Can the pleasure hurt?

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  1. D_Andreas Sukov

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    i know this sounds rediculous and it probably is but i was having sex with my gf and for the first time i lifted her legs to go deeper and she started really groaning but couldnt take it. she was stopping me going too far and in the end had to take a break. she also got cut from it. she assures me it wasnt a pain per say but was too sensitive to take. will this go over time? note that she only lost her virginity a few months ago.
     
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    Don't stop. Tell her to trust you and to just endure it. It'll be the best orgasm she's ever had. Keep trying and pace yourself, dont jackhammer.

    She might end up a squirter.
     
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    I'd like to know about this too. A girl I knew had a long ex and he used to just be rough with her and fuck away with no care. But she once said she was only with him for good sex. So if she tells me in 1 story it was too rough and hurt, and then in the next she had good sex, what does that tell me? Whenever she pushes to hold me back I should carry on regardless?
     
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    I generally slow down when this happens. And then when she lets go I go at it. It's called taking a hint.
     
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    he asked for advice... not to get a smart arse responce
     
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    I don't care.
     
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    to save this thread going off topic ill say ok
     
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    Or maybe you should respect her feelings. Etc.

    Smart ass.
     
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    Or you could be smart and actually do what will give her pleasure by working with her body slowly and steadily until she starts to have raging orgasms.
     
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    It sounds like you just hit your girlfriend at the wrong angle meaning you hit something inside her. My boyfriend and I like to try sex at different angles and sometimes some angles have been known to cause me discomfort and at times, have bled. What my boyfriend does is he slows down, and sometimes he backs off on length and sometimes we stay in the same position but do some slight adjustments.
     
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    cool thanks for your help. i want to try it again coz it turned me on so much to see her groan like that
     
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    Straightcock is correct, just ask him so. I still have NO idea where he got the squirting presumption from. That was a planetary jump of a conclusion. Some of the MANSWERS are gutbusting.
     
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    man if she squirts.....well i think i will too! we could have a competition!
     
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    haha well ill let you knoe if it happens
     
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    Thanks Kotchanski.

    Just repeated everything I've already said but at least these haters can accept your version of the same thing I said a little easier. Children.
     
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    maybe coz she said it in a better way and shes a women...tends to help when asking women a questiona about women
     
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    Yea, well you should know the truth when it's laid out for you by someone obviously more experienced (not to mention intelligent) than you are.



    Had to throw that last part in there ;)
     
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    experianced id agree with, but how is this any reflection of intelligence?
     
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    If she stops you saying it hurts then you just need to take it a little easier on her until her body relaxes and gets used it. Sometimes it could take a few seconds and sometimes it may take months. You need to learn to ready her body more so then listen to what she says because yes, sometimes when we say it hurts it is a good thing
     
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    thanks for the advice
     
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