Can I trust her?

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Hey guys I have a question, my girlfriend of two years has these guy friends that I don't like. And what I mean is that these guys are going nowhere in life, they're just hood rat bums.

My three months pregnant girlfriend of two years hangs out with these guys, that I never meet because they dont want to meet me. She leaves with them and I dont even get to talk to them. We havent had sex in over a month and whenever a situation comes up like this she all of a sudden is in the mood because she knows how much I hate this.

Currently she left with someone who litterally drove up, didn't roll down his window or say hi, she got in and they left. To go to the mall???? When I comfront her she gets defensive and says I dont trust her but something is making me not trust her. I have a odd feeling, I dont mind guy friends but not these no good hood rats.

Any honest advice?
 

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I believe she is up to something. Take care of yours ( meaning unborn child) and do you. You should ask her... If i were to go out with females that you don't speak to or they just pull up outside and I just jump in.. What would be your thoughts?

Karma is a B****

You keeping doing the right thing. What is done in the dark will eventually come to light!

Stay strong!
 

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Doesnt sound like too great of a relationship if she doesnt want you to meet her friends and they dont want to meet you.

How often do you and your girlfriend go out together?

EDIT: Also, dont make this a matter of "trust". This is purely about you and her.
 

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Dude, are you serious? It seems pretty clear that this girl is not into you anymore for whatever reason. Its messed up to hear, but it is what it is. I feel bad for you that you're going to have a child with this woman since the best thing you could do is sever ties with her completely. Are you 100% sure she's actually pregnant and if so the baby is yours? I'm not trying to be a jerk. I'm only saying out loud which you must've at least considered.

Whatever you do, PLEASE don't let her keep playing you, calling the shots and treating you like refired shit. I'm not saying you have to beat her up or something. Don't misunderstand me. All I'm saying is that you deserve to be happy and fulfilled. Don't continue to be a willing participant in her game.

She's lucky she's not my girl because she'd have been out on the street. If she wants to run with trash, she could stay with them. BITCH.
 
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I hate to sound brash, but she is at least trying to piss you off....if not just outright being a cheating hoe.
Either confront her, and move on....or just keep taking her shit.
Sounds like you already told her how you felt, and she doesn't take into consideration your feelings at all, and is choosing to spend time with people you don't like.
Besides, it sounds like you are trying to go places with your life, and she wants to stay in a ghetto state of mind. Do you want to have to fight the hood mentality to find your own success? Or are you trying to get away from that kind of shit all together?
 

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Time to run, not walk. Just go. She is always going out with these guys and she is pregnant.... Don't want to state the obvious, but is it even your kid???

I am with the general feel here, get out, don't look back. If she wants to choose the hood over you, then I guess you were too good for her.
 

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Not sure if anyone else thought this but.....after the birth of the baby, get a DNA test to be sure you are the daddy- Here actions sound like she "might' have played around with someone else, too... my 2 cents.
 
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i'm sorry my friend. it does not look good. I know that you probly want to have a child witha functioning family witha mother and father living under the same roof and all. Unfortuantly shes heading inth e wrong direction. To be clear if you feel there is a trust issue, than you feel that way for a reason. In my professional career in sales I have learned alot about reading people. One constant is that if you try and discuss something with someone and they get aggressive like that. They are always hiding something... I don't know what to tell you. If you want to get it out of her do this.

Call her out in this way. Tel lher you want to talk about it, when she gets aggresive. Tell her that your tired of this so you have made a decision. You will be a good father and be int he childs life, but you and her are over. that you want to stay friendly for the sake of the child. But it's over. and make sure you have plans made and your shit packed.

Watch how she reacts.

This is whats going to happen. Its a power shift. chances are she gets emotional and says whatever she can tog et you back. Its all bullshit, stay strong. You need to know exactly whats happening and a good rule of thumb is tha tif the story gets complicated shes lying.
 

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i'm sorry my friend. it does not look good. I know that you probly want to have a child witha functioning family witha mother and father living under the same roof and all. Unfortuantly shes heading inth e wrong direction. To be clear if you feel there is a trust issue, than you feel that way for a reason. In my professional career in sales I have learned alot about reading people. One constant is that if you try and discuss something with someone and they get aggressive like that. They are always hiding something... I don't know what to tell you. If you want to get it out of her do this.

Call her out in this way. Tel lher you want to talk about it, when she gets aggresive. Tell her that your tired of this so you have made a decision. You will be a good father and be int he childs life, but you and her are over. that you want to stay friendly for the sake of the child. But it's over. and make sure you have plans made and your shit packed.

Watch how she reacts.

This is whats going to happen. Its a power shift. chances are she gets emotional and says whatever she can tog et you back. Its all bullshit, stay strong. You need to know exactly whats happening and a good rule of thumb is tha tif the story gets complicated shes lying.

Nice idea. I am hoping for the best for you.