Can someone PLEASE explain small penis humiliation (SPH) to me?

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  1. thickpex

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    I know there are guys who are members here who consider themselves to be hung relatively small, and some have even expressed having SPH fantasies, or actually having acting it out, like in a cuckold situation. FOR THE LIFE OF ME I cannot understand the thinking or motivation behind such behavior or compulsions?? Maybe some of the larger guys here have been the "bull" in such a "love" (c'mon, there's NO love involved on the wife's side) triangle, and can give us insight as to where the smaller guy is coming from, or wtf they're thinking?? Maybe some of the guys who are in such a cuckold/SPH situation can explain how being humiliated and belittled and emasculated can be something that u can derive pleasure from?? I could never make fun of someone for that, even if u paid me.
     
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    just a fetish some small cock guys have- it literally gets them hard when a big cock guy intimidates, humiliates, or fucks his wife (in cuckolding). I guess you have to be into the whole "power" aspect to understand it...given up power or having supreme power. Most big cock guys seem to be hardwired-not to pick on or put down small cock guys...but the fact is some small guy luv it, alot. I like it...its fun.. My feeling are never hurt, its more of intense roleplay.
     
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    this. I'm actually on the small side and sph is a real turn-on. All happened when my wife (then gf) told me how she was with well endowed/normal guys (3 ex-bfs) before we met.

    (my first post)
     
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    just because you don't get it,
    doesn't make it less valid.
    i could get into it with the right guy,
    if i loved him & it got him hot.
     
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    Nope, I don't get it either. I already feel like a disgusting-looking deformed freak most of the time anyway. The last thing I want is for someone to point out the obvious...as if I don't already know.
     
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    I think there is a small minority (pun intended) who do have serious psychological issues regarding their penis size and use humiliation as self-inflicted punishment. This is unfortunate.

    But for most people who are into SPH, I think it can be a healthy version of role-playing between two consenting adults. It's a bit of a submissive fantasy, not unlike the "bad schoolboy who deserves to be punished by the strict school-mistress."

    SPH is also a way of celebrating/worshipping a large penis. After all, the smaller one penis is, the bigger another one will look in comparison. And I think most visitors to this site can easily understand large penis admiration.

    SPH is not for everyone, but I think in many cases it's simply a fun bit of escapism.
     
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    I don't get SPH either. growing up I was humilated enuf for being tall and skinny. luckily, I inherited a big penis.
     
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    SPH is just retarded from my persepective. I'm on the low end of average in length, and it's not SPH that turns me on, it's imagining (is that word correct?) myself having a big penis.
     
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    some of us guys with small dicks are also submissive & are turned on by being used & humiliated. since I have a small weenie, my role is to suck guys with BIG cocks, they're entitled to be serviced & sucked because of their BIG cocks. I especially love laying my little wiener next to a BIG man-cock fully boned to really apreiciate how much bigger his cock is & how small mine is, it's a real turn-on. Anybody else (BIG or small) feel the same?
     
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    If I was big, it would be such a turn on to see how bigger I am than most people. But now, I wouldn't try anything that comes remotely close to what you said.
     
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    Well, from someone who is not well endowed, big dick'd guys are no more entitled to cock sucking than any of us are unless that's someone's fetish in itself, to suck big cock as it is to screw big assed women. Should I ever be inclined to suck a penis, it is the person that I'd be suck'ling, not the dick, large or small, for me there has to be some sort of connection. So you big dicked fellas, you don't get a free pass from me.
     
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    I don't think it can be explained to someone who doesn't feel the same way about the fetish. The entire reason things are labeled as fetishes is because they are things from which people derive pleasure even though the majority of society may not understand how. Things that kind of make sense, like bondage and such, are kinks, but fetishes go much deeper than simply "what feels good physically." Fetishes exist in the mind, or maybe even on a deeper level than that. So, naturally, it is very hard to understand if you don't feel it and very hard to explain even if you do.
     
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    I am very submissive, and into being humiliated. But people laughing at my real world attributes does not turn me on. For example, if someone made fun of my breasts during sex (eg. saying I was a slut because they were large) it would in fact be an instant turn off. I just don't get it.
     
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    It's rare anyone tells me I have a small penis. Just average here 7x6. But I like guys way taller than me. Often they are about my size or smaller. Met one 6ft9 guy with a huge 10 inch cock, it was kinda hot when he told me he loved how small and cute my cock is. The guy is a total cum lover and gets off on having the entire thing is his mouth.

    So not really a humiliation since I have a strong ego, but hot being way smaller in the cock area with him.
     
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    no
    I can't explain it cus I have NO IDEA why it would make people horny
    however I'm interested in trying Large Penis Humiliation if a hot chick will help me out : o )
     
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    big boob humiliation....interesting
     
  18. marcus_likes_big

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    well, here is my two cents worth- we are a couple who have never acted out any cuckold scenarios and likely will not- for us sex is part of our love for each other. BUT, we do fantasize and role play around that theme and to explain how it works for me, I am submissive to her and I have also had some experiences with men. She is turned on by that- Again, nothing extra-merital, just some things I did before meeting her- I am a bi submissive male to both men and women. SO part of the thrill in our role play is the idea of a hung male taking control. Its a urn on. how do we role play this? I perform oral on her while she watches videos of really hung men (ie mandingo) as she watches, she comments on how awesome their cocks are. How those big ones are really satisfying... she also uses some sizable dildos while I watch, things like that. As she does, she will sometimes come over and says that my cock is not as impressive as those others... there are way more ways that we play this out, but thats my input...
     
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    You don't have to have a small dick to enjoy humiliation fetish of any kind. It's not the fact that they have a small penis, but that it turns them on to be laughed at and humiliated. Of course most guys into this have a small penis and it can often be the catalist for the fetish... I knew a guy once who was one of the hottest guys I'd ever known. He had a micro-penis... He would go to sex clubs and just strip down and let any guy do anything that they wanted and it made him the hottest when it was an old ugly man groping at his beautiful body.
    The psychology around this is all over the place.
     
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    It's like any other fetish I suppose. My cock isn't super small or anything but I just happen to get off on my wife telling me that I'm much smaller than some of her ex's and other guys that we know. Sph turns me on just like large breasts on a women turn me on; some dudes get turned on by small breasts but it's not my thing so to each his or her own. I am on the submissive side and I also enjoy dominant females (with strapons too) so I guess it's probably related.
     
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