What a stupid statement - an individual can like another person regardless of gender etc, to define somebody who feels attracted to both genders - in any way at all, is ludicrous. They are an individual -with likes and dislkes of all sorts in every area of life. Let people live - who cares a toss if they like men/women all the time, half the time or whatever. Crawl back to your hole mate and stay there for as long as possible, no wonder the world is as it is with your kind of pontificating mentality.
Can str8 guys say they love dick?
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I am married and in love with my wife. Before I was married, I messed around with other women. Throughout my life, I have recognized attractive men but never became involved with them in any way similar to a woman. I define that as 100% straight. I recently posted the following in another thread. I grew up working on a farm with many animals including both male and female horses. There were several times where I would stop and admire the beauty, strength and power of these animals. According to the beliefs of many here, that would mean that I have a certain percentage of bestiality in me which is farthest from the truth. The human mind is a curious thing; we are intelligent animals with the ability to make choices. Some choose not to cross the line of where there conciousness speaks while others run freely ahead in search of what they label as freedom.
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I've been sucked off by many men who call themselves 'straight'.
Who gives a shit what they call themselves, as long as they suck me right and swallow?
Who gives a shit what they call themselves, as long as they suck me right and swallow?
Rejoice - rejoice!, enjoy life in whatever way you can - without harm to yourself or to others, animals etc. If a man wants to bed another man - SO WHAT?. If a woman wants to bed another woman - SO WHAT?. Society is OBSESSED with what men do or don't do with the penis. There is very much a social equation to the penis - to a large degree it is deemed social property, but there is a strangely schizophrenic attitude towards its appearance and role - admired, feared, loathed, repulsiveness (by men tooooo!) felt by many. Seen as necessary to the continuance of the human race, but for God's sake put away - don't show it!. The male form is looked down on, embarrasment by many - not seen as socially acceptable to pass favourable comment on a man;s physique etc. The female form in its entirety has limitless air time in the media - no matter the outlet, breasts etc are seen as highly erotic and desirable, There is far more value on the female - and her representative attributes, than the male. For God's sake pot that penis away. And of course we all KNOW how Iran deals with 18 year old boys caught out with another male - they get hanged!.
GAY! just because you've comparrmentilized your attraction to just being sexually aroused to the penis doesn't make you straight. You get turned on by cock then dude you are gay.
Not gay necessarily, but not 99-100% straight either. The poster defines himself as 90% straight, and from what little he's described, I don't see any great disconnect there. However, we are talking about sexual orientation here, not romantic orientation. Though the two can coexist, and often do, they are separate.
It's the fellas who describe an intense interest in cocks, some going so far as wanting to suck, get fucked, some who do that and more - who nevertheless define themselves at the high end of heterosexual - that are in denial. It's a matter of recognizing your orientation in alignment with your actual sexual behavior, your desires, and your fantasies. It's a matter of degrees, and it's a matter of being honest with yourself.
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I'm a male stripper and I've seen every flavor of gay, bi, in-the-closet, and gay for pay there is and I can tell everyone here that you can't really call yourself 99% or 100% straight if you say you love another guy's cock... I'm secure enough in my sexuality that I can say that I like to watch big-dick porn and have MFM threesomes, but it's primarily because I'm a bit of a voyeur who likes to watch the reaction of girls taking big dicks. I get a similar turn on from fisting or watching girls take huge dildos. Hell, one time at my ex-wife's behest, I let her and her gay best friend take turns going down on me. She'd get it hard, and when he started giving oral, I immediately started to go flaccid. Funny thing was, he was actually better at it than she was. It was the psychological aspect of knowing it wasn't a female giving the oral that made it a turn-off for me, rather than what it felt like. I have absolutely zero desire to fuck/suck or be fucked/sucked by another guy. If you say you love a man's cock, you can't REALLY be truly straight... unless that cock happens to be your own. 
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the summation says it all... even if it's just your own, you can say that you love cock...... unless that cock happens to be your own.
There are loads of straight men who are fascinated and turned on by the big boys in porn (the ideal cocks), but that doesn't mean that they all want to suck it or get fucked by it.
If you love your own cock, you'd probably be able to get off on another's (jealously, etc), even if you're very heterosexual.
It all just makes sense to me that even the straightest of men would have some attraction to cock, sometimes more so than a gay men (but for different reasons).
Human sexuality is very, very complicated and just can't be summed in a quick percentage, label, etc.
If you love your own cock, you'd probably be able to get off on another's (jealously, etc), even if you're very heterosexual.
It all just makes sense to me that even the straightest of men would have some attraction to cock, sometimes more so than a gay men (but for different reasons).
Human sexuality is very, very complicated and just can't be summed in a quick percentage, label, etc.
Damn you sound so enlightened. I've slept with women tho its been some time, but for similar reasons you point out. So glad I had that experience. Has made me a better lover.
i would say that if a guy says he likes cocks other than his own but insists hes 100% straight then he is most definetly a little confused or lying. at the same time i think its fair game to fantisize and identify your self as straight if your not actually interested in pursuing anything with the same sex. i uess it all just comes down a matter of being honest with yourself and the identity to display to everyone else.
Thank you, buddy.
Does that make me gay because I get off a lot on knowing I'm better hung than most dudes while looking at pics of some naked men?
Being gay is much more than just getting off looking at a pic of a big dick or one that you feel superior to.
Sucking dick does not turn me on, but gay sex does not repulse me, any more than straight sex. Sex between consenting adults is sex between consenting adults.
Sexuality is too complicated for labels, categories, etc, even though society insists on them.
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Straight guys can love cock without it being gay like a brother can love a sister without it being incest.
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