Can only orgasm laying down

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    fak_et New Member

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    I noticed lately I can only orgasm while laying down. How can i change this? I really have to tense my whole body up and have some intense stimulation to cum.
     
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    Thats the only way i've ever been able to orgasm. I've tried it without tensing up, not being on my back, its almost 99% impossible.

    I hate it but i think my orgasms are much more intense because i have to put much more tension into them.
     
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    Look at the bright side, you'll never have premature ejaculation problems.
     
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    Everyone's different.

    I find it VERY hard if not literally impossible to orgasm/ejaculate lying down or even sitting down.

    I have to be tied up/restrained and forced to orgasm/ejaculate lying down or sitting down.

    I prefer to orgasm ejaculate standing up or any other way than lying down or sitting down.
     
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    I think a few men have this problem because they only masturbate laying down, and they masturbate a lot. Their body adjusts in a way that makes it difficult to orgasm otherwise.
     
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    Probably part of the problem, hopefully i can get my body to adapt another way.
     
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    I am getting too used to orgasming at the computer. We seem to get into a "groove".
     
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    Don't worry. I was that way from age 15 to 40 and now I can occassionally cum on top, doggy, and from oral. Not everytime but often enough that I know it's available if I want it. Tensing up on my back still guarantees the best orgasm, however.
     
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    Yeah, it seems the body gets used to it. The best way to break a habit is to replace it with another. You have to "train" yourself to cum in other positions. It starts with slowing eveything down again and focusing on the sensetions you give yourself, barley touching yourself. No more fast jerking for now. Light touches with lots of lube and a real focus on the sensations you get.
     
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