Can sex with a large cock spoil a girl or a guy?

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stud_hunter said:
You and me both, Gisella. Length is nice, but I'm sorry - there is no substitute for that feeling of a thick cock. It tugs all the right things :biggrin1:
In general my take on men's sizes is this - for me to orgasm the way I want I don't need a guy to have a big dick, but with a big one it just takes a whole lot less effort, especially if the guy has good girth. And if he knows how to work it too - even better :tongue: . So to answer the question, I do feel I'm a bit spoiled because, quite honestly, I've gotten accustomed to having great orgasms without really having to work for them. Like I said, there's just no equal substitute for girth.

Stud Hunter, mercurialblis, Honey Girl, and Gisella,
Thanks for making a 'thick' guy feel great! :biggrin1:
Of course I agree that size alone (length, girth or combo) doesn't make a good lover, which is why I have always pay attention to what works for the woman I am with. Satisfy the woman, and the man gets to have an encore! :wink:
 

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Honey_Grrrl83 said:
I was contemplating this the other day,if me and my extremly well endowed boyfriend were to split up someday(very unlikely)would I be so spoiled by his huge cock that an "average" or even slightly smaller guy would be unable to satisfy me?:confused:

Here's the story that played out with an ex that I remained on very good terms with:

After we split, she confided that her next few lovers weren't "getting it done." She would often add (paraphrasing) that they were a lot smaller and I'd spolied her with my big cock. I'l admit we had a couple of "mistakes" where we ended up in bed together and she had the kind of orgasms she was looking for.

Anyway, she eventually started seeing another guy who was also big - maybe about my size. She was looking forward to a regular dose of the kind of pleasure that we used to have together. Long story short - it didn't happen.

She talked to me a bit about this and finally came to a conclusion that it was me and not my cock that was the magic. Of course we fucked like animals later that night.

So what's the answer? I guess maybe that a man with a large cock can spoil a girl. But woman doesn't live on size alone.
 

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lapdog2001 said:
Stud Hunter, mercurialblis, Honey Girl, and Gisella,
Thanks for making a 'thick' guy feel great! :biggrin1:
Of course I agree that size alone (length, girth or combo) doesn't make a good lover, which is why I have always pay attention to what works for the woman I am with. Satisfy the woman, and the man gets to have an encore! :wink:

You are welcome & congratulations! by 6 is always wonderful!
 

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Honey_Grrrl83 said:
I was contemplating this the other day,if me and my extremly well endowed boyfriend were to split up someday(very unlikely)would I be so spoiled by his huge cock that an "average" or even slightly smaller guy would be unable to satisfy me?:confused:

Oh yes. I have had sex with many married woman (very common habit here in skandinavia):smile: They have told me wors like; "how can I ever get used to my husbands cock again after this".
I receive e-mails from them saying hello to my penis or talking about my penis. Not my great look or sense of humor etc. (even those are good as well):smile:
 

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rope9839 said:
Here's the story that played out with an ex that I remained on very good terms with:

After we split, she confided that her next few lovers weren't "getting it done." She would often add (paraphrasing) that they were a lot smaller and I'd spolied her with my big cock. I'l admit we had a couple of "mistakes" where we ended up in bed together and she had the kind of orgasms she was looking for.

Anyway, she eventually started seeing another guy who was also big - maybe about my size. She was looking forward to a regular dose of the kind of pleasure that we used to have together. Long story short - it didn't happen.

She talked to me a bit about this and finally came to a conclusion that it was me and not my cock that was the magic. Of course we fucked like animals later that night.

So what's the answer? I guess maybe that a man with a large cock can spoil a girl. But woman doesn't live on size alone.

So she keeps coming back for more of the rope? Looks like the rope knows how to use his tool properly--good for you! No, a woman can't live on size alone; however, there is a difference between living and living well. Very well. Extremely well. High c-note orgasm kind of well.:wink:
 

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Greatjorma said:
Oh yes. I have had sex with many married woman (very common habit here in skandinavia):smile: They have told me wors like; "how can I ever get used to my husbands cock again after this".
I receive e-mails from them saying hello to my penis or talking about my penis. Not my great look or sense of humor etc. (even those are good as well):smile:
Are you a member of the Lonely Island?
 

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I think it has more to do with the size of your vagina rather than the size of the guy's cock.

If you are lucky enough to be with a guy who is size compatible with you (my take on this is that the guy is just a bit bigger relatively, particularly with girth), then sex with other guys who are not so compatible will probably not be as good. In this scenario consider yourself "spoilt".

