Can heterosexual women dominate big men?

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  1. Drifterwood

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    When I say big, I mean big :wink:

    Can you? Or does the facade crumble, as has been my experience, when we fuck you hard and deep?
     
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    *recovers her composture after a moment or two*

    Mr.B is not a small chap - 1m85 / 80-85 kilos - if that's the kind of big you mean, nor is he lacking in other departments.

    And no - frankly I can't dominate him - but he does so like me to try :biggrin:
     
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    I'm not into domination OR submission in bed.
     
  4. Principessa

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    Hmm, when I first met my ex-bf I was a mere wisp of a girl at 5'8" and 125 lbs. He was 6'4"/265 lbs./8x6. Looking back I realize I often dominated him in bed which is odd since I now enjoy a much more submissive role with men of any stature. :rolleyes: :redface: :biggrin1:

     
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    You might not be into it, but the chance of pure parity is slimmer than you would ever wish to be.

    Love the new av NJ :wink:
     
  6. whatireallywant

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    I've been with a couple of big guys, and there was no dominance or submission there. It was just fun, vanilla sex - the way I like it.

    I do like it hard and deep though - but I think of that as being "intense" rather than me being "submissive" which has a completely different connotation to me.
     
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    Simple answer: yes.
    Long answer: yes
     
  8. whatireallywant

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    I like that answer! :smile: (even if I'm not into domination or submission)
     
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    Domination isn't about physical strength. So yes.
     
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    Exactly. It's all psychological/attitudinal.
     
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    Exactly.
     
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    It's about what one wants to think...
     
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    Wagner was all about storm and stress, for whatever that's worth. Now, I might twitch and stammer but I will never crumble. :scared2: :eck19:
     
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    Facade my ass. Come on over and find out. That is, if you think you can handle it.
     
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    lol! I like that one better. :notworthy:
     
  16. Principessa

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    Shit! Does that mean I didn't have to spend all that money on bondage gear and bitch boots at Zipperhead's on South street in Philly?

    It's okay that I tied him up though . . . right? :tongue: :redface:
     
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    It is a great turn on for me when a woman knows what she wants, and she is assertive/aggresive about getting it. I tend to choose outspoken, intelligent, decisive and athletic woman. But in all the cases the dominance does seem to break down to submission when I am inside them.
     
  18. Lex Crawford

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    This question reminds me of a play that I saw in Cambridge Halcyon Theatre called'The Fat Boy Laughs'

    In it a 30-something, buxom housewife invites 17 year old trainee solicitor to spend time at her house while he studies.

    At first they keep up a simple friendship, until one night when the solicitor returns home drunkafter failing a part of his course, the comforts of the woman's soft cleavage and her inviting pout smile prove too much for him and they become engaged in a passionate relationship which eventually becomes obsessive.

    As the woman trys to break up the relationship to start a drop-in centre for homeless mime artists, the solicitor attempts to suffocate himself with a pair of her slippers, and after that fails he ties a rope around his neck then jumps in front of a train.

    The woman realises that the solicitor was the only man that she had ever truly loved and falls into a deep depression.
    She utilises the darkness to become a performance artist and finds fame when she creates a popular art installation called 'Deter' comprised of a flashing light and 4 cd players randomly selecting recordings of directory enquiry operators.

    After watching this I was able to full understand the interplay between dominance and submission.

    I'm Lex Crawford, Where's the canapes?
     
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    I assume 8+ will count as big. I was very dominant with two-such men (not at the same time) when I was feeling dominant. Who cares they're hung? Who cares who's doing the penetrating? When I feel dominant, that cock belongs to me and is merely part of a greater instrument. The man, all of him, is my toy for my pleasure, and I will get from him whatever I demand. He will fuck after he has satisfied all of my other desires, and he will fuck me exactly the way I tell him to. Or else.
     
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    Meh, your all show and no go, Bliss.
     
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