Can sex be painful for men?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by zaza, Apr 3, 2007.

  1. zaza

    zaza New Member

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    Some bigger guys have difficulty getting it all in during sex. If you are very long and bottom out, or if you have a large girth ad have sex with a woman that is tight, can it be painful?
     
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    zaza,

    absolutely it can be painful....if she isnt wet enough or is just too tight then the foreskin pulls back and it HURTS...or sex goes on for a long period of time, then the skin on the shaft can get sore as well.


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  3. burns1de

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    Amen to that - I also find that If I keep an erection long enough (like, two hours), it starts to get real painful, penetration or not. But that damn foreskin, man... I hear you on this. :)
     
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    Hitting the cervix hurts! Right before a woman gets her period, there is a swelling and tilting of the cervix and man if you hit it right, you see stars!
     
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    I'm cut but if she is not wet then yeah it hurts upon initial penetration. Also when I hit her cervex it hurts a bit. Anal hurts if I don't lube it good. SOmetimes I'm in a hurry or lose control, it hurts during sex just a bit but after it can hurt like hell.
    Jake
    PS My nuts sometimes ache for a day after I bang a hot ass full throttle for a long time. I wear a jock or sports type underwear the following day.
     
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    as a gay man, most guys wont let me get in all the way and it really hurts if they are so tight it pulls my foreskin back too far
     
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    One of my X-girlfriends used to do those kegel exercises religously. She was a tiny thing and it didn't help that I was already too big for her. (not that she minded) One time I guess I did everything right and she came extremely hard!! When she did, she clamped down on my dick and literally stopped me. It felt like my skin was about to rip off and I couldn't move either direction. Needless to say, I didn't cum and called it quits right then. She thought the whole "death grip" thing was funny.
     
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    Ugh, a really painful moment for me was when a girl was on top and going crazy, and bent my cock at the halfway point with her pubic bone. It hurt in a way I can't describe and I couldn't even get hard for a couple of days. I wouldn't let her back on top for months, lol.
     
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    My girl likes penetration at a downward angle, she really gets off on it but I hate having my penis at that angle, cause it hurts like a bitch. Other than that only if she is dry.
     
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    I have a problem with my penis not going soft after I cum. I know many guys wish they too lasted after cumming but be careful what you wish for. It's a problem because the girl assumes I can still go, and while initially it feels okay after a couple of minutes my penis becomes really painful. It's the most horrible feeling and I usually won't stop because I'm afraid it would be rude. What happens finally is this watery cum and a burning feeling in my dick. Then I wake up in the morning with another hard on but I wake up from pain. Sometimes it takes up to three days before my dick feels normal. When I piss I feel like my urinary tract is dry. Is this normal? do any of you guys experience the same thing? I always end up regretting that I kept going. It's hard not to because initially it's great and you feel like some kind of super sexual freak but then the pain slowly builds up and the orgrams is anything but pleasant. If I wait half an hour after I cum my dick finally gradually deflates and then I'll be okay if I go again
     
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    Absolutely, as has been stated.
     
  12. Donk

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    Short answer, yes. Wow, this might very well be the one and only large penis related topic that has never been raised on this board before. (Unless I just missed it.) Anyway, as others have said, my experience is that excessive tightness during vaginal intercourse and/or hitting bottom too hard can cause some pain (not to mention the possible pain from wearing a too-tight condom, which has been discussed on the board many times).
     
  13. Love-it

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    Yes, I discussed it once in a post about my wife still not being able to acommodate my girth, I got part way in when there was a very distinctive narrow band of vaginal muscle that suddenly clamped down around my penis, it was a very strange experience. In general if we try penetration she gets sore very easily, most of the time I can barely get the head of my penis inside her, if I get a 1/4" deeper I can feel the pressure increase.
     
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    Like others have said, I'd say yes also. Initial penetration is usually the greatest sensation, but can be painful with some women for all the reasons already given. The only true pain for me happens from simply fucking for long periods. The penis becomes "raw" and is extremely sensitive to the slightest touch.
     
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    In my experience it can be painful, in at least two ways:

    1. Very long strokes when your partner is tight. I know that there is no better feeling, even if like me you cannot use the whole length, but sometimes the incredible pull of the friction on my skin has been enough to cause abrasions and some bleeding. It is the skin of the glans that has been affected most. I have a few 'war wounds' there which tend to show only when I have a really full erection.

    2. Woman on top position. Be absolutely certain that she does not attempt to come down on you too fast or too far. If in her enthusiasm she tries to take all of you, but she can't, then it will be painful for her, and very risky for you, as you might end up supporting a lot of her weight on the end of your penis.
     
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    I'm not sure what the name for it is but I was ripped the bit of skin that connects your forskin to the underside of your helmut. It hurt like hell and took weeks to recover, I was too young to understand the need for lubricants
     
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    It has been painful for me the first times, as my girlfriend was very tight, and also shallow, so i felt my penis pressed, squeezed (when I succeeded in penetrating her).
     
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    I know what you mean about Keigel girls. I had a fling with an aerobics instructor and she liked to randomly stop my thrusting by clamping up when the head pulled almost out.

    Here I am working it in a nice rythm, long strokes and she clamps down and it is like a door shutting in your face. My feet lost traction on the bed and I nearly fell on top of her each time she did it. The girl thought it was hilarious and told me she was the only one I had to concentrate on while I was fucking. It was true, I kept making sure that when she did her 'move" I was either able to stop mid thrust or be in just enough to get a head squeeze out of it and not evicted from her pussy.

    Sorry about the "P" word, I know a lot of you are getting nausious just reading it.

    Native Americans women choose their husbands and have folk lore that describes them looking for their sexual match as well as other factors to promote a strong bond/marriage.

    Deer women look for Deer men who have longer, thinner penises. Bear women look for shorter, thicker penis'd Deer men. These penises fit the way they are built; long and narrow canal, versus shallow and wider.

    Great topic. I feel supported by the group over this one! I'd say group hug all around, but we'd need porno music in about 5 seconds! LOL
     
  19. transformer_99

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    Not to mention friction burns anywhere else.
     
  20. WellNdowd_LI

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    My cock is long and banging up against an IUD really hurts.
     
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