can anything be done?

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  1. sarahkuving

    sarahkuving New Member

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    for a guy who's too big for his own good, is there any medical procedure or pill that can reduce the size of a man rather than the opposite? I mean if it comes down to not being able to have sex because of it lol. It's might be a dumb question but i really need to find out. don't get me wrong i like big but not like over 7 inches big.
     
  2. Principessa

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    :biggrin1: ROTFLMAO! :biggrin1: I'm sorry to laugh at you; but as a size queen I consider 7" to be a good start. No man with a 7" penis is going to consider getting it reduced. :tongue: Enlarged, yes, reduced, no. If you are dating a man with a 7" or even 8" penis and you are unable to accomodate him comfortably even with patience, foreplay; and lubrication, dump him . . . and give him my number. :biggrin1::wink::tongue:
     
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    OMG if anyone has that problem can they please please contact me! 1) I want to have a go mounting it and 2) I will gladly pay for you to have reduction surgery if I can have the left overs to use for my enlargement surgery.

    seriously any of you 9"+ guys could gladly give away 4" and still beat most guys.
     
  4. whatireallywant

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    Yeah... send him MY way! :biggrin1:
     
  5. AlteredEgo

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    Why are you convinced it is HE who needs to change? Wasn't he doing fine before he met you? Perhaps you are the one who needs to make a change. (Especially since you can, and he can't.) Do a google search and learn what inventions there are out there to help you learn to relax your vagina more. If you aren't willing, then you must accept that you will always be incompatible sexually and deal with that problem instead.
     
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    are you self-concious about "dilating"?
    once sex gets going,your vagina should kinda' get a mind of it's own
    and OPEN,

    i could see tenting/dilating being scary to a girl,and you might be "fighting" it for whatever reasons.;)

    You could have him come in for X amount of inches
    that you are comfortable with and hold it there,
    let your vagina open with the displacement
    from his cock.
    relax and get him to kiss you and breathe,maybe play with your clit.

    look into vaginisumus as well...it isn't as freaky as it sounds. :)
     
  7. D_Lortius Waxwillow Piddlepoop

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    uh why do you want him to get a reduction???? i'm sure that HE doesn't want to be smaller. :confused:
     
  8. RandyL

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    YOU have the problem, not him. Spread your legs and get used to being bored out with a huge dong! It'll feel better eventually.

    NO man is going to reduce the size of his cock on purpose!

    No matter how much he loves you, he loves his cock even more.
     
  9. TheRob

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    not putting the whole thing in is pretty common
     
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    If you don't like 7 inches then you don't like cocks big and you are on the wrong site. You should consider yourself lucky that you found a good sized man, not be asking about reducing him
     
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    Very rough problem to have :)
     
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    Hate to say it but you are the one who needs to change. A woman can easily adjust if they choose to. I had to learn how to relax certian pelvic muscles to totally take my husbands entire penis. Of course I am one of the unusual gal that have larger than normal vagina but he was still bigger that I could take at first. Instead of trying to find ways to reduce your man, find ways to expand your vagina.
     
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    lolwhy would you get a reduction for 7 inches? :confused::eek:
     
  14. TheRob

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    some women are pretty small you know
     
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    A 7" penis isn't freakishly large. That's around my size, I've gotten a lot of "this is the biggest thing I've ever seen", "it's bigger than my arm!" and all that, but it's really only 1-2" above average.

    I've only been with very small girls. Eating more than I do on a regular basis they still fall into the "dangerously underweight" area for their height. It normally hurt them the first 3 or 4 times we had sex. Not to toot my own my own horn, but quickly thereafter I became their benchmark for the perfect member. If they told me to get it surgically altered I would have politely told them to go fuck themselves. Mines as big as it's going to get, yours is designed to deliver babies.

    You should start by just having it exist inside of you. You should probably be on top so you can go at your own pace. If even this is just uncomfortably large, have him give you oral sex and use lubrication. Get used to it inside of you before jumping to the sex.

    When you do finally have sex, take it slow, and don't take it all at once. If your boyfriend is any kind of a decent guy and wants to keep you without going under the knife, he'll work with you to make it a good experience.

    Have you told him "it's too much, we need to do something different"? Or are you just letting him pound the snot out of you?

    A 7" cock half way in is probably a lot less than what you're used to dealing with ;)

    On a final note, if it's unbearable painful at all stages, that can be a medical condition caused by mental or physical conditions. It's also definitely something wrong with your hardware, not his.
     
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    he could take up chain smoking
     
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    Yep, he could get a more accommodating girlfriend...so, be careful what you wish for!
     
  20. TheRob

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    that's mean
     
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