Can cock worship go too far?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by DV8, Jun 30, 2010.

  1. DV8

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    I've been a member of this site for 4 years, and in that time I've spoken to many different people about various subjects. We all come here for different reasons- whether it be sexual gratification, curiosity, or just conversation. I can truthfully say that I come here for all three of those, I guess. I've noticed in the chatroom and in some threads that some people go too far with the appreciation of big dicks! I've never seen anything like it. None of us get to pick and choose our body parts; we have what we have, and we are who we are. I'll go ahead and give you an example.

    Yesterday, I was in the chatroom, (and to be fair, I won't use names) and there was someone present who is known for being quite endowed. Someone else came in and started speaking to this person, and told that person that he believed that he was bigger. That person didn't believe them, and they went back and forth. That second person then messaged me privately, and decided to add me to yahoo. As I was speaking to this individual, they decided that they wanted to trade pictures, and I didn't mind this. The guy was HUGE! I mean, mammoth! Well, I did state that this man was in fact huge, and the first individual began questioning me. I told that individual that this guy might actually be larger than him. He told me that I couldn't be serious. I confirmed that I was serious, and that individual proceeded to tell me that if I continued on with this information that he would actually block me and no longer speak to me. I of course proceeded to tell him to go fuck himself.

    Now personally, I thought all of that was a bit much. Does it really matter if one has the biggest dick in a room(living room filled with guests, or even a chatroom)? Do we put too much of an emphasis on cock size? I'm not going to lie- I'm a size queen, but jeez- It's not like a man with an 11x8 inch penis could satisfy me sexually. The last thing I need is a man tying off his dick, like he's a junkie looking for a vein- just to maintain an erection, trying to penetrate me with the aborted fetus attached to his scrotum. It's just not going to happen! We'd both be hurt in the situation- it's not like my ass is some gaping abyss.

    Do we tend to stroke the egos of the well-endowed more than we stroke the cocks of the well-endowed? Is it acceptable that some of these men develop "big dick hierarchies" in their heads and everyone smaller should bow before them? And what's the point of having a massive dick if you can't fuck with it? I'm sure hand jobs and lick jobs (not everyone can fit an eggplant in their mouths) get a little old. Just curious.


    BY THE WAY!!!! If you have an 11 inch penis, and you ask someone with an 8 inch penis if they're into SPH, you should probably be kicked in the dick.
     
  2. dolfette

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    i'm sure i was there for that exchange.
    it was weird.
    strange what you saw... he was actually angry at not being considered the biggest.
     
  3. DV8

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    Yeah, I'm pretty sure you were there for that.
     
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    i suppose that on a site like this, especially in chat, being the biggest = being the best in a lot of minds.

    and nobody likes going from being the best thing in the room to being second best, whatever they're being judged by.
     
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    One of the first things I noticed in the chat room was that hierarchical thinking and behavior based on cock size. I thought it was weird. There are definitely men who think that way.
     
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    I have not been in the chat very much so far, so i can''t sahr any experiences there.
    I want to say it with the words of Francois de La Rochefoucauld
    "If we did not flatter ourselves, the flattery of others could never harm us."
     
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    That whole "who's the biggest here" thing gets so annoying. It's always (99.9% of the time) a GUY who wants to know who's the biggest. Women don't even care. I mean yeah we love big dicks but the BIGGEST...no I really don't care who's bigger between Mr. A and Mr. B. Really don't care.
     
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    PS I don't really chat much anymore but when I do, I am greatly annoyed by the following whispers:

    1. Who's the biggest guy here?
    2. Is he bigger than me?
    3. Is your boyfriend bigger than me?
    4. What's the biggest you've had?
    5. Look at (blah blah blah) he's HUGE
     
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    Any time I try and go in the chat room, it's empty.
     
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    TomCat84 early warning system working perfectly, then. :tongue:

    xx
     
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    Well i was THERE, and as a card carrying SIZE QUEEN member, got quite a chuckle out of the whole thing, although I did NOT see the pics of either....Its quite obvious that many male members NEED attention, validation, and ego stroking for whatever their reasons. Maybe they are just playing a role, maybe they are Fakes, maybe they have fragile psyches and the adoration of the masses gives them satisfaction, comfort, or is even a turn-on.

