Can straight men be jerkbuds?

[tobythecat]

Speaking for myself...NO!

 

[longstroke7]

Not interested. Now if a woman was in the room jerking us both off, sure why not.

 

[Evenflow618]

NO! Get on semen retention stop wasting your life force constantly.

 

[opinionman]

NO! Get on semen retention stop wasting your life force constantly.

"wasting your life force." Uh huh.

 

[Evenflow618]

"wasting your life force." Uh huh.

Save it harness it

 

[Lucius2s1]

There been so much fuckin bullshit said here by guys apparently either cryptogay or some other way not secure with their sexuality lmao... Let's get it fuckin' straight once and for all - it ain't gay to j/o with your bros when you're all str8, for fuck sake! It's actually super straight cuz you're all comfortable with urselves and don't consider doin' anything gay together... It's more gay (if you really wanna think of it like that) to be afraid of chillin' with ur bros naked together.

Glad to see most straight dudes over here seem reasonable enough to say it's fine and also hella fun. Chillin together watching porn or a game, boozin and whatever else lol, while being all naked and stroking, that's bro bonding at it's finest. No chicks, just bros, feeling comfortable and cheeky, showing off their strokin techniques, shooting shit about girls and sex in general, commenting on the porn, comparing their turn ons/offs... Chill as fuck. And yes, u can look at all the cocks and muscle for however long u like, same as all men do in gym or pool locker rooms and communal showers... It's just what men do!

This here

 

[opinionman]

Save it harness it

What's to save? It replenishes.

 

[gymbro30]

There been so much fuckin bullshit said here by guys apparently either cryptogay or some other way not secure with their sexuality lmao... Let's get it fuckin' straight once and for all - it ain't gay to j/o with your bros when you're all str8, for fuck sake! It's actually super straight cuz you're all comfortable with urselves and don't consider doin' anything gay together... It's more gay (if you really wanna think of it like that) to be afraid of chillin' with ur bros naked together.

Glad to see most straight dudes over here seem reasonable enough to say it's fine and also hella fun. Chillin together watching porn or a game, boozin and whatever else lol, while being all naked and stroking, that's bro bonding at it's finest. No chicks, just bros, feeling comfortable and cheeky, showing off their strokin techniques, shooting shit about girls and sex in general, commenting on the porn, comparing their turn ons/offs... Chill as fuck. And yes, u can look at all the cocks and muscle for however long u like, same as all men do in gym or pool locker rooms and communal showers... It's just what men do!

Amen to that bro and couldn't agree more. It amazes me how insecure so many guys are, and suddenly everything is gay...taking a shower after the gym is gay, pissing in a urinal is gay, if I am ever naked in the presence of another man I am gay, if I accidentally see another naked man I am gay, pretty soon just having a dick will be considered gay, period ....men really need to get over themselves, and I feel like it's a generational thing. Funny thing is, until 20 years ago or so people might have assumed you are gay for NOT doing all of those things...funny how things change.

 

[longstroke7]

NO! Get on semen retention stop wasting your life force constantly.

You're going to fuck your prostate up man. Use it or lose it.

Ejaculation is healthy.

 

[Evenflow618]

You're going to fuck your prostate up man. Use it or lose it.

Ejaculation is healthy.

Ejaculate during sex.

 

[opinionman]

Amen to that bro and couldn't agree more. It amazes me how insecure so many guys are, and suddenly everything is gay...taking a shower after the gym is gay, pissing in a urinal is gay, if I am ever naked in the presence of another man I am gay, if I accidentally see another naked man I am gay, pretty soon just having a dick will be considered gay, period ....men really need to get over themselves, and I feel like it's a generational thing. Funny thing is, until 20 years ago or so people might have assumed you are gay for NOT doing all of those things...funny how things change.

Yeah I was thinking upon reading your response and the previous post thatchings have turned 180 degrees. Used to be that if you were afraid to get naked and/or shower in the locker room with the other guys, you were clearly gay because you were AFRAID something gay might happen (like a hard-on). Now if you strip, some uninformed guys think you're gay.

 

[longstroke7]

Ejaculate during sex.

That too.

There's a balance, clearly. But not ejaculating regularly is bad for your reproductive health. Flush that prostate and get those testicles pumping.

 

[clif]

As a straight dude that jerks off with other straight guys I'm 1000% sure that straight guys can be jerkbuds.

I have no desire to fuck,kiss,stroke a guy but I have jerked off with other guys it is a bonding experience.

 

[opinionman]

I have no desire to fuck,kiss,stroke a guy but I have jerked off with other guys it is a bonding experience.

YUP!

 

[ManchesterTom]

Add

I haven't read any of the previous posts But to answer the original question.
Yes, I've had some straight guys as JO Buddy's.
We would meet, watch a game have some drinks and rub one out but never did anybody ever touch each other.
A few of us guys would get together on a regular basis we would get completely naked, it was a good release and the subject of doing anything further never came up in in the few years we did this and everybody knew that I was BI and the other three were married and I was never hit on by anyone.

add a few more beers.

 

[ManchesterTom]

Dude. I am a straight guy and I have jerked off in the same room/bed with a buddy watching porn. I’ve sucked and enjoyed being sucked by a dude. Never with a gay guy. Always just bros that understand that our dicks do not determine our sexuality or love and need of a female.

I agree with you. You have a positive image of yourself.

 

[ManchesterTom]

Nonsense. Men are cock-obsessed, which means there's at least some level of interest in other guys' cocks. It may not be particularly sexual or "gay," so it's perfectly understandable that you might wanna talk about sex with a bro and beat off. Happens all the time.

Perfect use of the apostrophes. Nice.

 

[ManchesterTom]

I identify with what you are saying. I think a lot of us feel the same way.

can't relate to the idea that jerking with another dude is about "broness" or bonding or whatever. couldn't care less about validating heteronormativity. that said, I love jerking with other hung guys. it definitely feeds into the narcissism of my own cock, but stroking with another hung guy is pretty much my only interest in men. I'm rarely even attracted to most conventionally attracted dudes, my sole focus is in knowing if they're as big or bigger than me. mutual stroking is fun, the occasional oral session has been hot as well, but I fucking hate kissing. Literally have never enjoyed making out with another man or other intimate kind of moments. dunno if this counts as bisexuality or just cock-sexuality, if you will. in general it's extremely difficult to find another guy who fits my criteria, as they usually want to take it an extra step. i've topped twice ever and couldn't stay hard, simply not into fucking men. sexuality is so strange.

 

[opinionman]

Perfect use of the apostrophes. Nice.

Yup! I'm an expert.

 

[iamjustme65]

For me - who gives a shit of it is "gay" or "not gay"?
Why does it matter?
A person can be attracted to an array of things... call it whatever you want.
For me, the spectrum of women I am attracted to is vastly wider than the spectrum of males.
I am attracted to femineity primarily. And that can include a male who is effeminate and has a lovely cock.
But I could never enter into a romantic/meaningful relationship with any male. That is pure women only.
But sex is different.