Didn't scroll through all the pages, so some of this might cover same, or similar, ground...
This is a resounding YES...
Though not a universal yes, as the discomfort (length, in particular, many have said to me) can outweigh the pleasure.
But even women who wouldn't consciously have ever thought themselves as size queens can end up there. And it's a product of the physical contribution to the emotional experience (the reflection even more than the anticipation) that lands them there.
My estranged wife had an affair. Admitted, candidly (vs. some attempt to appease), 'that the sex wasn't good; that she didn't enjoy it; that he wasn't that big'. This despite a strong emotional connection and desire (as evidenced by the exchanged notes and photos I found) between them. And while the fingers and tongue can bring a lot to the equation, fucking is the most intense and memorable factor of sex.
If you really like feeling filled up, or if it's your norm (imagine 15+ years with me & my girth), and something less proves to be not as enjoyable or forgettable vs memorable, then, guess what...you're a size queen.
Fair enough if you want to debate fan vs fanatic. Maybe your idea of a queen is a woman that would masturbate with the fat end of a baseball bat? Practically, though, liking and craving size is fairly black and white vs not liking or caring about it. And a woman that's had bigger and admits to liking it more (and not enjoying less) has indeed been turned.