Can not get fully hard.

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  1. someperson

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    Any real ways too fix this problem? :frown1:



    I can only get it to 6.5-7"x6" semi-hard, the hardness is not enough for penetration obviously.


    I've only seen it fully erect once 100% That was Nov 08 2010 coming up on a year.

    This has to be the number 1 reason I won't get a GF because of my useless dick of my..
     
  2. YoungNYGuy

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    Hmm i had a point in time where i wasn't getting fully hard atleast once/twice a week, it lasted about a month...i think i found myself bored not sure if it was with sex, my life, or the porn....you should set a day aside for your self look at yourself in the mirror feel good and watch some good porn i dunno ive always had a thing for older latin women so anything pertaining to that is an instant hard on...if all else fails cialis/Viagra will do the trick probably ive never needed it thought so i cant tell you about it...
     
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    Loose any extra weight, check out any heart issues with doctor, stop, lessen smoking if you do that. I'm 48, and use a little cialis every several days for an extra edge . I split the 10 mg pill into about 4. I've never tried a whole one, don't see the need. I buy the cialis from overseas without a prescription ; united pharmacies , where as generic in a 10 pack is about 1 dollar for 10mg.

    http://www.unitedpharmacies.com/customer/search.php?substring=cialis
     
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    Well someone asked me so

    I am 23 and had this problem for a long time since I was 13 years old.


    200 Pounds 5'10(5'9-¾) about 14%-15% body fat trying to work it down to 10-11% body fat.
    I do not smoke , I do not drink alcohol and no drugs.
    I work out often.


    When I was a teen (late teen)I weighed about 230 25%-27% body fat
     
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    Are you saying that your penis never gets hard (except for that one time last year), ie. you don't even get morning wood? If that's the case you probably have a physical problem and you really need to see your doctor.

    Or are you saying that you get spontaneous (ie. nocturnal, or morning wood) erections but suffer from impotence in sexual encounters? In which case you have a psychological problem (a sort of worry block). That's more the sort of thing we can advise on, but I'd definitely suggest seeing a good sex therapist.
     
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    99% of the time it can only get semi hard, morning wood 2 maybe 3 times a week semi-hard also.
     
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    In your opening post here you said, "This has to be the number 1 reason I won't get a GF because of my useless dick of my.."
    Firstly, I want to say that you're sounding extremely defeatist here. There are lots of girls who are perfectly happy to date nice guys who suffer from impotence problems. But are you SURE your cock doesn't get hard enough for penetration? Erection strength is always variable. None of us can maintain a rock hard erection for an entire sex act, and (sensible) women don't expect us to.
     
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    It has the same consistency of fat.

    I have been taking allergy medicine over the counter.

    It seems to help (slightly better erections ) Two large deep arteries become visible on the surface. both are ¼" each in size.

    3 in total of this size that I can see


    Two days I stopped taking them and it went back to what it was before.
     
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    See a urologist. He/she can determine the cause and provide you with a professional opinion/cure. That's why they exist. Good luck.
     
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    I am going to at least partially second "packingseven's" opinion here. There is one problem here however. You need to see a urologist who specializes in male reproductive issues and specializes in sexual function. If the fellow you were to choose treats predominately older men with prostate issues and not reproductive issues, he will be current on nothing. Guys who spend most of their days with their hand in a glove ramming it up the butt for a DRE (Digital rectal exam) will tend to give you the "It's all in your head!" speech. At your age the other thing I am going to suggest is that if you have any friends that are diabetic that you do a minor donation to their testing strips fund and have them run some blood sugar tests. Remember that your numbers should average between 80-120. If your blood sugar is either high or low it will completely crash your erectile capability. Hypertension (high blood pressure) is common even in guys as young as you are and this is also something that can quickly wilt a great noodle keeping it from performing properly. If none of that works then PM me and I will give you some other things to check and take to the MD. You have done great getting the weight down, but there could be some lingering after effects.

    There is one other little thing here and that is a bad case of prostatitis. Young men can get this one and on occasion it will be without symptoms. This will mean a DRE (again not my favorite thing either) and a couple of minor blood tests.
     
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    It's not a physical problem. Had a very strong morning wood so much that it woke me up.(between 3-5am) 85% it only got to 7-1/2 x 6"girth bit more stiffer but still soft. when I did wake up at 10am I tried getting getting hard everything was going fine tell I started thinking then poof it was gone and Went back to it "normally" was.
     
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    Always remember that your largest sex organ is your brain. You have been a victim of a defeatest attitude.

    Think positive and you may be able to cure your own problem. Otherwise, seek medical assistance.

    I wish you well. No one should have to live with this situation.

    Get it up and enjoy life. Still enjoying life.
     
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    I tried many things such as not jerking off 1 month straight(very busy workin) & PE.
    The other day I got it upto 7.5 x 6 Still not very hard. Maybe around 70%
     
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    Hmmm, from age 13 to 23 you should have been frequently experiencing uncontrollable rigidity. I really think you should consult a doctor about this.
     
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    You really need to see a doctor about your erectile disfunction. It's an important part of your quality of life. Not onlly that but there are other health issues that may be signaled by faliure to get erections. A doctor should ba able to help you.
     
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    I'm sorrry I won't be much help. When I was 23, I got rock hard if the wind blew. I think you have mentally put too much pressure on yourself.
     
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    i went through same thing years ago when I was dating a lovely gal. I was into her but erections the first few times didnt happen because I had cock on the brain lol took awhile

    i notice nowadays I dont get turned on that often or that easily.

    Could be a few issues:

    I have had soooo much sex that I am getting bored? LOL
    Bored with same person? This is probably true because once I was in bed with a nice NEW tight hole, I was MORE than ready to go

    Eroticism seems to work more for me than porno or porn star-mentality ppl.

    But erection issues could be psychological and even physcial <heart disease, diabetes, high blood pressure, etc)

    Just some thoughts
     
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    I been trying another technique while getting off . I think the issue has been solved
    I have been getting it to 85% to 95% erection quality .

    been hitting 7 3/8 X 6 3/8.

    last night it got to 8" *6.5 glans got shiny too
     
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    I think it's cured for good now.

    hitting (7.5 to 7.8nbpel x 6.5Mid (7"base girth.)90%-95% erection quality with ease now.

    I like how the glans are nice & shiny.
     
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