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Just_Michael: Hi all,
I have been lurking on this site for 10 weeks and have found you all to be very caring and helpful. Just for the record Im only 7x6 but I have come here for a different reason. Youre Help.
I am having a relationship with a wonderful woman online. We met 8 weeks ago on Yahoo and really hit it off, chatting online quickly lead to speaking on the phone. We have spoken to each other every single day since we met and normally more than just once a day plus we have exchanged pictures just to put a face to the voice. We agreed to meet and so I offered to meet her at her location because I did not want her to travel so far to see me. She gave me her address and I booked the tickets and flew up to see her a few days ago. I arrived at the airport to find that she had not turned up, I waited for a couple of hours but realised that she would not be meeting me, so I thought I would get a taxi to her place and see if everything was ok. To my absolute horror the address was a fake. I have never felt so bad in all my life. Anyway I returned home the next day, still unable to contact her. We have spoken over the phone several times since I came back and she seems genuinely mortified at how she has behaved and cant stop apologising. She basically got cold feet and decided to hide out at a friends place instead of see me.
The crux of the problem is that I think I have fallen in love with her, and I still want to see her and Im more than willing to wait until she feels comfortable with meeting me. But she is so shocked with her reaction that she is slowly distancing herself from me. I dont want her to do that, I just want her to talk to me and to see if we can work this out.
Does anyone here have any advice that could help me out, I want to salvage our relationship not confine it to the bin.
Thanks everyone
Michael :'(
I have been lurking on this site for 10 weeks and have found you all to be very caring and helpful. Just for the record Im only 7x6 but I have come here for a different reason. Youre Help.
I am having a relationship with a wonderful woman online. We met 8 weeks ago on Yahoo and really hit it off, chatting online quickly lead to speaking on the phone. We have spoken to each other every single day since we met and normally more than just once a day plus we have exchanged pictures just to put a face to the voice. We agreed to meet and so I offered to meet her at her location because I did not want her to travel so far to see me. She gave me her address and I booked the tickets and flew up to see her a few days ago. I arrived at the airport to find that she had not turned up, I waited for a couple of hours but realised that she would not be meeting me, so I thought I would get a taxi to her place and see if everything was ok. To my absolute horror the address was a fake. I have never felt so bad in all my life. Anyway I returned home the next day, still unable to contact her. We have spoken over the phone several times since I came back and she seems genuinely mortified at how she has behaved and cant stop apologising. She basically got cold feet and decided to hide out at a friends place instead of see me.
The crux of the problem is that I think I have fallen in love with her, and I still want to see her and Im more than willing to wait until she feels comfortable with meeting me. But she is so shocked with her reaction that she is slowly distancing herself from me. I dont want her to do that, I just want her to talk to me and to see if we can work this out.
Does anyone here have any advice that could help me out, I want to salvage our relationship not confine it to the bin.
Thanks everyone
Michael :'(