Can something turn you gay

[big_boy_999]

Can a site, like LPSG, make you turn gay or bi, i havent been here for long, but i seem to be getting more and more gay fantasys since i started here

 

[D_Jurgen Klitgaard]

I guess anything's possible. I wouldn't say you are gay or bi just by having a fantasy, you have to act on it.

 

[ActionBuddy]

Listening to Barbra Streisand. Hearing that voice made me gay. Totally turned me off from women!

And now I don't qualify for my Gay Card, 'cause I can't stand Streisand!

Oh, well...

 

[sykray]

I don't think that most of us fit neatly into a categorical label of either 100% gay or 100% straight. I would suggest that sites like this may give implicit permission for you to have gay fantasies. You are no more gay than you were a few years ago. You are just more accepting and relaxed about where you are on the continuum from exclusively straight to exclusively gay.

 

[Supersized]

Motivation comes after the behavior starts. You never know how hungry you are until after you've started eating. Looking at gay porn which is what those penis pics are is going to build a motivation to have gay sex. Don't worry about it. That is a natural occurence. This site is turning you gay.

 

[Daddy Lucas]

This is strange that you are bringing this up! I am 90&#37; gay. Last night I had 2 separate dreams involving me having sex with women! I can't tell my male partner of 30 years about it, he would freak!!! I don't think I'm going gay because of the dreams ... I think I might be going Bi! Life sure is funny sometimes! <G>

 

[ManlyBanisters]

I think, OP, looking at the Galleries here may just be feeding something that was there all along. I don't think looking at pics of cocks would turn you on at all if you did not have the capacity to be turned on by them in the first place.

A site like this may be a catalyst in exploring your sexuality - but I don't believe you can be 'turned' by LPSG.

Having said that we are all a sum total of our experiences with a little bit of 'innate' thrown in so who is to say what makes one person gay, the next bi and the next straight. Am I mostly straight because I like cock, or do I like cock because I'm mostly straight?

 

[koval]

Can a site, like LPSG, make you turn gay or bi, i havent been here for long, but i seem to be getting more and more gay fantasys since i started here

Puh-lease ,
If that was the case then I would turn racist by reading all those threads about racism (and those with racist undertones) on this site (which I'm not). At this moment you're only having fantasies and that's all they are, fantasies (we all have fantasies). If anything, we can only show you the door but we can't make you walk through as the old proverb goes. Whether you act on your fantasies or not will define if you have gay, bi or straight tendancies.

 

[simcha]

Listening to Barbra Streisand. Hearing that voice made me gay. Totally turned me off from women!

And now I don't qualify for my Gay Card, 'cause I can't stand Streisand!

Oh, well...

Sweetie, I break two stereotypes with this one. I can't stand Barbara Streisand at all. I'm JEWISH and GAY. I'm going to be excommunicated from two communities.

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

A site like this may stir up internal emotions and feeling but it cant turn you gay if the thoughts weren't already there.

Plus i think a lot of straight men get admiration mixed up with desire. Just because you can look at another cock and see it's beauty doest mean you are gay, it just means you can appreciate beauty even with some of the same gender

 

[deano-uk]

Can a site, like LPSG, make you turn gay or bi, i havent been here for long, but i seem to be getting more and more gay fantasys since i started here

Perhaps it is just opening your mind to things. Fantasys are fine, also you can be more open in a secure way on a site like this..

You can flirt if you wish, be come a real extravert, even if in reality you are an introvert about sexual matters.

If you experience some of these fantasys, then if you like them, then perhaps you can turn gay or bi.

Just enjoy your time here..

 

[Randyvoorburg]

Very few men are completely gay or bi, majority, Kinsey believes, lie in between, within that spectrum where, given the right combination of factors, can change one's ability, willingness, and ultimately preference towards either sex. I have a couple of friends who by all definition were straight in their sexual preference early on in life but who discovered their "other side," enjoyed it, have had more sexual partners of the same sex, but have not lost their appetite for the opposite sex. On the other hand, another acquaintance has lost all attraction to women after a series of painful experiences with women, and very easy, gratifying and pleasurable experiences with men. Some men probably fear experimenting with gay sex, or in your case with viewing this site, because it would "turn" them or awaken their other side. I think you shouldn't worry, bisexual men, or straight men who experiment with gay sex occassionally, have everything to gain and nothing to lose, except maybe one's reputation once one's clandestine activities, still considered deviant by modern society, becomes known. It's a valid fear, I guess, but perhaps society is changing and one day bisexual episodes in a man or woman's life will be considered "normal."

