Can straight men be jerkbuds?

[liquiss]

No ones told you that.

Bored of you too now. Ignored.

That's where you're wrong. Plenty in this forum alone continually tell us that. In fact, in this thread even, if you go back to page 3, there we multiple instances of it. But thanks for your input.

 

[ricd250584]

I quite agree with @Komland. And I would like to add my opinion to it.

One straight guy might invoke "gay" thoughts in his head and freak out. The other straight guy might be very sure about his sexuality and not invoke "gay" thoughts and not freak out.

All guys love to masturbate, so why not do it together? If a guy has confidence in his own sexuality, and there is full mutual trust with a buddy, it is perfectly possible to be straight and masturbate together without having any gay thoughts or more importantly, without having fear of labels.

Oh wait...did someone reading this just get a gay thought about masturbation? Ask yourself why? Why do you want to apply this label?

Well said

 

[ripsrips]

I haven't read any of the previous posts But to answer the original question.
Yes, I've had some straight guys as JO Buddy's.
We would meet, watch a game have some drinks and rub one out but never did anybody ever touch each other.
A few of us guys would get together on a regular basis we would get completely naked, it was a good release and the subject of doing anything further never came up in in the few years we did this and everybody knew that I was BI and the other three were married and I was never hit on by anyone.

 

[1227965]

Well, I get your point. Some guys say they're straight and like suckin dick, but I don't like it. Just a preference... but the couple of times i tried finding a dude only for jerking off, it seemed like they wanted more. I specially said jerk bud. No offense to those men that like suckin dick out there. I respect your sexual preference, but i like the same in return. I just think we all have different things we're into, but we need to stop trying to get others to like what we do...

I’ve been there, it’s uncomfortable because you really are just looking for a jerk bud, that’s it haha, always down to fuck a girl in the mix but just bros jerking, I don’t know if it’s an actual thing though, still looking for a real jerk bud myself

 

[1227965]

Well, I'm days away from turning 26 and been married since i was almost 21. We're not separating, but I don't want to get into a relationship at the moment. Ever since i moved out, I've been looking for guys to jerk off with and talk about sex. I just find it hard to find a guy who's on the same page and only wants to stroke. So far I've met 3 dudes. One straight out grabbed my dick, which was different. Things just got weird when he tried sucking it cuz i'm not into that. The second guy i met at the gym and we would spot each other and stuff like that. One time i was in the sauna wearing boxers and ge kept glancing and figured he was just curious. Went to the shower and jerked off from across showers. That was pretty cool and we did that a couple times. One time he invited me to his place and we were having a drink, and he started asking me how far i would go with a guy. I thought he had a valid question and so i told him i was only looking to jerk off. It just got weird cuz he said he likes taking deep up his ass, which is cool. But he said he jerks off with me thinking of me fuckin him. Again. I didn't mind, that's his thing. He tried kissing me and that just killed everything for me. Third guy i met on here and it didn't workout, not gonna tell his business on here though for obvious reasons!

Yeah there’s an intense wave of pressure when it comes to just wanting one thing when the other bro is looking for sex oral or just more in general. I get what you’re saying

 

[866071]

So I wanna find another straight dude who is confortable drinking, watchin the game and is cool jerking off to some straight or lesbian porn... but I just feel that most dudes on here want something else. They say they want a jerk bud and once u drop your pants they wanna suck u n do other things... It doesn't bother me that they're gay, but why lie? Has that happened to any of you? Would you jerk off with another dudes? And how do you get the point across that you only want to jerk off?

Well, I have jerked with other guys (many years ago) and we never encroached on each others stuff but I agree in that I have reached out a couple times to find a bud and it seems that a lot more is expected then initially advertised. I dont know how to actually get that point across.

 

[DiomedesXVI]

I personally say yes, straight men can have jerk off buddies and still be straight. But I say that is provided the guys aren’t jerking other routinely and that their focus is on something heterosexually arousing. The scenario I’m imagining is two or more guys who get together and jerk off in each other’s presence, but they only jerk their own cocks and not each other’s, and they’re not lustfully watching each other’s sexual pleasure to enhance their own.

 

[866071]

I personally say yes, straight men can have jerk off buddies and still be straight. But I say that is provided the guys aren’t jerking other routinely and that their focus is on something heterosexually arousing. The scenario I’m imagining is two or more guys who get together and jerk off in each other’s presence, but they only jerk their own cocks and not each other’s, and they’re not lustfully watching each other’s sexual pleasure to enhance their own.

Its hard to not lustfully watch someone else's sexual pleasure without getting a bigger turnon for yourself, just saying

 

[DiomedesXVI]

Its hard to not lustfully watch someone else's sexual pleasure without getting a bigger turnon for yourself, just saying

Oh I 100% agree, and it’s inevitable it’ll happen on occasion. But if it’s happening every time to where you’re pretty much transfixed on your buddy’s cock for the entirety or most of your sessions, then you need to start coming to terms that you’re not straight haha.

 

[866071]

Oh I 100% agree, and it’s inevitable it’ll happen on occasion. But if it’s happening every time to where you’re pretty much transfixed on your buddy’s cock for the entirety or most of your sessions, then you need to start coming to terms that you’re not straight haha.

Ahh ok, yes, agree

 

[twoton]

Can straight men be jerk buds?

Yes, provided that they're gay.

 

[dude77007]

I could be OK, provided that when your straight jerk buddy starts breathing heavily and screams "I'm cumming" ......you don't look over to see how far he shoots and how big his load was. You all have to agree that you will not check out each other's junk and close your eyes when another starts to cum. OR, maybe jerk off in the dark or under the covers.

 

[Gj816]

I've jerked off with other straight guys while watching straight porn. Of course the other guys and myself included would check out each other's stroking styles.

Watched each other blow a load and comment on who shot off the farthest and who shot off a huge load. Once the first guy starts cuming the others will soon follow. Sometimes we'd even cum at the same time. Can be haf.

 

[Komland]

I've jerked off with other straight guys while watching straight porn. Of course the other guys and myself included would check out each other's stroking styles.

Watched each other blow a load and comment on who shot off the farthest and who shot off a huge load. Once the first guy starts cuming the others will soon follow. Sometimes we'd even cum at the same time. Can be haf.

So true- the first guy to cum sets off the other guy...

 

[goander]

I think most guys are curious to a degree.

 

[Lucius2s1]

I think most guys are curious to a degree.

Agreed... if my friends were open I’m game.

 

[mattnatlanta]

So I wanna find another straight dude who is confortable drinking, watchin the game and is cool jerking off to some straight or lesbian porn... but I just feel that most dudes on here want something else. They say they want a jerk bud and once u drop your pants they wanna suck u n do other things... It doesn't bother me that they're gay, but why lie? Has that happened to any of you? Would you jerk off with another dudes? And how do you get the point across that you only want to jerk off?

I'll jerk with ya, bro.

 

[Dex1979]

have one of my mates in mind that would love to have a jerk off session
I think in many places around the world this is a taboo and some people classified this as a gay act
would be so hot though

 

[jackattack3]

Depends on the individual and how you define “straight” and “gay”. I don’t think the act is necessarily a straight or gay thing.

I do think most guys up for jo buds are straight though. Most gay dudes would be bored with just jo; they’d want to fuck.

 

[Reg]

In college when we got drunk and horny we would jerk off together and it was mostly straight guys. Just wanted some relief and we were watching porn It just happens. Now that I am much older much less to find straight buds in a JO situation