started a thread about this some time ago...I'm still waiting for answers.

    Well, I want to know why so many well-hung young boys get breast implants. I find it hard to believe there are that many genuine trans-sexuals out there in pornland, so I presume, as the majority are from Brazil and Thailand, that there's money to be made as a shemale.

    Apart from that question, why do they do it, why do I find them attractive???

    A Freudian conundrum that, doubtless relating to my mother and my infancy.
     
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    Thayna Lousada & Alexandre Pernambuco

    I've never been attracted to she-males but used to be into she-male porn like you'll see in the link above of porn actor Alexandre Pernambuco, who's done a lot of this stuff. I got a sadistic thrill and erotic rise out of seeing sexy guys with nice bodies and a masculine affect become so completely debased and stripped of the last traces of self-respect that they'd let a trannie do them the way you see this guy being done in that link.

    I used to have a huge collection, and Pernambuco was my favorite actor. Another I liked a lot is another Brazilian actor named Poax, who went even lower -- he let himself be done by trannies bareback! Eventually, though, the sadistic erotic thrill I got from watching this was over-whelmed by a sense of extreme disgust that I couldn't keep in check anymore, and I got rid of the whole collection. Dumped the dvds in the trash, deleted all the clips and jpegs.
     
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    For me, I like cocks, tits and anal sex - it's the best of all worlds!
     
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    Any answer to this is pretty much the poster's opinion and understanding of their own sexuality, so to add my two cents, my curiosity trumps a lot of stuff. Being horny and being curious on top of that is the short form of saying how I discovered shemale porn.

    I'm pretty much with the poster above me (Brit) about it being a mix of a lot of attractive elements. To share more detail, though, I'm crazy about the female form, but obviously since I'm on this site, I've got some degree of attraction to the male member too. On some level, it reconciles my outward, daily, public personality of looking at women all day every day with my more private thoughts of "wonder what being around another guy's dick is like?" The shemales that look just like dudes wearing bras don't do it for me. Don't ask me what the formula is, but some other shemales would completely pass as chicks if I passed them on the street, so I'm attracted to them just like I would be to an "original" woman. The role reversal of the female doing the active screwing, the trick of looking like a woman while dressed and then breaking out a hard dock, and

    There are so many versions of shemale porn with them doing guys, doing girls, doing another shemale, etc. and that kind of shows me all these crazy permutations of shemale sex. Most of it isn't my thing to a point of something I'd be party to in reality, but to see a guy having sex with a shemale or a shemale going at a woman, is pretty hot to me if the involved parties are attractive.
     
  6. D_Fizzy Cola Bottles

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    I guess for me (who originally started this thread), the idea of liking shemale sex seems really self-indulgent. More than any other fetish. It seems like guys who are into it really want sex THEIR WAY.

    I guess I can see someone being attracted to women and also maybe in someway being attracted to men... But the desire to merge the two in one body is really peculiar to me. It suggests refined tastes, maybe sophistication. Like you want to contruct your own sex toy. And I'd really be interested in understanding the psychology behind that, if a meaningful one exists.

    I get the sense that someone's mind is at work. I, personally, can't watch shemale porn but it strikes me as the ultimate fantasy trip.

    I can see someone saying well, sometimes I like to eat some chicken and sometimes I like to eat some fish... But when it becomes: well, I want to have a chicken, fish, salami sandwich on whole wheat... Wow.

    I would think that since this is a Large Penis forum, there would be a slew of guys into shemale porn! but that does not seem to be the case. Guess shemale fetish is not necessarily borne from penis fixation.
     
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    everyone is entitled to their opinion, i just disagree with yours. i don't think it any more "self indulgent" than any other fetish, that's what a fetish is almost by definition. as far as not many fans, maybe not many that admit it, but you look at big girl club, met her in a bar, and the hot tgirl video threads and see how many hits over how little time compared to other threads. they get a ton of folks taking a look.
     
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    I have no 'bent' in this direction one way or t'other but looking at a 'shemale' being boned on this site was ever so weirdly erotic to me. Especially when said 'shemale' had a massive erection and kept dribbling spunk.
    I guess, being ever so naive, that this must have some thing to do with the prostrate being manpulated by the stiff cock up her 'arris.
    Perhaps some of you knowledgable persons may be able tell me whether or not this is correct.
    There is no substitute for the lube tube as supplied by the female species.
     
