Can two guys with big dicks be friends and not rivals?

[Iathick]

I have read the previous posts and I do believe that they can be friends as there is a bonding with another guy who knows what is is like to be big. No competing with each other, but mutual respect for each other's size.

 

[BIGBULL29]

What is all the backlash about? Some people are misunderstanding the point of the thread. We are not talking about two big-dicked men building a friendship based solely on dick size, but rather "male bonding", which is not the same as genuine friendship. Some big-dicked men like to "bond" with other big-dicked men (that is, men who believe they are big). They enjoy discussing something they both believe to have in common. Yes, competition can sometimes be a bonding experience even though jealously, more often than not, may come into play.


Smokers bond, dont' they? People bond over similar interests in general. Why would "big dick" bonding be any different, even if only a very small minority of men are interested?

 

[Lex]

Could it be possible that I am friends with several members of this site and we NEVER tak about cock (or if we do, we are not competing?!?).

BLASPHEMY!!

 

[art]

Yes. My best friend from highschool -- still my best friend after all these years -- is skinny and very well hung. (In 11th grade, he was 6'2", 130 lbs) We were friends for a few months before I saw him in the gym shower. We both tried out for the gymnastics team, and neither was cut from the team.

We'd compete (in a friendly way) for girlfriends in highschool, but I never begrudged him any success he had. (Go, Rocky!) It helped that he had very different taste in girlfriends than I did.

I'd say we were always more friends than rivals.

 

[B_IanTheTall]

Just how friendly are we talking about?

It is not too hard to find another man who is very intelligent, likes water polo, likes Greek tragedies for they might not be found on every corner, there are ways to find them and possibly form a friendship.

I strongly disagree with this statement. I think that there are many more stupid men than even moderately intelligent ones; specially if they are the kind that hang around on street corners. I have met most of my better friends during college, at work or through my charitable activities. Most of my friends are of above average intelligence, but I have never checked to see how they were equipped, unless there was another reason for finding out.

It depends on if the two guys ARE big dicks, or if they just HAVE big dicks.

You took the words out of my mouth.

We didn't actually bond because of it or anything, but it certainly doesn't get in the way of our friendships.

I also didn't bond with either of my well endowed friends because of our reproductive/sexual appendages. I befriended my boyfriend during college, though we did bong sexually until six years later, thankfully two of our college friends got married. For some reason he thought I was totally straight and my looks were just his wishful thinking and I though he wouldn't bottom. How wrong we both were. The other well above average friend, my girlfriend and I met him, in a Berlin after hours back room during a black-light party.

I do admit that I am somewhat curious about some tall friends' equipment.

 

[B_UNKNOWN321]

I must apologize for the writing style of this thread. I intended to do some serious editing but was called away and editing window expired before I returned. Therefore what you have is a bit wordy and rambling. I had always been aware that guys that were well hung (very few of these in my acquaitance of course) or very wealthy or very muscular and tall or outstanding in other ways tended to be just a bit arrogant. Whether they tried not to be that way or not, they were often viewed that way. I was viewed that way for my penis size by a long term friend who caught me masturbating and discovered that his very, very small penis was indeed "inferior" to mine. I never said a word about it, but he slowly left my circle of friends and told me often that he was extremely jealous of me. Since well hung guys probably are always viewed as pompous (actually or not) in their sexual powers and attractiveness, it would seem that having the chance to be with another guy of equal or similar attributes might for once be a chance for these guys have a friendship that took another dimension not available to them earlier -- to have an equal in penis size. Seem trivial??? perhaps, but we have this whole site and many thousands of posts and members all avidly awaiting the next insight into the special joys and pains of having a large penis to attest to the mighty power of that oversized sex toy.

 

[TitanicJake]

I remember in high school we would gang bang hot girls. It was 4 or 5 of us wrestling teammates on one girl. The guy who was the biggest got to run the show. Sometimes it was me sometimes not. There was a huge level of competition during our group sex sessions.
Jake

 

[D_Elijah_MorganWood]

I've never had dick size come into play in any of my friendships. I'm sure that guys with size 13 shoes can be friends with guys with size 8 shoes.

 

[Mumzi]

My husband and his twin are the same size, and they are very close. My BIL is not married (yet) and he is over here most of the time.
I don't think it has ever been much of an issue. But, maybe it's different with friends.

