I'm currently dating (as I mentioned in a somewhat recent thread) an Albanian girl named Denisa. We've been dating since late November and she's a pretty cool girl -- fun, sexy, loves going to clubs, whatever. It's not a particularly die-hard "serious" relationship...I mean, we're exclusive to each other and what not but -- for the most part, anyway -- it's not...like..."heavy". Since around late December, Denisa's parents have been pressuring her -- more or less -- to break up with me because I'm not Albanian. I've dated and bedded many, many Albanian girls throughout my young life....they're, pretty much, my preferred race of girls (Italian girls and PR girls are nice as well) and I've had this problem once or twice before. But for some reason, now in late February, this "pressure" is starting to annoy me. Her parents -- mostly her father -- are getting more and more adamant that we break up and just "stay friends". Denisa likes me, I like her, but she -- like most Albanians -- is quite family oriented. It's getting to the point where they're asking her if she's had sex with me yet (she has) and if she wants to have my children. I mean, c'mon... The one or two other times I experienced something close to this (both with Albo girls), I had to end the relationship because it became to stressful and aggravating. This situation is beginning to upset me. Denisa and I don't really have any plans to elope or wed, we're just enjoying ourselves, eachother and having a good time. On the other hand, all this is making me miss being with Elda, more and more. Her family were very cool and they liked me very much, never had to deal with such bullshit. All this makes me want to possibly...I don't know, talk to Elda...but I guess that's what happens when you fuck over the one you love dearly. ...Anyway, can anyone else relate to this mess? Have you ever been in a relationship that faced such horse shit? What should I do? Should I continue to stay with Denisa, see if it can still work and have some fun, or just leave before it escalates (like usual)?