Can Too Much Anal Really Break Your Ass

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  1. bigbiboy

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    I am bisexual and have for about 6 months been in my first real full time relationship with another guy. He is a 100% Top, which means I am Bottoming for all our sex, which is fine with me as I prefer to be a Bottom with men. My b/f likes to have sex every night and I am always willing to please him, but as I have gone from having anal maybe once a month to every night and often more than once a night, I have become a bit worried that my ass might not be able to take it. I have already noticed I'm not the tight butted stud I was 6 months ago, I know I am much looser but at the moment I like (it's almost a badge of honer) and quite enjoy how easy it has become to take a dick in me.

    But will it get worse if I keep up what has now become a fantastic routine of nightly sodomy?

    Has any one really done them self any damage this way?

    Or am I being a bit paranoid?

    Either way for now I am going to give in to the sexual needs of my man and let him carry on getting on demand sex from me. Being made love to like this so often has become one of the greatest things in my whole life, and I think I would still want to preform my bed time duties for him even if it meant some damage.:rolleyes:
     
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    To be able to answer that question, I'll need to see a video of him penetrating you. Be sure it includes lots of closeups so we can see his size etc.

    J.K. You deserve a serious answer but I don't have one and I was in a silly mood so I thought I'd throw that in there. I'll be watching for the answers though because I'd like to know how many men I've ruined.
     
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    depends on how long you bottom. I've hired a couple escorts [male] and found they were more loose than I expected. One had been 'in the business' for 10 years; and was only 35. Plus, they get used to really BIG guys and an average cock is nothing to him anymore. I suspect he has lost a little muscle control of his butt.
     
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    I don't think you will break your ass, but it won't be as tight as it once was. But if you go for awhile without anal, you'll notice it getting back to normal. I have been with guys who were into heavy fisting and they still had very good control of their sphincter muscles. Just like a girl can control her PC muscles, you can do exercises to tighten yourself up down there. One girl friend I had in the past could "open up" her ass to handle me very quickly during anal. A few minutes of fingering and she could open up to handle the biggest cock. As long as you are not going crazy putting huge toys up there, then you should have too much to worry about. But, if you notice any pain or bleeding, go to your doctor ASAP!
     
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    In order to ruin your ass you'd need to actually rupture or cut the muscle, chances of which are slim to none. Stretching a muscle, any muscle, is the opposite of flexing a muscle, right? Feeling loose and sloppy after getting one's ass plowed is one lf lif'es little pleasures. Embrace and enjoy that feeling when you have it.
    After that, do Kegels, which is flexing in the manner that would stop your flow mid-piss. This flexing can be done anytime, anywhere. You can keep your ass nice and tight and also be capable of swallowing a couple eager fists, if you want it.
     
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    I've beeen hooking up since I was 15, escorted while i was in college, been to piles of sex parties/sex clubs and had everything from 6"ers to hands in me. Am 32 now, I am streched good but I still have full control. Part of this is because I do squats and dead lifts in the gym and that helps tighten the muscles. I think that whole lose control thing is way way overstated.
     
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    I totally agree. Do your Kegels and you will be fine. BTW, that sensitive feeling you have down there the next day is known as "Happy Butt" by my b/f. He recently moved to Miami so we see each other for one week every month - He says I'm really tight and there is LOTS of lube required but for someone that likes assplay, it's such a wonderful feeling being totally penetrated and wrapped in their arms kissing and telling each other how good we both feel.
     
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    To the OP I would say: GIVE YOUR PARTNER A BREAK; MAKE HIM TAKE A BIT OF WHAT YOU'VE BEEN TAKING. He might just learn from that and learn to be a bit easier on your butt. AND, every night? That's a strain on my butt in my sympathy for you and your aching butt.
     
