This is a "Large PENIS support group" right? It was created as a site to discuss penises, sex and other misc. topics which somehow include politics (god only knows why). And yet for many it seems as if most of the "high profile" members (I hate that term) dominate the forums to the point where it has become uncool to talk about penises, sex or relationships. So the very reason the site was created is now considered "wank fodder" and ridiculed. I don't understand why every single topic derails almost immediately into either a nasty little fight like a pack of wolves or more often than not so much personal banter it makes your head spin. No topic is safe, and it spans the whole boards. Of course it's going to be unpopular for me to say this because I will be told that I'm crazy or too sensitive or "ignore it" but it's hard to ignore when its nearly EVERY topic that gets hijacked, derailed and turns into a 30 page chat fest among a specific group of about 10 members. I mean I'm sure I'm guilty of the cynicism to a point, especially in the women's issues section but really can we all just TRY to stay on the topic. There really is such a thing as moving on if a topic doesn't interest you or has been discussed, or as was suggested in the other (monster) thread gently let the newbies know where else to look. I like this site and have always had en enjoyable experience here but honestly, lately it's just not fun. It's not friendly It's not about penises. It's about politics of who got banned and who said what and how uncool it is to actually discuss sex/penises/relationships without mountains of sarcasm, posturing and who can make the most snarky remarks or private jokes. It's getting a little old.