Can someone teach me how to shoot my load

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I need to know the technique to be a consistent shooter. Ive spit out a couple surprising ropes of cum before but it's always caught me off guard and never been intentional. If anyone has advice I'm willing to try something new.
 
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I know I shoot much more and harder after edging for a long time. Getting close to cumming then backing off over and over for upwards of an hour or two. Usually results in some voluminous cumshots and sometimes decent shooting distance.

Also not cumming for a day or two helps. If you're constantly cumming everyday/multiple times a day, chances are there's not going to be much to shoot.
 

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I know I shoot much more and harder after edging for a long time. Getting close to cumming then backing off over and over for upwards of an hour or two. Usually results in some voluminous cumshots and sometimes decent shooting distance.

Also not cumming for a day or two helps. If you're constantly cumming everyday/multiple times a day, chances are there's not going to be much to shoot.

It's important to note that edging, abstinence, and hydration will increase semen quantity, but the quantity increase doesn't change a dribbler into a shooter.
 
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I don't really think it can be learned. I shot my first ejaculation across the room as a teenager and was as surprised as anyone. I appreciate the differences. We don't all have to be the same.
 

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I don't really agree with everything above. Maybe not all guys are able to shoot their cum, but nearly all of them are. Some guys can't because of a physical defect, but anyone can.

Two factors mentioned about are hydration and diet. Staying hydrated is self explanatory. Try and keep a diet that contains foods that promote semen production. Pineapple, watermelon, eggs, certain nuts, oranges. There are other I can't remember, but I have good luck with these. Also there are some supplements that seem to help at least with volume.

Also, kegels or PC flexes and improve your ability to shoot cum with some distance, at least in my experience. But an even bigger factor is delaying your orgasm when jerking off and ensuring that you only allow yourself to cum when you reach the apex of the sensation. I find when I do this I am able to shoot a load just like when I was a teenager. If I slip up and end up cumming when I'm not at the peak of the sensation I will tend to cum without the force I could. I might still shoot, but not with the strength I could shoot with.
 
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It's important to note that edging, abstinence, and hydration will increase semen quantity, but the quantity increase doesn't change a dribbler into a shooter.
I'm 99% a dribbler. My cum has always been thick. However, the first time I actually shot my load, as in multiple jets of cum, was when I first discovered XTube and had edged for 4 hours. CRAZY orgasm when that happened, and somewhat alarming as it was the first time that had happened. Like, 7 shots of cum, and much thinner consistency than any other load I ever had. Bambambambambam.. up my chest and on my arm.

At any rate, given the perfect set of variables (lots of liquid, edging, and highly aroused) I can sometimes shoot. When it does happen, I feel like I won the lottery.

So, it can happen, but it's not a science.
 

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why do u care to shoot or not to shoot? that's probably what you need to address first.

only way i know how to shoot is to abstain from rubbing one out for at least a few days to a week then get all excited and worked up to the moment and then cum hard. this always works for me but i will only shoot a couple inches max. otherwise i'm a dribbler and have always been.

i'd be open to the idea of learning how to do it but i really don't have any reason to so i've never cared for it. most time when i cum, my cock is in her pussy or her mouth so shooting never had relevance.
 
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Edge all the time, never made me shooter. Was in my teens. By shooter I mean, good distance past belly button.
 
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I'm a big shooter. Kinda known for it.

In my 20s I used to shoot up to a half dozen times a day -- far reaching squirts. Now in my 30s I can't unload as often but when I do I make sure it counts.

First is definitely hydration. Be sure you're drinking lots of water. I only do one coffee or juice a day -- coffee is a diuretic. While it hasn't been proven to affect fertility feeling jittery doesn't help. Ditto with soda.

Orange and pineapple juice are good but again just one glass because of sugar content.

Second is definitely don't release as much. Edging is a great way to build a load up. If you get to the very brink of cumming and hold back, your next shot will likely be much bigger. Obviously the more you restrain the bigger the load -- you just save up more.

Third is kegel exercises. There are a couple you can do. Similar to edging, when you take a piss, consciously stop midstream and start up again. This will actually help you when you're older as well. Also squeeze your Kegels which are inside. I think there was a joke on "Sex and the City" where Samantha is squeezing her Kegels mid-conversation. You can do it anytime.

Fourth is chemistry. When you are sexually aroused your cumshots can be even bigger. I go to a sensual masseur who I'm into and he's into me. We build up the sensuality over a 90 min period and I just erupt at the end. He loves a big shooter and the fact he is so turned on (and makes it known verbally) is a turn on for me as well. I've shot well off his massage table and onto his bookshelf.

Of course not every time is going to be huge. But eat (and drink) right, be aroused instead of anxious, and do those exercises.
 

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I don't really agree with everything above. Maybe not all guys are able to shoot their cum, but nearly all of them are. Some guys can't because of a physical defect, but anyone can.

Two factors mentioned about are hydration and diet. Staying hydrated is self explanatory. Try and keep a diet that contains foods that promote semen production. Pineapple, watermelon, eggs, certain nuts, oranges. There are other I can't remember, but I have good luck with these. Also there are some supplements that seem to help at least with volume.

