Can straight men be jerkbuds?

[Gj816]

So I wanna find another straight dude who is confortable drinking, watchin the game and is cool jerking off to some straight or lesbian porn... but I just feel that most dudes on here want something else. They say they want a jerk bud and once u drop your pants they wanna suck u n do other things... It doesn't bother me that they're gay, but why lie? Has that happened to any of you? Would you jerk off with another dudes? And how do you get the point across that you only want to jerk off?

I'd say you'll have to take it slow. Be up front with them and let them know that you are only interested in a j o bud. You're not interested in anything else.

Don't rush it. It'll happen just be patient. I've had ajo bud and that's all we did. We were friends as well and that helped.

Who knows you may eventually decided that you're cool with letting another dude blow you. But that's something you'll have to decide for yourself.

Just because you let another guy suck your cock doesn't make you gay, anymore than being naked with another guy jacking off does.

 

[554279]

It’s not ‘gay ‘, since being ‘gay’ is a sexual identity and doesn’t necessarily reflect sexual behaviour. You’re talking about are homosexual acts which is sexual behaviour and anyone can engage in homosexual acts under any sexual identity.

Start with my opening statement which was "Just my opinion".

Amazing you can split hairs over a homosexual act vice calling it a gay activity (which is how a gay male expressed it to me); but you can't properly use the spell check function to spell the word "behavior" correctly (vice your politically correct/incorrect spelling of "bahaviour").

In summary call yourself and your actions or whatever you wish to indulge in whatever the fuck you want.

 

[554279]

Yeah it can be bisexual, pansexual or sexually fluid as well.

Sucking cock doesn’t mean ones gay. Get out of the hetronormative identity politic mindset.

In reality everyone’s bisexual.

Recommend you not tell me jack shit about "get out of" any "mindset".

Also recommend you calibrate your sexual preferences tab if you're going to reply to other posts in the "ask a Straight Man" thread (read the ToS).

 

[Pinto Sykes]

Meh, don’t see the infatuation with this. To each their own.

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

100% no

 

[Revone]

Oh man that sucks. I'm really not into kissing men or touching... I just like the idea of bonding with a male friend. I don't know if that makes any sence to any of u!

It makes sense to me. I have no desire to kiss etc. with another guy. It’s about having a friend and enjoying the male comerodary and trust so we can be men unashamed. I’d like that kind of honest bonding friendship where we can get naked together and share a jerk off session. I think a lot of us guys are looking for a friend to bond with and act like masculine men.

 

[849142]

It makes sense to me. I have no desire to kiss etc. with another guy. It’s about having a friend and enjoying the male comerodary and trust so we can be men unashamed. I’d like that kind of honest bonding friendship where we can get naked together and share a jerk off session. I think a lot of us guys are looking for a friend to bond with and act like masculine men.

Revone, Very well stated. I couldn’t agree more!!

 

[Pinto Sykes]

Starting to think this site isn’t for straight men.

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

Starting to think this site isn’t for straight men.

Us straight guys are in limited supply on this site. You just have to have fun with it. I use this site to to have fun and post my crazy pics of my hot women and crazy life.

 

[farooq]

Clearly the moderator of this forum isn't going to do anything about this. If you are bisexual then why are you answer questions in the "Ask a straight male" part of this forum? Can't you just go to the gay or bisexual part of this forum and type about sucking dick, jerking off other males, and other gay acts? This silly stop putting a label stuff is getting annoying too. Words having meanings. Straight men don't have jerk buddies. Straight men don't jerk off in the presence of another male. Straight males aren't turned on by other males. Straight males don't have any kind of sexual contact with other males.

 

[liquiss]

Yeah it can be bisexual, pansexual or sexually fluid as well.

Sucking cock doesn’t mean ones gay. Get out of the hetronormative identity politic mindset.

In reality everyone’s bisexual.

As someone who is most certainly not bisexual, I strongly disagree with your statement. To each their own, but I have 0 interest in men. They do nothing for me. No attraction, no arousal, no interest. Everyone is not bisexual. That's a typical ignorant opinion that the way you live your life is the way everyone does.

The more time I spend on this site, the more amazed I am by how much of a problem we have with men thinking that everyone fucking wants them all the time. For fuck sakes...

 

[liquiss]

If you are looking for posters on LPSG to act like a mirror and confirm your straightness, then you will not be comfortable here.

However, if you are 100 % straight and not afraid to have your thinking and feelings challenged, then you time spent on LPSG will likely give you a more secure self-image and a better understanding of others.

That's such an ignorant comment. My feelings aren't challenged. Assuming that you like something that everyone does doesn't make you secure.

Do you see the irony in a comment telling the guy to have a better understanding of others when you're lacking an understanding of how he feels? I'm guessing no.

 

[liquiss]

I don't believe you. Yet you can live your life how you want to.

What is there to not believe? Certainly you know my wants and needs and desires better then I though. Is that's where you're coming from?

 

[liquiss]

I don't believe any straight or gay person when it comes to their exclusive preference for one sex. Monosexuality is a myth.

Well I guess I'm a fucking unicorn then.

 

[someperson]

no straight guys don't go out looking for sexual activities with other men

I don't know about that like me some point i just broke any human contact is wanted even if its same sex activity. it's a cheap oxytocin substitute I just went for the easy pickings which would be same sex thing.
anal sex pretty much am grossed out by it

i;m very awful at asking a women out the last timeI did she said yeah she wanted to go on a date but I made the mistake of not arranging a date so shortly after that she jumped into a relationship.

 

[Nito Cogin]

Thanks man. I suppose I have an average cock haha around 7.5 or 8

5.25 is average, if that is really your size you are huge, in the top 3%.

 

[Joshua.Martiny]

Well thanks @Nito Cogin that's a good boost of confidence,.., though most dudes on here look massive! Can't compete with a monster hahaha

 

[Komland]

I posted this a while back but seems like it’s necessary to repost:

There’s a reason that guys who identify as straight are interested in dick - it’s because when seeing another dick they think of their own. It’s called living vicariously.

It’s why all straight guys watch porn with both cock and pussy - because they’re identifying with the cock on the screen.

Lesbian porn, or solo female porn, is fine but the overwhelming majority of men would ultimately feel that something is missing - they want to watch a woman penetrated and that’s because they put themselves in the position of whoever possesses the cock on screen and ‘feel’ whatever they feel.

This is the reason it’s possible to be straight but be turned on by cocks in situations like circle jerks. It’s perfectly possible to feel horny watching guys masturbate - because you identify with the act and know how it feels.

That’s totally different from wanting a physical relationship with a man, or sexual initimacy, or whatever.

Believe it or not, people are the best judge of their own sexuality. I’m happily married, enjoy a wonderful sex life with my wife, but just occasionally wank in a social group. This is nothing to do with my sexuality - it’s fun, it’s exhibitionism, it’s daring

 

[meatal_head]

If you don't touch and just jerk in the same room it is mainly voyeurism. If you touch it is not "straight". I'm voyeuristic and slightly exhibitionist so I consider watching a different matter.

 

[marriedasian]

i don't think this is possible. even to @Komland post above, straight guys to project themselves into the cock in a porn video but i think when it happens in real life and there is another cock next to you, a straight guy would only invoke "gay" thoughts in his head and freak out.

if you can circle jerk in real life then you have some sexual tendencies towards cock whether you agree or not. what if you were in a circle jerk with transsexuals who look like women but have a hard cock?

just my opinion. non of my straight guy-friends won't even talk much about other cocks let alone stroking theirs in the same room with another.