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    The ass....like any other muscle in your body....will become toned, and more flexible as it's used more. The more anal you have, the better it will get. Kegels are always good. Do them during the day, all day. Like, everytime you walk thru a door frame, or stop at a red light (hold till it's green)...or, whatever. Then, it's tight when you want it, and relaxes when you relax it. Soon, you'll be able to squeeze your lovers cock with your ass so tight, it will feel like a hand job, squeezing the cum out of him.....or, maybe it's just a personal talent of my own. ;)
     
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    To the OP I would say: GIVE YOUR PARTNER A BREAK; MAKE HIM TAKE A BIT OF WHAT YOU'VE BEEN TAKING. He might just learn from that and learn to be a bit easier on your butt. AND, every night? That's a strain on my butt in my sympathy for you and your aching butt.
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    There is almost no chance of that happening. firstly, he would never agree to taking it up the ass, he doesn't like it at all, and I wouldn't pressure him in to doing something he hates. I would also like to add, I am quite OK with the fact I receive anal every night, this does mean that in six months I haven't reached orgasm in any other way but masturbation, but I am fine with it. Secondly I am honestly not into topping with men at all. I don't think I have even so much as fantasized about Topping a guy for more than a second. I tried to be on top once for a man, but it really didn't work for either of us, I wasn't into it and stopped after a few minutes, and the guy I was trying to do it to was not getting any thing from it. So we switched back to our normal roles, Him Topping and me doing what comes natural to me when I am sleeping with a guy, bottoming. If I am with a girl I love to penetrate her, being inside of a pussy is great, but I just do not like being inside men, it feels more natural to let them penetrate me.

    I also like to keep my man happy and sexually satisfied. If he wants to do it I will always say yes. I get off being dominated in this way (him getting pleasure form me is a great pleasure for me) and will always agree to any sexual request he demands, weather I want to do it or not, it's a sexual charge to be told to bend over or ordered to my knees. so if he wants sex every night with out fail he will get it and if that means having to let my ass loosen some more I think I will have to learn to live with it.
     
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    Ummm... I'm Sorry.... what?

    Do you mean you don't cum at all when you're having sex with him, or that you don't count orgasm reached by way of anal stimulation as real sex?
     
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    No I have never had an orgasm by being anally penetrated. I know some guys often do, but I never have. The deal between me and my top is when we have finished having sex, if I whish to cum I Jerk off (he won't do it for me) and as he isn't too keen on me doing it in the bed next to him I go to the bathroom. Our deal works well for us both, as we have both gotten what we like most from the anal sex, and I am Ok With just jerking off because I get my real plesure from him taking me in the ass.

    Every ones a winner. (And I think I get the most out of it):biggrin1:
     
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    So long you are happy with the way things are; good for you.
     
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    No I can do that too :moon:

    But yeah just learn to work your ass muscles then you can be an even better bottom for your man
     
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    anywhere! anytime! for as long as you like! I'll give you want you want, what you need, what you have to have!!!

    :tongue:
     
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    A guy I knew did the butt fuck thing so much he has constant diariha-I can't spell it but you know what I mean..Do you want to end up wearing a diaper? It can happen.
     
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    yup, browse efukt.com for evidences.
     
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    I don't like the sound of that at all.

    As the other guy said, it's none of my business, and if that's how you're happy with it, all the best to you.

    But if I was sleeping with a guy who specifically didn't want me to cum while I was having sex with him, refused to touch my dick and didn't even want me in the same room afterwards, then I'd call him a disrespectful cunt and kick him out pronto.
     
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    OK if this is not your kind of thing, but I really like to be dominated and put in my place when having sex with a man. I love my guy to be in total control in the bedroom and if he wasn't I would probably not stay with him for long. I enjoy taking anal more than cumming and the main event for our love making is my penetration. I don't find it disrespectful that he doesn't jerk me off, he's not in to it, so if agreed to his role as my dominant alpha Top would be compromised, which neither of us want.

    My sex life is just about perfect, and I wouldn't change it if I could. A regular supply of bare back anal, daile loads of cum in my ass and all the sperm i can suck from my b/f sexy cock.

    If I wanted a nice softy in the bedroom i would have found my self a girl friend. we are a normal couple everywhere else, but in the sack I want him to get all he wants from me and I love giving myself 100% to him. I like him to make me feel it's my duty to him to supply as much sex as he wishes.

    Yes I am happy with this and get off being submissive
     
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