 

[BIGBULL29]

In gangbangs, the biggest-dicked dude sometimes gets to run the show or has the spotlight put on him during the scene. I've witnessed this at times is gangbang scenes. The gang will eventually point out who has the biggest cock of the bunch and make him feel like the stud of studs. I just watched a porno clip of a gangbangt where the gang comments on Brian Pumper's girth size. He loves every minute of it as he screwing the hell out of vixen.

 

[dijstra1975]

I've seen just about all of my friends dicks, most of them with at least a semi too, and semi (and probably) hard I'm bigger than all but one....we all play squash, rugby and train together...

...but dick size has never been a source of competition or envy between us....unless the gang are hiding something ... we've been together as a team for over five years and nothing is taboo to talk about ...

... they all know about my GF's issues with my dick size just as I know that YYYY's gf thinks he's too small and cops off with a dildo as part of sex and that JJJJ takes it in the arse but thinks he's str8 and is getting married.

...there is a social order with an alpha male (not me) and the pack but thats just normal isn't it ...its not based on dick size and HE is very inclusive which is probably why he gets to be captain..

T

 

[B_Hickboy]

My best friend in the whole world is hung bigger than I am and we have no problems, certainly no competitive ones, at all. Period.

 

[Lordpendragon]

I have found more problems with friends who are small/average if they find out you have a big cock - particularly if their wives/girlfriends also know. Don't go to the urinals with your buddies.

 

[B_UNKNOWN321]

My best friend in the whole world is hung bigger than I am and we have no problems, certainly no competitive ones, at all. Period.

A few of you have taken exception to the idea of being competitive with a friend whether he has the larger or you the larger penis. I did not suggest that competition was a bad thing. We men are natural born competitors otherwise we would not be such sports addicts, takether vicariously or in real life, it is probably a good thing if we do not push it to an extreme and obsess over it. And of course if you are king of the mountain, you know you have the competitive edge so you have your secret little thought of superiority just a tad reinforced and we men need reinforcement and validation about our dick sizes from time to time.

 

[D_Elijah_MorganWood]

In gangbangs, the biggest-dicked dude sometimes gets to run the show or has the spotlight put on him during the scene. I've witnessed this at times is gangbang scenes. The gang will eventually point out who has the biggest cock of the bunch and make him feel like the stud of studs. I just watched a porno clip of a gangbangt where the gang comments on Brian Pumper's girth size. He loves every minute of it as he screwing the hell out of vixen.

Are you comparing porn to real life?

 

[ledroit]

no--but I think all guys are rivals. What I like best is when you find a way to stay rivals and be friends. You always have some way you've got something up on the other guy, and there is always some way he's got something up on you. But that is one thing I love most about guys, straight, gay or bi--the fun of that rivalry.

I'm a gay guy, and am very close to 4 guys who have truly huge dicks, bigger than mine--2 straight, 2 gay. But they're all bottoms (don't ask me how the straight guys are bottoms, but trust me they are) and I'm a top. So it's great. But the rivalry never stops, let me tell you. The trick is to turn it into a kind of sport you never get tired of. That creates a friendship you won't get tired of either.

 

[kurios]

I may be missing something but what has dick size got to do with friendship?

Is it not a little like asking if 2 tall people, 2 body builder etc can be friends except that I dont know and dont care about the size of my friends dicks nor would I care if some other characteristic was similar.

 

[Fire Stick]

I am sure that it really comes down to the personalities of the individuals, but generally speaking, I wonder if gay men and straight men have different perspectives in regard to this question. Two well-hung gay men may be attracted to one another, which would promote bonding rather than competition. Even without sexual attraction, they would at least have a ceratin mutual admiration that would likely be something different that what two well-hung straight men would feel for one another. Perhaps straight men would be more inclined to be instinctively competitive. (for desirable females, in theory) Just a thought. I may be wrong.

Speaking for myself, being frinds with another well-hung guy is absolutely no problem. My significant other is well-endowed, and I think he is fabulous.

 

[fratpack]

My take on this is....
I've known guys with big dicks and I've know guys who are big dicks. The ones with big dicks, I have no problem with, the ones who ARE big dicks, well, they just fall by the wayside.
I have people who are in my life for all different reasons and maybe the only one whose dick size matters to me is the bf....

 

[vinny_spiruccino]

Are you comparing porn to real life?

We could make a porn in real life baby, any day of the week & twice on Sunday.