 

[scottbud]

Um IO think you need to ask why your on the site in the firat place, everyone has their reason for being here but maybe you had a bit of curiosity brewing about it befor hand. The more you see that it is ok the more your conscious backs down and lets your subconcious (true nature) have its way.

 

[Mickactual]

Puh-lease ,
If that was the case then I would turn racist by reading all those threads about racism (and those with racist undertones) on this site (which I'm not). At this moment you're only having fantasies and that's all they are, fantasies (we all have fantasies). If anything, we can only show you the door but we can't make you walk through as the old proverb goes. Whether you act on your fantasies or not will define if you have gay, bi or straight tendancies.

Very true.
Gay isn't a disease...or a malfunction...or a choice. It's simply something You either are or aren't. It's something You either can or can't be. It's something You either want or don't want. Nothing can make You gay or straight. No more than anything can make You right-handed or left-handed....or make You tall or short.
Outside influences can only offer insight, possibility, opportunity, motivation, etc. But the inclination & curiosity have to already be there.
Don't let anything You read, see, or hear steer You toward or away from anything. Just go with Your gut.

 

[dreamer20]

Can a site, like LPSG, make you turn gay or bi, i havent been here for long, but i seem to be getting more and more gay fantasys since i started here

Oh dear! Another victim of 89dude89's plan!

Off course you can be turned gay. Most minds are easy to manipulate. There are masters of psychology. I am sure plans can be made to turn someone gay.

I can turn you back, but its going to cost you dearly. :wizard:

If you can't afford my fee of 3 cosmopolitans and a packet of crisps, you can kiss your straighthood goodbye. j/k:biggrin1:

 

[Gonzo3]

Can a site, like LPSG, make you turn gay or bi, i havent been here for long, but i seem to be getting more and more gay fantasys since i started here

.......... obviously in your case maybe.

 

[vince]

I don't think you can be "made gay" or "made str8". I believe we have certain tendencies in our genetics and life experiences determine whether or not those tendencies or suppressed or allowed or flourish. If a person is tending towards being homosexual or heterosexual, what they are exposed to could encourage them to try out something new.

The experience that brought me out of the closet was watching my best friend stroke his cock, while he watched me fuck his girlfriend. Immediately after she left the room to shower, he went down and started sucking me. When she returned I was balls deep in his ass. I was already interested in other dudes bodies, but had been afraid to do anything about it. I am eternally grateful to Jeff for helping my bisexual nature come out.

 

[Lex]

I don't think anything besides your orientation can make you gay, straight or anything in between. We are born wired in certain ways and realize and act upon that wiring based on a lot of complicated factors.

That being said, member participation in sites like LPSG allow for people to explore and have experiences that they might otherwise deny themselves (or never be exposed to).

Within that context, this site may allow someone to uncover latent gay and/or bisexual tendencies (or orientations) in ways that remain dormant in other communities and given other societal constraints. In the same vein, a site like this can serve to reaffirm one's orientation as either straight, gay or bisexual by confirming/affriming the presence or absence of attraction to certain sexual stimuli.

 

[big_boy_999]

.......... obviously in your case maybe.

That is confusing

Oh dear! Another victim of 89dude89's plan!





I can turn you back, but its going to cost you dearly. :wizard:

If you can't afford my fee of 3 cosmopolitans and a packet of crisps, you can kiss your straighthood goodbye. j/k:biggrin1:

What can you do for me??

 

[B_Nick4444]

difficult to say .. when puberty hit, I was having crushes for girls ... late teens, early twenties, was having three-somes (my male buddy and some chick) ... last few, nothing but guys, latlely no guys, no sex, but at the gym, started getting hard watching this tight chick with a big rack ... who knows WTF is going on?