    Lets face it, if we werent into cock, none of us would be here, but there are times when the the fawning and gushing in the room is, to say the least kinda unbearable, and seems like a script that should really be played out by the 2 participants in pvt chat...

    At times, the chat seems like "Battle of the Cocks" with each participant claiming ownership. However, what gets me is that if you are gonna make a claim, show some proof. Anyone can CLAIM to have a BIG cock, but if you want the title, show something, even if what you are showing aint really yours. We all know the credibility in chatrooms is questionable. Do you really know the person you are engaged in chat with? All you really know is what they want you to know, or show you.

    Dante, as much as I always appreciate YOUR contributions to Forums and chat, I would say only that you should lighten up a bit and not take any of these people so seriously. Its fun IF its entertainment. Once it becomes more, it starts bordering on the "dangerous". - Love you much - OJJ
     
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    Yes, the women don't care about how the men rank, but some of the men definitely respect the men who are larger than them more than the men who are smaller than them, even talking in hushed respectful tones of voice on cam when larger men enter the room and being especially respectful when they talk to one another. I reminds me of a pack of wolves, how they all always know their rank in the pack and they're careful not to cross the ones above them, but they'll growl at the ones below. I've never seen men act like that before, and it never occurred to me that some men would act like that based on penis size. I felt like an anthropologist.

    Obviously not all of the men do that, but some do!

    So true! I've had more pervy PMs about TheBoyfriend's penis that perving on me, which is funny.
     
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    you hit that topic on the ball dante!
    ...this may be LPSG, but its not about throwing people on pedestals just for having good genes...its about more than that; like getting 3-ways going, or relationship/sex advice lol

    this part really made me laugh tho
     
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    I totally agree. I've had other stresses in my life over the past week, so I will say that he probably got the backlash. However, that doesn't excuse the fact that he gave me an ultimatum to satisfy his own ego. He's a grown man, and there's no excuse for that in any setting. I shouldn't have gone off the way I did. But I don't regret it. Sometimes, you people need to hear that sometimes your spoiled brat behavior won't work on the masses.
     
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    :frown1::puppy_dog_eyes::squintfinger::wink:
     
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    Dante sweetheart, it shouldnt come as any surprise to you or anyone else on this site that there are numerous "unstable & dysfunctional" personalities here, many of whom are probably just as awkward in other social settings. The mind is a mystery, and you can never know who or what will set a person off. While its true that there is NO excuse for rude behavior, when a person is irrational there is often no stopping it from occuring. Just LUBE up your shoulders and let all the negativity roll off them. You are too nice a guy to let anyone push you to the edge (although my Bannings prove that I have already been pushed to the edge TWICE, LOLOL). - OJJ .
     
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    Everyone knows that I have the biggest dick in chat. All the men are super jealous. I give SPH to all of them.
     
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    Hell yeah you do... That's why I always blow you. Even when you're having an outbreak.
     
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    Indeed. The questions about our sex life never end including a lot of requests for us to "perform" on cam. I am a normal person, not a porn star and I don't go around in bars asking couples how many times a day they fuck, so it all seems a bit much. I understand the curiosity, and since we are both on this site I can sort of understand why people assume he and I are sexually wild and free, but we ARE normal people and I do get tired of the probing. Who cares if his dick is bigger than some random dude in chat and on the flip side yes, I'm sure guys in chat can claim to be bigger than him. If I were dating his penis maybe it would matter, but I mean really..who cares!
     
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    There are admirers and those that crave admiration. To me they verge on the extrme, and extremeists should be viewed with caution. I mainly pop in for the chat and banter, I really couldn't care if someone is endowed above average. I really wouldn't feel comfortable in a social situation with another man that all he had going for him was his cock size. The sychophancy that goes on in the chat room sometimes is embarrassing, and has all the intelect of the scribblings on the mens' room wall.
     
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