Can anyone here relate to this, no one i know in real life can

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You're insecure to the point of being cringe worthy. You try and make up for it by constantly talking about how tall and fit and handsome you are, and how you own a house and how you live in two states.

You're not mature enough, or have enough life experience, to realize how pathetic sneak bragging is.

But you we've already had this conversation before haven't we? It's amazing to me how we keep running into each other, Brahmabull.

I know you from SBR, the weightlifting forum, city-data and a couple more I'm forgetting about. I've given you the same lecture on at least 2 other forums.

They handed you your fucking ass at SBR, brutal internet beat down...City-data was even worse.

I feel bad for you homie, because you're clearly desperate for affection. Hope you find it.
 

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You're insecure to the point of being cringe worthy. You try and make up for it by constantly talking about how tall and fit and handsome you are, and how you own a house and how you live in two states.

You're not mature enough, or have enough life experience, to realize how pathetic sneak bragging is.

But you we've already had this conversation before haven't we? It's amazing to me how we keep running into each other, Brahmabull.

I know you from SBR, the weightlifting forum, city-data and a couple more I'm forgetting about. I've given you the same lecture on at least 2 other forums.

They handed you your fucking ass at SBR, brutal internet beat down...City-data was even worse.

I feel bad for you homie, because you're clearly desperate for affection. Hope you find it.

WTF are you talking about? I only post on this site and occasionally on bodybuilding.com, which is under a different username.
 

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WTF are you talking about? I only post on this site and occasionally on bodybuilding.com, which is under a different username.

Bullshit. I just went and searched out your posts on SBR and city-data, some of your shit is verbatim across all the forums.

But...Live your life dude.
 

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Bullshit. I just went and searched out your posts on SBR and city-data, some of your shit is verbatim across all the forums.

But...Live your life dude.

There are a lot of weirdos on here but this is honestly the strangest and most random thing I have encountered on this site. I post on the bodybuilding.com forum under a different username, years ago also on t-nation.

That's enough internet for one day, this is very weird, seriously.
 

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The woman at my gym was taking flirtation to a different level, as I mentioned she showed me a hip thrust when I was sitting in front of her, she spreads her legs and starts doing that motion while smiling and laughing with me. Before I left the conversation I put my hand on her leg and tell her I'll see her later. That is a little different than just teasing each other or having a banter back and forth.
Actually no, that's no different, and all part of flirting. But the semantics of flirtation aren't important. She is involved with someone, she clearly informed you of this, and if your intention is anything more than flirting at the gym, you should have cut it off as soon as she told you.

To continue with my situation as an example of what is and isn't appropriate, my friend and I hug, casually touch, etc. but don't ever go further. It's a fun show, and she does it to various degrees with a few other male and female friends. She related to my wife and I that during a visit to a third friend's house (where we had driven her) that friend's boyfriend slipped her his tongue when we were all hugging and kissing goodbye. She was upset and confused, as they had never flirted or had any other relationship than friends. There is always a line. It may be fluid depending on persons and situations, but make no mistake...it exists. You crossed that line when you were politely informed that the gym woman is involved, whether she continues the flirtation with you or not. In this case, she is as wrong as you for proceeding. She may enjoy the danger and that you're both being "bad" by continuing.

The bottom line is that it gets you no closer to a real relationship. Flirting is something two single people do briefly to indicate initial interest, or in my case two old farts having some safe fun with dear friends.
 

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There are a lot of weirdos on here but this is honestly the strangest and most random thing I have encountered on this site. I post on the bodybuilding.com forum under a different username, years ago also on t-nation.

You have selective amnesia. People here have called you out several times in past threads for your activity on other sites. A simple search of your user name has you in at least two other sites (besides city-data and SBR), one even has a similar mirror selfie pic avatar.

Dport is correct in his assessment of your game...you post about something, then as soon as something unflattering is written, or actual adult-level conversation happens, you go into two modes:

1. Incessant bragging about your physical appearance and financial worth.

2. Attacking other members or the subject of your thread. In this thread you even managed to insult the other guys in your life. No wonder there are no friends. Nobody is as high-quality as you....alone at the top, huh?

Your inability to see yourself as others see you is going to screw you over continually. Being able to accept criticism, especially when it's well-meaning, and grow as a result of it, is an important part of life, but it's also something anyone can learn. These forums can seem harsh and full of weirdos, but having a few people tell you how you appear to them is actually a gift. You don't indicate having a close friend...the kind of guy or woman who'll tell you literally or metaphorically that your breath stinks or that you have a booger hanging. So this place can partially be that friend.

But you won't let it.
 

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You're insecure to the point of being cringe worthy. You try and make up for it by constantly talking about how tall and fit and handsome you are, and how you own a house and how you live in two states.

You're not mature enough, or have enough life experience, to realize how pathetic sneak bragging is.

But you we've already had this conversation before haven't we? It's amazing to me how we keep running into each other, Brahmabull.

I know you from SBR, the weightlifting forum, city-data and a couple more I'm forgetting about. I've given you the same lecture on at least 2 other forums.

They handed you your fucking ass at SBR, brutal internet beat down...City-data was even worse.

I feel bad for you homie, because you're clearly desperate for affection. Hope you find it.
Ouch!
 

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If you walk up to some random woman she isn't going to flirt with you if she doesn't like you, go to any setting where men approach women they don't know and you will see this very clearly. Women don't touch dudes and encourage an interaction from them if they aren't attracted, common sense.

Some women will. I remember a girls in high school physically flirting with me--touching, grabbing, pressing against me, arm around my waist, even wrestling a little--who said no when I asked them out because they already had boyfriends or a steady. They flirted for fun, loving the attention of other guys. Like I said it's an ego kick for them. I got an ego kick, too.

I'm a little surprised you didn't learn this when you were in high school even though you didn't bother to pursue relationships back then.

Your first statement isn't entirely accurate either. I've walked up to random women and started conversations which turned into flirting. It depends on whether the individual woman is receptive, likes the look of me, likes/laughs at what I say--and the two of us make some connect. Or not.
 

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There are a lot of weirdos on here but this is honestly the strangest and most random thing I have encountered on this site. I post on the bodybuilding.com forum under a different username, years ago also on t-nation.

That's enough internet for one day, this is very weird, seriously.

I'm calling you a liar. I'm done with this thread. Good day sir.
 

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He nailed it. With a heavy, accurate as Fuck hammer.

Besides, sangeilblablabla isn't gonna let it sink in anyway. He won't feel a thing. He's impenetrable when it comes to sincere advice/common sense.
 

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I'm 6'4" , tall, fit, handsome . I live in 2 states, I'm bi-coastal . My house is paid off and to top it all off, I'm not even 30 yet . You should place an ad in the classifieds . You should get plenty of offers by taking this course of action . At one time you used to post saying that you were a loner, you had know friends and zero experience with women . Yet in this thread alone it seems that you have grown leaps and bounds with your knowledge on how to pick up women . You have a rebuttal for everything, Your the type of guy they describe in a certain book, This guy was a jaywalker . Everytime he jaywalked he got hit by a car, yet he continued to jaywalk , with the same results . I guess I'm saying, unless you change the way you think you're going to post this about every woman you'll ever meet .
 

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You can just about picture him covering his ears, eyes closed, going, "AHLALALAHHH, I CAN'T HEAR YOU!!!!!!!"

Only occasionally, he opens one side to listen to the fuck-bois who cheer him on. He can't love himself in a sincere way so his shallow ass just picks and chooses who he listens to based on how hard they stroke his ego.

Reminds me of someone.