Also consider that it takes two to Tango. If a guy finds you too big or too small he probably won't be having as great sex with you as he would with a perfectly size-matched partner. This may affect your own enjoyment beyond the purely physical.

As for cock that is too big for you (just how much of a stretch you like is a big variable) spoiling you for smaller cocks, the evidence seems to suggest not, though it make take some time for your natural elasticity to get you back to your normal size. Once this has happened then you can spoil yourself.
 

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I wouldn't say sex with a large cock could spoil a girl, but AMAZING sex with a guy with a large cock sure could lol
 

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mercurialbliss said:
So she keeps coming back for more of the rope? Looks like the rope knows how to use his tool properly--good for you! No, a woman can't live on size alone; however, there is a difference between living and living well. Very well. Extremely well. High c-note orgasm kind of well.:wink:

I might toss out there that a hung guy can also get spoiled by a girl. It may or may not be fair to call my ex a size queen, but she certainly doted on my cock like no one else. She was always bragging about some feature or function, to me and our friends.

The problem I now kind of see that kind of attention to be a prerequisite for really good sex. If I don't get at least the occasional bit of cock worship, I get a little board and start thinking about other people.

So, to a degree she has spoiled me, too. It may be that she was just a great piece of ass or just that we were really good together, but I think it's going to be awhile until I do better than my one girl fan club. :frown1:
 

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It will change your perception of things, but opinions is your prerogative.

But just remember, there's an age old adage (Ok, 20 yrs or so!) that goes;

It isn't the size of the wand,
But the magic inside.:wink:
 

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Before I met my husband, I had sex with four other guys all who were average in size. At the time, their penis size wasn't an issue at all. However, I've been with my husband for over 20 years and at this point I'm just so used to his size (and extra large toys). Sex/orgasm for me is associated with being filled. A few years ago, a friend of ours got us an average sized dildo as a gag gift for our 10th anniversary (he had no idea of my husbands size). I tried it once by myself to see what it felt like, and I must say, once I started getting hot, I couldn't continue with it and switched to one of my regular dildos, I just needed to be filled.

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Until about a year ago I had a sex only relationship with a very hot girl, meaning the only thing we had in common was great sex. A few months after we started our relationship she got herself a boyfriend (I didn't know until later). Anyway, we would still hook up once or twice a week because, as she said, she had to have big cock. It ended when she graduated and left school, but I have to wonder how she's satisfying her craving now.
 

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i doubt it would spoil her, as has been stated before, the vagina snaps back! lol, however i do believe it may cause her to take, or at least want her to take a few trips down memory lane, or at least has been my experience.
 

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Well, for this gal it is that i am big dick spoiled!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! having enjoyed th big dick now for a yr. I'll have to ask the guy if he's packing..... THERE IS NO!!!! subistute for the BIG DICK
 

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This reminds me of my ex girlfriend, whom I was with for 5 years...

When we met...and eventually fooled around...she got all bug-eyed when she saw me. She had been with 6 or 7 guys prior to me but none like myself. The first two times we had sex she was in tears, but naturally she got used to me physically but never took me for granted. I will also add that it was a TIGHT fit even years into our relationship.

She had the typical female habit of spreading the news to her "friends" while we were together, which I might add contributed to my "recovery" when we broke up LOL.

Anyways...we part ways and she met her now husband. Her and I have remained friends, but several times she let me know more than I wanted to hear...i.e. he is so much shorter and thinner blah blah blah and that since we broke up she and her husband now use "toys".

One may feel a bit of pride in this, and perhaps I do, but only to an extent. She is married now and has a child...so if it IS true that a woman could be "ruined" or "spoiled"...then I feel terrible for her husband because that makes him feel "under my sexual shadow" which would be no way for him to live.

I think in the end...women who feel that they NEED a giant cock need to re-evaluate thier emotional/physical connection with themselves and thier sig. others. If men can overcome a certain physical flaw that thier women have and still love her with all thier hearts then women should be able to as well.

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Well said. I online chatted with and eventually met a women that said she needed a really big one (so why meet me?:confused: ) She went on and on about her last lover with the 9" winkie. The more I listened, the clearer it was to me - the excitement was the guy, she just assigned it to the winkie. All the stories were about wild monkey sex in daring places, 3 hour sessions, etc. So she was trying to duplicate it by focusing on finding an equivalent winkie, not an equivalent guy. So "spoiled" can be different for different people.