Bit like When Harry Met Sally...
Can a straight and gay guy just be friends or will the straight guy always be thinking "he wants me."
Thoughts?
To be candid - I have a crush on a straight pal, but 1) I'm in a committed relationship so nothing will happen and 2) He's straight
Problem is - I do fancy him, but I wouldn't ever act on it. I just don't want him feeling awkward so I'll just pretend I don't fancy him. Does that sound OK? I feel like being honest in this situation would make things worse and it's quite a new friendship so I don't want to lose one of my only straight mates. Besides there's nothing to gain from telling him he's attractive - surely someone would only be honest about that if they DID want something to happen, no?
Can a straight and gay guy just be friends or will the straight guy always be thinking "he wants me."
Thoughts?
To be candid - I have a crush on a straight pal, but 1) I'm in a committed relationship so nothing will happen and 2) He's straight
Problem is - I do fancy him, but I wouldn't ever act on it. I just don't want him feeling awkward so I'll just pretend I don't fancy him. Does that sound OK? I feel like being honest in this situation would make things worse and it's quite a new friendship so I don't want to lose one of my only straight mates. Besides there's nothing to gain from telling him he's attractive - surely someone would only be honest about that if they DID want something to happen, no?