Can she be too tight...?

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After I had my son, I did feel tighter. The first time I had sex after the pregnancy I felt like a virgin all over again. It hurt a lot, worse than my first time to be honest and we had to take it real slow. Eventually, I got back into the groove, but it took some time.

Thank you for telling me that. That makes me feel better. I was having depressing visions of never having sex with him again. When we tried it, it hurt so much I had a panic attack. I was terrified. :frown1:

I'll try to be more patient with myself. :redface:

On the pregnancy board, there's actually a LOT of talk about sex and not having sex. The reason why I haven't posted there is because I can actually fit a normal size dildo, and for some reason I felt self-conscious of bringing up my husband's penis size there. That's what this board is for! :tongue:
 

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Hello Petite, I tried sending a private message but your box is full.

I'm so sorry, I just cleared over 50 PMs to make space by getting rid of the "repeats" that are saved in the nested conversations. I'll try not to let it happen again. :redface:
 

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when my wife has contractions from orgasm I only feel it at the last couple of inches at the base, I like it but when she is excited I find she gets much wider deeper in where my head is, never feel contractions on the head unless I am pulling out, she usually will hold me deep. If she is really excited before I enter her (I like to rub her vulva with the head of my cock) I have a hard time getting in as I am too thick and really have to work the lube, but once the head enters I slide right in as I am taperd thicker from the head to the base.
 

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Oh yeah... There are some girls that just cant accept a larger dick. Ive been incredibly turned on at times and went soft after I just couldn't get it in... or I only got a few inches in. It REALLY sucks when all you want to do is fuck the living shit out of someone! Talk about frustration!

To make matters worse; I happen to love petite girls....
 

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I had the same problem last night. I knew this girl, she's not virgin, and had a boyfriend for several years.
We tried to have sex, I'd say, cus I couldn't go more than just the head..
It was hurting her on every position. She kept fingering herself all the time long while I was trying to penetrate her with my penis...but...no fun!
And for her even less. Why :confused::confused::confused:
 

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I had the same problem last night. I knew this girl, she's not virgin, and had a boyfriend for several years.
We tried to have sex, I'd say, cus I couldn't go more than just the head..
It was hurting her on every position. She kept fingering herself all the time long while I was trying to penetrate her with my penis...but...no fun!
And for her even less. Why :confused::confused::confused:

Why you ask?

Probably cause of your big dick.
 

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I've had sex with one woman who was REALLY tight - but she had a condition called Vaginismus.

I could literally feel a ring of muscle around my dick. When we fucked, and because she wanted it, we would take about 15 - 20 minutes before I was fully inside her. Even then, I could still feel that ring around my dick when thrusting into her.

She would eventually loosen up after a while but if by chance my dick came out of her pussy for whatever reason (changing positions or just coming out too far when long stroking her) it was almost back to square one. ARGH! It wouldn't be 15 minutes but probably about 5 minutes or so. It was torture.

But she knew that every time we had sex this would happen - and so did I, so we planned for it. If we only had a few minutes to have sex because her parents were coming home or whatever, we didn't do it. But when we had tons of time to devote to having sex (which we needed to do) then we took our time so that I could penetrate her fully.

Simba
 

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This only happened to me once with a girl who I was crazy about. She was stunning, amazing body but she was a virgin. When we finally hooked up I just couldn't get it in. Devastating.
 

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YES! I'm currently extremely frustrated because he doesn't fit anymore, since we were forced to take a 6 week break from having vaginal sex. The times that we've tried have been painful and made me panic, and I've been trying to use dildos to help, and that's been hurting, too. It's seriously depressing.

Does it sound weird that I'm starting to resent his penis for being too big because we could have had sex by now if it was average sized? Yeah, that sounds weird. I'll feel much better when our sex life actually returns to normal, I'm sure of it.

it's so unfair, everything you post is hot....yet you barely ever talk to me
 

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I had an ex who was 5'2" and I am 6'3", not that that means much, but still....every time we had sex it took us about 10min to finally get me totally inside her. Then once I was inside her, we had to wait a few min for her to just get used to it.....this is after oral sex, her cumming from oral sex, lube, lots of foreplay...everything it was always that way. I'm not massive, 6.5x6.2 but she was the only one who had this problem...so some women might be "too tight" not sure about it!
 

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my ex was pretty tight in the beginning.. i had to slowly make my way in. she said i was the thickest shes had. and she loved it!
 

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i have similar problem as petite ... gf was away for 3 months and ever since then sex has basically been a no go. too painful for her. our sex life wasn't 'great' to begin with but it was a lot better ... she's shy to try lube or anything. plus she's tiny. argh! pretty frustrating, has made me question whether i still turn her on. she even encourages me to hook up w others...

anyway it's encouraging to know others have these problems too ...
 

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I've had sex with one woman who was REALLY tight - but she had a condition called Vaginismus.

I could literally feel a ring of muscle around my dick. When we fucked, and because she wanted it, we would take about 15 - 20 minutes before I was fully inside her. Even then, I could still feel that ring around my dick when thrusting into her.

She would eventually loosen up after a while but if by chance my dick came out of her pussy for whatever reason (changing positions or just coming out too far when long stroking her) it was almost back to square one. ARGH! It wouldn't be 15 minutes but probably about 5 minutes or so. It was torture.

But she knew that every time we had sex this would happen - and so did I, so we planned for it. If we only had a few minutes to have sex because her parents were coming home or whatever, we didn't do it. But when we had tons of time to devote to having sex (which we needed to do) then we took our time so that I could penetrate her fully.

Simba

More work than its worth.
 

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Women are obviously shaped differently too. My ex was SUPER UBER tight at the entryway, took 3 or 4 sessions of trying to have sex over a couple days before I could even get my cock in her, but then it seemed to expand outward once you got past the ring. Like a little cave. She was a semi-petite girl too.
My current girl is a little less tight at the entryway, but super tight the deeper I go, gotta push my cock in and it's SOOO snug it's awesome, makes her head arch backward and me groan. She's a little bigger girl too.
 

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More work than its worth.

Eh. I wouldn't say that. I mean, even though it took all that work to get me fully inside her - I thoroughly enjoyed fucking her. She responded well to all things sexual - she really enjoyed being eaten and she seemed to enjoy having sex with me also. Plus, there was the added benefit of learning how to hold off orgasm with a woman SO tight. So subsequently when I had sex with women who were less tight or "loose", I lasted for quite a bit of time.

Plus, she was a squirter. HOW can you not like that!?

Simba
 

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Eh. I wouldn't say that. I mean, even though it took all that work to get me fully inside her - I thoroughly enjoyed fucking her. She responded well to all things sexual - she really enjoyed being eaten and she seemed to enjoy having sex with me also. Plus, there was the added benefit of learning how to hold off orgasm with a woman SO tight. So subsequently when I had sex with women who were less tight or "loose", I lasted for quite a bit of time.

Plus, she was a squirter. HOW can you not like that!?

Simba
I was unimpressed until that part. She gets a pass for that :cool:
 

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I've definitely been with some smaller ladies that were too tight. I had to be very careful but it was still very enjoyable.