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    Any one think that this a good way to bottom without "officially" being with a 100 percent male? I was once told that a lot of shemales are tops....
     
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    that's very true. having ones prostate stimulated is a big part of it. i have been with amazing tops and bottoms, but the jackpot is a rockin hot versatile gal, but this is all secondary to traditional hetero sex and getting a partner to digitally stimulate me is a big turn on too.
     
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    I agree that all fantasies are self indulgent. It's just that because a shemale is a hybrid man-woman, I was inclined to believe there are more ideas driving such fantasies than say, "garden variety" cheerleader fantasies or the girl next door. But I realize that may not be the case.

    I think there was one poster who said he just likes cock, tits, and ass and a shemale is able to supply all three in one package. Which is fine. There doesn't need to be a more elaborate explanation.

    It's just that I'm interested in the mind behind a fantasy. Be it a cheerleader sex trip, or a ballerina or police officer, whatever. And because a shemale is a more complex sexual object (at face value, anyway), I thought I could maybe make the assumption that someone, somewhere, has a really rich, self indulgent fantasy involving t-girls.
     
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    hey, i started a thread last fall about haloween sex (some of the most fun and best i ever had) because it involved costumes for everyone and fantasies abound, cheerleaders, pirates, raggedy ann dolls, vampires, etc.etc love it all. don't have to have all that and usually don't, but variety certainly does spice things up.
     
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    You're right. The growth of overly refined, increasingly exotic sexual tastes is historically one of the clearest signs of a decadent society in which ever more people require even greater, stronger and unique forms of stimulation to arose and maintain their sexual interests and appetites. (Decadent here meaning the process by which a certain set of values and institutions evolve into their opposite forms over time. Thus contemporary fundamentalist religions that oppose Darwinian evolution or social changes in the status of women for instance are decadent forms of once-progressive religions that improved individual and social conditions.)

    The antics of late imperial Roman society are the best known examples in pop culture. But you can see some similar developments in others in periods of advanced decline. Late Ming Dynasty Chinese emperors were notorious for their total absorption into extreme sex within the Forbidden City while the society was in crisis and the state falling apart around them before the final collapse of 1644. Ottoman Sultans were likewise given over to the pursuit of their pleasures, including ever growing harems of hundreds of concubines and boy-favorites in the late stage of that regime.

    In the contemporary West the ideology of "personal choice" and "individual opinion" is generally invoked to mask the social processes at work that lead more people toward more varied forms of extreme-sex and sexual predilections, and to systematically avoid, even oppose, any critical discussion of what leads to certain sets of choices as opposed to others. It is one of the manifestations of how the liberating value of personal autonomy consolidated in the Enlightenment has moved toward the decadence of license in which one thinks that all choices are of equal value, and supposedly detached from the social contexts in which they evolve.
     
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    Just wanted to say: great post. You took my ideas and made them resonate with the wider perspective, with history and societal currents. I appreciated this. (I'm usually always focused on the individual, don't drift into looking at how he or she fits into the whole wide world).

    On another note: there are still a few things that make me go hmmm... Why don't guys who like shemales just get a real girl with a strap on?

    Is it true that mostly straight men like shemales? This type of porn is always next to the straight section in the video store. And people like porn star Nacho Vidal seem to have a fetish for it. By this, I mean people who don't seem to have an interest in the male gender in any other form or fashion.
     
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    Can anyone really explain any fetish?? You like what you like and if its not hurting anyone in the process the let things be.
     
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    On another note: there are still a few things that make me go hmmm... Why don't guys who like shemales just get a real girl with a strap on?

    gladly, but that means finding a lady who has that fetish

    Is it true that mostly straight men like shemales? This type of porn is always next to the straight section in the video store. And people like porn star Nacho Vidal seem to have a fetish for it. By this, I mean people who don't seem to have an interest in the male gender in any other form or fashion

    i know a number of tgirls who are friends with gays and it is not sexual. i also know one gal who is a total top, when i mentioned her being versatile, she offered to invite over a "buddy" of hers (a guy) who would let me top him. i declined. joey silvera was a popular porn actor in the 80s and he has pioneered this genre. nacho is into it and rocco siffredi is producing in it as well.
     
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    Great thread, i like shemales. Don't ask me why because i don't ask anybody why they don't like them...
     
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