Also, kegels or PC flexes and improve your ability to shoot cum with some distance, at least in my experience. But an even bigger factor is delaying your orgasm when jerking off and ensuring that you only allow yourself to cum when you reach the apex of the sensation. I find when I do this I am able to shoot a load just like when I was a teenager. If I slip up and end up cumming when I'm not at the peak of the sensation I will tend to cum without the force I could. I might still shoot, but not with the strength I could shoot with.

Here's the thing. I'm pretty sure a shooter will be able to shoot even a small load a good distance. In my youth I masturbated daily, usually twice a day. Even the second load, without any edging...I could cum in a minute or two...still shot a couple of feet.

In speaking with my urologist, it seems the factor involved in shooting versus dribbling is how tight the urethra is. Like pushing your thumb over the end of a garden hose to make it spray a distance, if the urethra is relatively tight, the semen is forced out with more pressure. This explains why saving up a big load via hydration, diet and edging can result in some guys occasionally shooting but more often dribbling in more normal circumstances. In my case, having a cystoscopy performed may have stretched my urethra enough to change my former prodigious (think: Peter North would be jealous) shooting to today's more often dribbling ejaculations.
 

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Here's the thing. I'm pretty sure a shooter will be able to shoot even a small load a good distance. In my youth I masturbated daily, usually twice a day. Even the second load, without any edging...I could cum in a minute or two...still shot a couple of feet.

In speaking with my urologist, it seems the factor involved in shooting versus dribbling is how tight the urethra is. Like pushing your thumb over the end of a garden hose to make it spray a distance, if the urethra is relatively tight, the semen is forced out with more pressure. This explains why saving up a big load via hydration, diet and edging can result in some guys occasionally shooting but more often dribbling in more normal circumstances. In my case, having a cystoscopy performed may have stretched my urethra enough to change my former prodigious (think: Peter North would be jealous) shooting to today's more often dribbling ejaculations.

That might be true, but I think there's always a balance to these things. A urethra that is stretched may not be able to maintain the pressure generated by the prostate, but a urethra that is too narrow could stifle that pressure and prevent it from shooting out because the pressure can't overcome how narrow it is. I'm sure you've seen Kind of the Hill.

Some people have physical conditions, whether from birth or procedures or injuries or whatever. My point is really that most people can train themselves to be able to shoot more and further. They might not be able to achieve Peter North like cumshots, but they can at least move in that direction. I know that the things I describe above have helped me shoot more consistently rather than dribble, which has been more common since I'm no longer in my 20s.
 
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That might be true, but I think there's always a balance to these things. A urethra that is stretched may not be able to maintain the pressure generated by the prostate, but a urethra that is too narrow could stifle that pressure and prevent it from shooting out because the pressure can't overcome how narrow it is. I'm sure you've seen Kind of the Hill.

Some people have physical conditions, whether from birth or procedures or injuries or whatever. My point is really that most people can train themselves to be able to shoot more and further. They might not be able to achieve Peter North like cumshots, but they can at least move in that direction. I know that the things I describe above have helped me shoot more consistently rather than dribble, which has been more common since I'm no longer in my 20s.
I've never heard of anyone who was always a dribbler "train" themselves to be shooters. But I'll await updates from the OP.
 

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Ive always been a shooter but if i'm not hydrated i find it affects the distance or velocity, edging only seems to affect volume. I always get a very shocked response when i cum, usually along the lines of holy crap when was the last time you blew your load, first time blow job/swallow usually gets them too, in my defense though i always give them warning
 

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You're either a shooter or not. I suspect it has something to do with the diameter of the urethra, because I was always a shooter until I had to have a cystoscopy performed. Since then the volume of semen is unchanged but it doesn't shoot.

Interesting, I never really thought about that. I have recently started sounding and I started off with the fifth one in size then worked my way up a couple of sizes with out discomfort. Since I am not a shooter, I must have a large ureathra.
 

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Interesting, I never really thought about that. I have recently started sounding and I started off with the fifth one in size then worked my way up a couple of sizes with out discomfort. Since I am not a shooter, I must have a large urethra.
Maybe. There's also it's elasticity to consider for both sounding and shooting.

One thing is certain: there's not a lot of online medical info on the subject. My urologist didn't have a lot to say, only what I wrote above.
 
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You're either a shooter or not. I suspect it has something to do with the diameter of the urethra, because I was always a shooter until I had to have a cystoscopy performed. Since then the volume of semen is unchanged but it doesn't shoot.

Would an enlarged prostate also impact this?
 

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Would an enlarged prostate also impact this?
It depends. Prostatitis or BPH will affect urine flow, but whether ejaculation is changed may depend upon the cause and extent of the condition. This is because semen is included from the various glands at or below the prostate, whereas urine flows through the prostate, which encircles the urethra like a donut. But because these conditions affect the prostate they obviously can have an impact on fluids production.....increasing or decreasing the amount of semen....which affects ejaculation.
 
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