Can i trust my boyfriend?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by silvergirl, Apr 16, 2010.

  1. silvergirl

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    my bf posts on this group on fbook from his home country and its mostly about sex topics. This guy wrote in about how his maid was making sexual advances at him while his wife was out of town and wrote about how he said no. i dont think my bf realises i can read his posts or that fbook lists on his page when he posts on there but he wrote that he wudn't think 2x about it and that he cuda banged her stright away.

    so basically he wud never hesitate to cheat... which makes me wonder if theres any point staying with him when i figure he's gonna cheat on me eventually....

    i dunno im a bit confused :( any advice?
     
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    Talk to him about it.
     
  3. MickeyLee

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    you're asking a messageboard if you can trust your boyfriend... is fairly obvious that you don't trust him. work on building the trust and intimacy in your relationship by talking to him, not us.

    hmm more than trusting your boyfriend.. can he trust you? seems like you are nosing around his intorwebz life looking for drama.
     
  4. silvergirl

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    i said to him when we 1st started dating that if he ever wants to cheat on me he shud break up with me cos i have no time for cheating. :( he also told me he use to have 3 gfs that knew nothign about eachother... with all these factors i dont know how to trust him... originally i gave him a friends sex deal but he wanted me as a gf... why wud he want me as a gf if he is gonna cheat on me anyways? he cuda had free sex n i cuda been free of these worries :(
     
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    Nope, so dump him! He obviously doesn't appreciate you or your spectacular rack like I would. ;)
     
  6. silvergirl

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    lol sammy
     
  7. D_PlankWilliams

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    Sounds like he likes cheating and likes the thought of being caught. No excitement if you just have a FWB. With that said ditto Sammy drop the zero and get with the hero
     
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    Come here, sweet sweet. I'll make it all better. I'll make it better all night long, sugartits.

    Don't worry baby I'll tag it for him. Calm down. It'll be super fun.
     
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    its hard to find the heros... this is the 1st guy in ages who hasn't wanted to just sleep with me :(
     
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    i agree with Sammy, he dosent sound like he is worth your time. find a man that cares enough not to cheat on you.
     
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    your hot too lol
     
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    I want to sleep with you and film it! We're perfect for each other! VEGAS!!!!
     
  13. D_PlankWilliams

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    Well just remember trust is earned not given. and well with a body like that can't say sex isn't the first thing that comes to mind ;) but still i understand what you mean. A decent conversation can be more sexy than flesh.
     
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    wat does tag it mean?
     
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    talk it out. after that, if you're still feeling uneasy, walk away. you can do and deserve better.
     
  16. silvergirl

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    i like sex don't get me wrong... but im just over being treated like im not worth anything! just cos i ilke sex doesn't mean i want to be treated like ur personal ho. :(
     
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    Shh shhh shhhhh darlin. You've had a rough day. C'mere and grind on my face for a sec.
















    No, but seriously I'd tag it.
     
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    Ok, how do we know that she deserves better? Because her tits are rad? White knights I swear.
     
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    1.) most people talk big when they don't actually have to DO anything, in other words Id oubt he'd do it he just wanted to sound 'tough'
    2.) I've seen your pics, he won't be going anywhere
     
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